Didn’t Die in Vain

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Women we are living in a world where boyfriends, ex boyfriends, baby daddies, husbands, ex husbands and estranged husbands are not letting us go. Choose your partner wisely because leaving them could be deadly. 🥺

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Today I cried for the man he'll never become for you.
I cried because of the lies I told myself,
The very same thing you're about to do.

The day I left him I knew he would replace me with you.
He can't be alone because of his darkness he can't face.
There will always be another NEXT, he must quickly put into place.

At first, I used to feel a sense of envy for what I believed I lost to you.
As time went by my envy turned into sorrow.
I know one day; sadness would fill all of your tomorrows.
For what he's about to intentionally do to you.

After all of his lies, manipulation and the games of confusion,
I had to confront my own hard truth.
The man I feel in love with, was only an illusion.

You probably already know my name.
Although I may not know yours.
His story of victimhood will always be the same.

He will quickly pretend to love you and buy you thoughtful things.
Don't be fooled by the illusion of kindness.
It simply will not last.
One day soon, just like me, you’ll witness the slipping of his mask.

The day you see the mask begin to fall,
Don't ignore his controlling ways, especially the ones that seem so small.
The entrance to the fairy tale life you thought was completely and blissfully yours,
Is about to cruelly and suddenly close its doors.

The hurricane that ripped through my life,
Is about to cause category five destruction in yours.
As your days and nights will be filled with chaos and strife.

I wished that I could warn you, sadly I know you wouldn't believe me.
"I am crazy, a cheater a liar, a drug addict or a drunk," he’s told you.
For his plan to work, this is who he MUST paint me out to be.

I know the story all too well of the "Crazy Ex.."
For it's the same story I heard over and over.
It's the story I believed, as I was being groomed to be his NEXT.

No doubt you are beautiful, loving, and your spirit is gentle and meek.
I cried today not for the love I lost.
I cried for the love you now seek.

Not only are you smart, I'm sure you’re compassionate and kind.
I pray you remember the light inside of you.
Once he starts attempting to gaslight your mind.

The gift I now give to you is one of compassion, encouragement and love.
You are goodness, love and light.
You can make it without him, even if you think you can’t.
Living free from pain and abuse, is your divine and human right.

You're not too sensitive, overreacting or confused.
It's not your fault, you're not crazy, worthless or unlovable.
Just because he hasn't hit you yet, doesn't mean you're not being abused.

The tears I cried today, were not tears I cried for him.
You have no idea, what you are about to go through.
The tears I cried today my dear one, were no longer tears for me.
The tears I cried today, were tears I now shed for you.

Author: Tracy Brack RN, BSN, CTSS
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Domestic Violence happens every month. One month is not enough to bring awareness. When I was in an abusive marriage being made aware of stories about people who loss their lives to domestic violence made me want to leave. When I finally left my abusive marriage these same stories prevented me from going back and/or allowing him back. Maybe these same stories can be the reason why you, someone close to you or someone you don’t even know leaves.If what these people went through, all of their hurt and pain can stop someone from going through the same thing, they
“Didn’t Die In Vain”