Sacred Design

30/01/2025

29/01/2025

💜This is a harmonious easy connection, where both people bring something to the interaction that feels supportive, collaborative, or synergistic. 🦋 In Human Design, resonance might happen when two gates in a channel complement each other well because they share a purpose or theme that aligns. 💜 Example: Gate 13 (Listener) and Gate 33 (Retreat) come together to form the Channel of the Prodigal. 🦋 The person with Gate 13 is naturally attuned to hearing others’ stories, while the person with Gate 33 is skilled at synthesizing and sharing those stories at the right time. 💜 Together, they create a natural resonance in storytelling and reflection. 🦋 [email protected]

16/01/2025

FB won’t let me respond to questions on reels—I’m not ignoring you loves!
AND I’m in the midst of a HUGE project and so BUSY!
💜🦋💜

12/01/2025

Peace!

09/01/2025

🔥PALISADES FIRE!!🔥 ALL IS WELL FOR MY LOVED ONES, WE ARE THE LUCKY. 💔 FOR THOSE WHO’VE LOST MUCH AND THE FAMILIES OF THE DECEASED, I PRAY YOU FIND EVEN A MOMENT’S PEACE. 🙏🙏🙏

THEY ARE EVACUATING TO SAFETY NOW—I’LL UPDATE YOU ON THEIR PROGRESS. 

THANK YOU!! 🙏

🙏 ARRIVED TO SAFE PLACE FOR NOW. THE FIRE HAS CONTINUED TO SPREAD & IS WAY TOO CLOSE TO WHERE THEY WERE.

EARLIER…
My Morgan and Maze are here 🔥⬇️⬇️⬇️🔥. I’m very worried—they’re right in the center of several wildfires including Palisades. Now there’s another one in the Hollywood Hills!

They’re ok right now but preparing to evacuate. 😩😩😩

PLEEEZE PRAY—SEND GOOD JUJU—ANYTHING. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

02/01/2025

“Hey guys!

“I'm one of the lucky folks to have had some one on one time with Siobhan and my HD Body Graph. I wanted to say it was a very rewarding and thought provoking experience.

I was able to look at my tendencies, personality traits, and even habits I have always had in a new light. What I took from it most was seeing myself and what makes me "me" from a totally different perspective.

We all have those pieces of ourselves we'd love to "fix". But maybe it isn't about fixing ourselves at all...maybe it is about embracing our fullest self instead. And maybe that comes from a sense of knowing deeply who we are and what we really stand for.

In even the hardest of times we can recreate ourselves over again using that deep knowledge of ourselves to blaze a trail.

My advice is to try it out for yourself. You may not even realize how much of you is lying dormant beneath the surface waiting to be explored!!

Thank you Siobhan!

I enjoyed our connection immensely. :)

Samantha Ray”

01/01/2025

I will make even more typos in my posts in 2025!
I’m resolute!
🙌🎉🥳🎊

25/12/2024

Wishing you a holiday season full of warmth, connection, and deep joy. Merry Christmas to those who celebrate, and may the New Year bring a wave of peace and harmony that touches every corner of the earth. Blessings to all!

09/12/2024

💜 How are the current transits affecting your chart??

🦋 My Throat Center connects to my Identity Center.. Vulnerable…

💜 My Incarnation Cross Changed!

🦋 I have a completed channel in the Business Circuitry & a Motor to my Throat Center, (Which ”makes me a Manifesting Generator!”)

💜 Look at these transits in the list of planets below—

🦋 Are any of your Hanging Gates turned into Channels?

💜 Does your Type Change?

🦋 What Else do you see?

💜 Share in the comments if you know.

06/12/2024

💜 WHAT’S YOUR CERES PLACEMENT?

🦋 Ceres is a dwarf planet in our Solar System—and it’s actually quite a bit bigger than Chiron!

💜 Ceres is a fascinating addition to astrology—In modern astrology, Ceres is considered a dwarf planet, named after the Roman goddess of agriculture, fertility, and nurturing. It represents themes of care, nourishment, and how we provide and receive nurturing in our lives.

🦋 Here’s what Ceres symbolizes in astrology:

🍀1. Nurturing and Care: Ceres reflects how we nurture others and ourselves—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It’s linked to themes of caregiving and mothering.
🍀2. Food and Sustenance: Associated with agriculture, it governs our relationship with food, nutrition, and the physical ways we take care of our bodies.
🍀3. Loss and Grief: Ceres also has ties to cycles of loss, separation, and reunion, stemming from the myth of Ceres and her daughter Proserpina (Persephone), who was taken to the underworld.
🍀4. Earthly Cycles: It connects to natural cycles, such as birth, growth, decay, and rebirth, emphasizing our relationship with nature and sustainability.

💜 In Your Chart:

🦋 The zodiac sign and house placement of Ceres in your natal chart indicate:
🍀• How you nurture: The style in which you care for others and what makes you feel cared for.
🍀• What you need to feel supported: How you experience comfort, security, and nourishment.
🍀• Themes of loss and renewal: Where you may face separation or reunion in life.

🦋 For example:

🍀• Ceres in Ta**us might express nurturing through physical touch, delicious meals, and creating a secure environment.
🍀• Ceres in the 4th House could show a strong connection to family and home life as sources of comfort and support.

💜 It’s another dimension of YOU!

🦋 Want to find yours? 🦋
Go to Astro.com, (create your free chart if you haven’t already). Then select free horoscopes, then select “extended chart selection.” You can then add Ceres from the list.

💕 Now how about your….
💜🦋🍀Human Design chart?🍀🦋💜

💕 While Ceres has not yet been added to HD, you need only pull up your HD Mandala (ask me) and locate where Ceres sits—and here’s where you’ll see both the Gate, and the Center it Activates!

🍀My Ceres is in 1° Aquarius, astrologically.

🍀And it’s in Gate 41, Line 2, in the Divine Timing or Root Center in my Human Design Chart!

🦋🦋Let us know what you come up with!

06/12/2024

Be sure to check out this Free, Quick, Fun, Human Design Training!

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18/11/2024

💜 It’s Time to Talk About Spiritual Bypassing and The Pitfalls of “All Love and Light” vs 😎 EMPOWERMENT THROUGH CONNECTION….

🦋 As much as I adore the idea of living in a perpetual state of love and light, (seriously, who wouldn’t want that?) we need to talk about something crucial: 😶‍🌫️ denying feelings—ours, others—and often just feelings Altogether.

💜 Here’s the thing: we’re born with feelings for a reason. If we’ve ever been around newborns for a length of time, we know they Speak in “Feelings.”

🦋 In fact, their cries are a language all their own and we quickly learn to decipher them.
—“I’m hungry” cry, or “something’s wrong” cry, or even an “I’m angry and you’d better do something about it” cry.

💜 AND THIS TEACHES US HOW TO CONNECT. We’re all born with feelings—and the idea is to mature in our ability to Communicate them…..

🦋 BE CLEAR THOUGH—As we grow up, We Do Not Lose our Capacity to Feel—But, we Do tend to become Conditioned to believe that our feelings are a Problem, especially if they’re not the “happy” kind……
😑 (So we disconnect from them by stuffing them with food and other things).

💜 And here’s where it gets sad: I’ve had countless clients who come to me struggling to even identify what they’re feeling.

🦋 They’ve actually been so conditioned they think something’s wrong with them for even having feelings, especially the intense “negative” ones.

💜 But let me tell you something that’s so important: It’s not only human to feel All feelings—it’s Critical to acknowledge and feel our feelings—fully.

🦋 They’re Completely 💯 Normal.
AND THEY ARE TRANSMITTERS FOR US—HARBINGERS OF POWERFUL MESSAGES.

💜 But when we won’t go there (especially if we are coaches/leaders) because we believe it’s only ok to be all Love and Light—all the time…..

🦋 —We do a disservice not only to ourselves but to those who we care about or who look to us for leadership.

💜 We can’t just slap on a feel-good phrase or say “just think positive” when someone’s struggling. That’s spiritual bypassing, and it’s not only ineffective—it’s harmful.
👁️(Plus, there is much Shadow here we need to look at.)

🦋 We erase their experience—which to that person is erasing them—because it’s just not ok for them to be who they are around us.

💜 So we just pushed them away. And although they probably won’t say so due to said bypassing—👀 they no longer trust us.

🦋 NOW…there’s an Important distinction here….

💜 That Doesn’t mean there aren’t times when as coaches, mentors or guides to them, we aren’t called to help clients break out of clear self-sabotage patterns that involve “feelings patterns.”

🦋 But that’s the key: understanding the difference between a feeling that needs to be honored, heard and worked through—and a repetitive pattern (the feeling Still needs to be honored & Heard) that also needs gentle, conscious intervention.

💜 And that’s a Very Nuanced Conversation that requires Mastery.

🦋 But when we dismiss or belittle someone’s feelings, we isolate them even more.

💜 We make them feel unheard, unseen, and very much alone.

🦋 And Ultimately, I believe most often that’s the Opposite of what we’re actually trying to do.

💜 Please know that I f You’re Going Through It and You Feel Scared to express Your Feelings, it IS okay—Feelings are not “wrong.” What we do with them may be unhealthy.

🦋 You’re allowed to feel what you feel.

💜 In fact, you need to feel what you’re feeling.

🦋 Because until we acknowledge our emotions and hear what they’re trying to tell us, they will persist—until they’re heard.

💜 —Which Translates to Major Anxiety in the mean time. 😩

🦋 They will continue to show up in all kinds of masked ways—And it’s just plain easier to deal with them when they first appear.

💜 THIS AVOIDANCE OF FEELINGS—Underpins so many Mental Health Challenges.

🦋 Part of what I’m passionate about is encouraging a Deeper Level of Listening—to Ourselves and to Each Other.

💜 This means honoring the full range of human emotion, not just brushing it off or giving advice that skips over the heart of what’s going on.

🍀🦋 —NOW TAKE A LOOK AT THIS CRUCIAL PIECE OF THIS PUZZLE:

💜 Let’s talk about something that confuses a lot of people—the difference between Feeling emotions and Acting Them Out. 🫣

🦋 Emotional Maturity is Sorely Lacking in Society. And Emotional Maturity Doesn’t mean you don’t Feel things like anger or sadness…

💜 It means Understanding those feelings Without letting them morph into Acting Out the feelings in Harmful ways, like..

💔 -Lashing Out at Others
💔 -Being Passive-Aggressive
💔 -Manipulating Others
💔 -Bullying
💔 -Self Harming
💔 -Compulsive Behaviors
💔 -And Other Creative Ways Feelings Will Try to Get Our Attention—
(Albeit ineffectively).

🦋 This is SO IMPORTANT because it’s where people often Misunderstand—and it All Falls Apart.

💜 Feeling sad or angry ISN’T the problem. But acting in ways that hurt ourselves or others?

🦋 THAT IS EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY—and it backfires even if it feels powerful in the moment.

💜 We need to stop conflating the two and start getting Curious about Our Own Emotional Landscapes.

🦋 TO BE CLEAR—this Doesn’t mean we have to somehow “Agree with others Feelings”—if that’s your thought—check yourself Because it’s Not Even About That.

💜 But In Fact, there’s a good chance we’re Judging the Other—which is Why we try to Fix or Dismiss them.

🦋 So often we think we’re being helpful by throwing spiritual platitudes at someone in pain.

💜 But in reality, we’re just dismissing their Truth—AND WE ARE Avoiding Real Connection.

🦋 Try holding a little bit of space instead by relating it to a time You had feelings like this—not the same situation—but Feelings.

💜 Because if We want Others to Hear Us—we can’t realistically expect that if We Aaren’t Willing To Do the Same.

🦋 When we give the other the sense that we see them—we’re here to listen, Then we can watch the magic unfold in all interactions……
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….Because that Simple yet Mature Acknowledgment—can change everything.

💜 So my loves, here’s my invitation: Don’t bypass Your feelings or Anyone else’s.
😰(Exception: When They’re Being Abusive—Disengage: Safety First Always.)

🦋 Listen to what they’re telling you. And remember, being human means having the full, beautiful, complex range of emotions.

💜 Connect—have limits (boundaries) and give each other permission to be fully, authentically human.

🦋 Here’s the GOOD NEWS:
If you need help with this you’re NOT alone—
🍀—Pop Up Coaching—on demand, real-time Voice and Text Coaching
Will….
🦋 Walk You Through These Situations in Real Time—🍀 AS THEY’RE HAPPENING—So You Can Handle Them Masterfully and Gracefully—
💖 Learn as You Go—kind of like an Apprenticeship for Top Notch Communication.

💜🦋🍀 Message me here or write to [email protected] 🍀🦋💜

💖 I see you
💖 I hear you
💖 I understand you—and I understand Human Behavior.

🦋 Sending Loads of Empowerment, Love, and Connection to You,

🍀 Vaughn Marie