Sacred Design

09/12/2024

💜 How are the current transits affecting your chart??

🦋 My Throat Center connects to my Identity Center.. Vulnerable…

💜 My Incarnation Cross Changed!

🦋 I have a completed channel in the Business Circuitry & a Motor to my Throat Center, (Which ”makes me a Manifesting Generator!”)

💜 Look at these transits in the list of planets below—

🦋 Are any of your Hanging Gates turned into Channels?

💜 Does your Type Change?

🦋 What Else do you see?

💜 Share in the comments if you know.

06/12/2024

💜 WHAT’S YOUR CERES PLACEMENT?

🦋 Ceres is a dwarf planet in our Solar System—and it’s actually quite a bit bigger than Chiron!

💜 Ceres is a fascinating addition to astrology—In modern astrology, Ceres is considered a dwarf planet, named after the Roman goddess of agriculture, fertility, and nurturing. It represents themes of care, nourishment, and how we provide and receive nurturing in our lives.

🦋 Here’s what Ceres symbolizes in astrology:

🍀1. Nurturing and Care: Ceres reflects how we nurture others and ourselves—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It’s linked to themes of caregiving and mothering.
🍀2. Food and Sustenance: Associated with agriculture, it governs our relationship with food, nutrition, and the physical ways we take care of our bodies.
🍀3. Loss and Grief: Ceres also has ties to cycles of loss, separation, and reunion, stemming from the myth of Ceres and her daughter Proserpina (Persephone), who was taken to the underworld.
🍀4. Earthly Cycles: It connects to natural cycles, such as birth, growth, decay, and rebirth, emphasizing our relationship with nature and sustainability.

💜 In Your Chart:

🦋 The zodiac sign and house placement of Ceres in your natal chart indicate:
🍀• How you nurture: The style in which you care for others and what makes you feel cared for.
🍀• What you need to feel supported: How you experience comfort, security, and nourishment.
🍀• Themes of loss and renewal: Where you may face separation or reunion in life.

🦋 For example:

🍀• Ceres in Ta**us might express nurturing through physical touch, delicious meals, and creating a secure environment.
🍀• Ceres in the 4th House could show a strong connection to family and home life as sources of comfort and support.

💜 It’s another dimension of YOU!

🦋 Want to find yours? 🦋
Go to Astro.com, (create your free chart if you haven’t already). Then select free horoscopes, then select “extended chart selection.” You can then add Ceres from the list.

💕 Now how about your….
💜🦋🍀Human Design chart?🍀🦋💜

💕 While Ceres has not yet been added to HD, you need only pull up your HD Mandala (ask me) and locate where Ceres sits—and here’s where you’ll see both the Gate, and the Center it Activates!

🍀My Ceres is in 1° Aquarius, astrologically.

🍀And it’s in Gate 41, Line 2, in the Divine Timing or Root Center in my Human Design Chart!

🦋🦋Let us know what you come up with!

06/12/2024

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18/11/2024

💜 It’s Time to Talk About Spiritual Bypassing and The Pitfalls of “All Love and Light” vs 😎 EMPOWERMENT THROUGH CONNECTION….

🦋 As much as I adore the idea of living in a perpetual state of love and light, (seriously, who wouldn’t want that?) we need to talk about something crucial: 😶‍🌫️ denying feelings—ours, others—and often just feelings Altogether.

💜 Here’s the thing: we’re born with feelings for a reason. If we’ve ever been around newborns for a length of time, we know they Speak in “Feelings.”

🦋 In fact, their cries are a language all their own and we quickly learn to decipher them.
—“I’m hungry” cry, or “something’s wrong” cry, or even an “I’m angry and you’d better do something about it” cry.

💜 AND THIS TEACHES US HOW TO CONNECT. We’re all born with feelings—and the idea is to mature in our ability to Communicate them…..

🦋 BE CLEAR THOUGH—As we grow up, We Do Not Lose our Capacity to Feel—But, we Do tend to become Conditioned to believe that our feelings are a Problem, especially if they’re not the “happy” kind……
😑 (So we disconnect from them by stuffing them with food and other things).

💜 And here’s where it gets sad: I’ve had countless clients who come to me struggling to even identify what they’re feeling.

🦋 They’ve actually been so conditioned they think something’s wrong with them for even having feelings, especially the intense “negative” ones.

💜 But let me tell you something that’s so important: It’s not only human to feel All feelings—it’s Critical to acknowledge and feel our feelings—fully.

🦋 They’re Completely 💯 Normal.
AND THEY ARE TRANSMITTERS FOR US—HARBINGERS OF POWERFUL MESSAGES.

💜 But when we won’t go there (especially if we are coaches/leaders) because we believe it’s only ok to be all Love and Light—all the time…..

🦋 —We do a disservice not only to ourselves but to those who we care about or who look to us for leadership.

💜 We can’t just slap on a feel-good phrase or say “just think positive” when someone’s struggling. That’s spiritual bypassing, and it’s not only ineffective—it’s harmful.
👁️(Plus, there is much Shadow here we need to look at.)

🦋 We erase their experience—which to that person is erasing them—because it’s just not ok for them to be who they are around us.

💜 So we just pushed them away. And although they probably won’t say so due to said bypassing—👀 they no longer trust us.

🦋 NOW…there’s an Important distinction here….

💜 That Doesn’t mean there aren’t times when as coaches, mentors or guides to them, we aren’t called to help clients break out of clear self-sabotage patterns that involve “feelings patterns.”

🦋 But that’s the key: understanding the difference between a feeling that needs to be honored, heard and worked through—and a repetitive pattern (the feeling Still needs to be honored & Heard) that also needs gentle, conscious intervention.

💜 And that’s a Very Nuanced Conversation that requires Mastery.

🦋 But when we dismiss or belittle someone’s feelings, we isolate them even more.

💜 We make them feel unheard, unseen, and very much alone.

🦋 And Ultimately, I believe most often that’s the Opposite of what we’re actually trying to do.

💜 Please know that I f You’re Going Through It and You Feel Scared to express Your Feelings, it IS okay—Feelings are not “wrong.” What we do with them may be unhealthy.

🦋 You’re allowed to feel what you feel.

💜 In fact, you need to feel what you’re feeling.

🦋 Because until we acknowledge our emotions and hear what they’re trying to tell us, they will persist—until they’re heard.

💜 —Which Translates to Major Anxiety in the mean time. 😩

🦋 They will continue to show up in all kinds of masked ways—And it’s just plain easier to deal with them when they first appear.

💜 THIS AVOIDANCE OF FEELINGS—Underpins so many Mental Health Challenges.

🦋 Part of what I’m passionate about is encouraging a Deeper Level of Listening—to Ourselves and to Each Other.

💜 This means honoring the full range of human emotion, not just brushing it off or giving advice that skips over the heart of what’s going on.

🍀🦋 —NOW TAKE A LOOK AT THIS CRUCIAL PIECE OF THIS PUZZLE:

💜 Let’s talk about something that confuses a lot of people—the difference between Feeling emotions and Acting Them Out. 🫣

🦋 Emotional Maturity is Sorely Lacking in Society. And Emotional Maturity Doesn’t mean you don’t Feel things like anger or sadness…

💜 It means Understanding those feelings Without letting them morph into Acting Out the feelings in Harmful ways, like..

💔 -Lashing Out at Others
💔 -Being Passive-Aggressive
💔 -Manipulating Others
💔 -Bullying
💔 -Self Harming
💔 -Compulsive Behaviors
💔 -And Other Creative Ways Feelings Will Try to Get Our Attention—
(Albeit ineffectively).

🦋 This is SO IMPORTANT because it’s where people often Misunderstand—and it All Falls Apart.

💜 Feeling sad or angry ISN’T the problem. But acting in ways that hurt ourselves or others?

🦋 THAT IS EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY—and it backfires even if it feels powerful in the moment.

💜 We need to stop conflating the two and start getting Curious about Our Own Emotional Landscapes.

🦋 TO BE CLEAR—this Doesn’t mean we have to somehow “Agree with others Feelings”—if that’s your thought—check yourself Because it’s Not Even About That.

💜 But In Fact, there’s a good chance we’re Judging the Other—which is Why we try to Fix or Dismiss them.

🦋 So often we think we’re being helpful by throwing spiritual platitudes at someone in pain.

💜 But in reality, we’re just dismissing their Truth—AND WE ARE Avoiding Real Connection.

🦋 Try holding a little bit of space instead by relating it to a time You had feelings like this—not the same situation—but Feelings.

💜 Because if We want Others to Hear Us—we can’t realistically expect that if We Aaren’t Willing To Do the Same.

🦋 When we give the other the sense that we see them—we’re here to listen, Then we can watch the magic unfold in all interactions……
⬇️⬇️⬇️
….Because that Simple yet Mature Acknowledgment—can change everything.

💜 So my loves, here’s my invitation: Don’t bypass Your feelings or Anyone else’s.
😰(Exception: When They’re Being Abusive—Disengage: Safety First Always.)

🦋 Listen to what they’re telling you. And remember, being human means having the full, beautiful, complex range of emotions.

💜 Connect—have limits (boundaries) and give each other permission to be fully, authentically human.

🦋 Here’s the GOOD NEWS:
If you need help with this you’re NOT alone—
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Will….
🦋 Walk You Through These Situations in Real Time—🍀 AS THEY’RE HAPPENING—So You Can Handle Them Masterfully and Gracefully—
💖 Learn as You Go—kind of like an Apprenticeship for Top Notch Communication.

💜🦋🍀 Message me here or write to [email protected] 🍀🦋💜

💖 I see you
💖 I hear you
💖 I understand you—and I understand Human Behavior.

🦋 Sending Loads of Empowerment, Love, and Connection to You,

🍀 Vaughn Marie

08/11/2024

🌈 Our Commitment to Inclusivity, Support, and Justice for All 🌈

In this space, everyone is welcome, valued, and celebrated for who they are. We stand in solidarity not only with our Trans and LGBTQ+ community members but with all people who face oppression and marginalization. We believe in the inherent dignity of every human being, regardless of race, gender identity, sexual orientation, religion, ability, or socioeconomic status.

✨ We Believe In:
• Respect for all identities: Your gender identity, pronouns, and self-expression are valid and honored here.
• Celebrating diversity: Our community thrives when we embrace and uplift the differences that make us unique.
• Standing with all oppressed communities: We are committed to advocating for justice, equity, and human rights for everyone, especially those who have been historically marginalized and oppressed.
• Creating a world of equity: We acknowledge that the fight for equality goes beyond individual communities. It’s about collective liberation and ensuring that every person has the right to live safely, freely, and with dignity.

Together, we can build a more inclusive and just world. 💙💜❤️💛

06/11/2024

Reach out if you’re not ok.
💜🦋💜

06/11/2024

Whatever you’re feeling right now is valid.
What do you need to do to ground?
Do that. Keep it simple.
Breathe…….

03/11/2024

One of Our Tribe.. Brilliant!! A Must Read..

Shifting from survival to safety and support !
As a collective we are shifting from being heavily survival based to more emotionally intelligent beings

This is going to be interesting times to journey when we have been taught to base our decision on survival fight flight and we react to everything

We are re-wiring our selves to be more emotionally responsible

This means really looking at how we are acting being and speaking with people in the world around us and making small tweaks to do things differently

Really looking at our selves and diving into understanding how our enegy works and how we can work in harmony with others energy

Being more compassionate with ourselves and others
Not being a doormat but setting clear boundaries around your enegy with kindness

This sometimes means speaking into your boundaries which at first may feel uncomfortable but can improve over time with more trust and practice

This may mean releasing some of the trapped emotions so you can feel more freedom

Be kind, learn about yourself not what the world has told you to be like. Experience things and allow yourself to find what feels good to you

Be you no matter how that looks 💛💛💛

Photo info - dress up for Halloween but honestly felt amazing to dress like this and be ok with this

24/10/2024

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24/10/2024

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22/10/2024

15/10/2024

🦋🍀HD WEATHER REPORT FOR THIS WEEK—CONDENSED!🍀🦋

💜🦋 Hey, loves! Let’s dive into the energy this week—because it’s one you’ll want to be aware of if you’re feeling a bit wobbly.

🦋 Right now, the Sun is sitting in Gate 32, which is all about continuity and transformation—while at the same time it’s one of those pesky Splenic Fear Gates—The Fear of Failure. 😑

💜 It’s like that part of you that’s quietly asking, “Am I gonna make it? Is this even working?”—you know how fear of failure creeps in…

🦋 But here’s the thing: while this energy can stir up doubts, it’s also reminding you that endurance and patience are key —or an opportunity to build those muscles.

💜 So this week is a chance to check in with yourself—where are you holding on to old ways of doing things that no longer serve you?

🦋 More importantly, what small aligned adjustments can you make to keep moving forward?

💜 Look—I get it—change can be uncomfortable, and when that fear pops up, it’s easy to just retreat.

🦋 But instead of resisting, look for ways to lean into this energy and use it as fuel to grow—

💜 And remember, you don’t have to do it all at once—just taking a few small steps can make a huge difference.

🦋 The good news? We’ve got Gate 42 grounding this energy with themes of endings and new cycles.

💜 So, if there’s something you’ve been holding onto that’s run its course, this might be the perfect time to let it go.

🦋 Remembering of course—use your Strategy and Authority to see if it’s time to wrap things up or invest a little more energy before making a final decision.

💜 You’ve got this! Trust yourself, and trust the process.

🦋 And Yay! Next week we’re moving into Gate 50, which is all about nurturing and values. 🎉🥳😀

💜 So, if things feel a little heavy now, there’s some heart-centered energy on the way to soften things up!

🦋 Much Love & Empowerment, Always Held Here for You,

💜 Vaughn Marie

13/10/2024

Spent today cleaning & CLEARING w PALO SANTO.
My neighbor said “Ghosts were walking around the whole time you were gone!”
Little does she know it was my Ancestors watching over the place—as asked. 😂🍀🍀🍀

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