Intimacy Advisor Podcast

25/07/2022

Happy National B**M Day! B**M is a highly creative kind of play with limitless possibilities. This week's episode celebrates the different flavors of Kink. Learn the definitions and differences of Kink, B**M and Fe**sh play. Episode 75 covers negotiation, play and aftercare practices for ensuring safety and maintaining consent. Sarah also explores ways to expand your vocabulary of touch, talk and tools on any budget. You'll also discover a few scenarios to get you started on your kinky explorations. Temperature play, full body spankings and sensory deprivation awaits you!

15/07/2022

On this week's Sarah drops a ton of k**b knowledge 👉️ From satisfying hand techniques and how to create firmer, more sensitive erections to flaccid play and the squeeze method for delaying ej*******on! Discover which toys are best for the Big D and more. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts.
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06/07/2022

Tis the season for hitting the beach, the road, and all locations near and far. But, what toys do you bring?? In the most recent episode of Intimacy Advisor, Sarah covers the most discreet and compact products that pack a punch to liven up your adventures, as well as the newest innovations that will guarantee your s*xcapades are as luxurious as your trip. Whether you've got vacation on the calendar or on your mind, you do not want to miss out on these must-have travel-friendly toy recs! Find us where you listen to podcasts. 💦

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25/06/2022

Getting in touch with what you want – what you actually want – is incredibly empowering! But, where do you start? In the most recent episode of , Sarah takes listeners through a simple process for naming your desires and taking action towards them. Using tools like the Feelings Wheel and the Desire Map simplifies what may otherwise feel like a daunting process. Now it’s just up to you to go after your desires with wild abandon!

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15/06/2022

Curious about mutual pleasure with your partner? Expanding your penetrative play options? Exploring new power dynamics with your partner/s? Then strap-on play is for you! Many people get discouraged or intimidated by the gear, which is why Sarah is breaking down all of the basics for you - choosing your equipment, the ways to have the most control over your harness and d***o and fun tips and tricks for enhancing pleasure for both partners. This episode is chalk full of product recommendations!

05/06/2022

Happy Pride! 🌈 In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term q***r, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be confined by labels of the LGBTQIA+ community, and why she loves the term so much. For anyone looking for a quick q***r history lesson to kick off Pride month, interested to learn how the term became reclaimed as a badge of honor, or q***r curious - this episode is for you. Enjoy!

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05/04/2022

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1RUuOun63EeNnjOI0ArSAI
Spring has sprung! Tis the season of vibe checks and new relationships. Are you feeling a little out of practice with dating? Are you tired of going on first dates that don’t go anywhere? Struggling to find other s*x-positive matches? This week Sarah is joined by educator, author, and body acceptance influencer Elle Chase talking about the ins and outs of post-pandemic dating dynamics. It can be scary to communicate what you want and need from a new date, to find the f*ck buddy of your dreams, or dive into the world of online dating. Elle shares her favorite platforms and approaches for finding hookups, friends with benefits or a committed partner. The two also share tips for couples who want to keep the flame of dating life alive and well in their relationship! 💞
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25/03/2022

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5S7D1fMO7NxLymVgjgFOnm
Episode 63 is live and the perfect companion to our recent series on Org@sms! Want to know more about how your mind, your body and your breath work together to allow for surrender and release? In this episode, Sarah shares a number of tools for finding your org@smic potential. We cover getting to know your s*xual scripts, diving into your Erotic Blueprint, discovering your touch vocabulary with an Erotic Body Scan and why s*x toys are so helpful for finding and expanding your or***ms!

17/03/2022

Looking to get lucky? We've got you covered! Dive into recent episodes Multiple Os, Awakening Arousal and Date Night Overhaul for expert advice on how to get some (exactly like you want it).
We released our most recent episode this week and it didn't go live right away. Apologies for anyone who tried to find it and couldn't! It's live now.
https://open.spotify.com/show/7yo4ZEkB97Cwumb9qDsgn7?si=Yx81R75gSriq9NCOY32ZjQ&nd=1

15/03/2022

https://open.spotify.com/episode/25zO72PkNCmZNsyZ90XHki
Today's episode is LIVE and if you've been listening along, you know we've been working up to this... Multiple Os! Learn how to catch and ride the waves of Multiple O💦. Sarah covers tips and techniques for anyone interested in expanding their pleasure potential. From the squeeze method and the power of exercising your Kegels; to layering sensations or moaning your way there. There's something for everyone!

04/03/2022

https://open.spotify.com/episode/64OFx3hVMKNulgHvgMI5JF
Understanding the building blocks in our body for experiencing s*xual pleasure can help demystify roadblocks to or**sm, our partner's needs and so much more! Sarah walks you through her favorite nerdy topic - Anatomy - and gives you tips along the way! Everything you need to know about the ge****ls AND how stimulate all of those juicy nerve endings is in this episode. Don't miss out on all of this good pleasure-based information no one taught us school.

25/02/2022

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nL9Zu1Ic6LB5Lbna5QBJY
Arousal is an overlooked building block to expansive org*smic experiences. Sarah debunks common confusion around arousal, breaks down the nuances of different types of desire, and explains the importance of context. If you’re looking for ways to turn up your desire, understand your libido and gain more control over your arousal cycle then this episode is for you!

10/02/2022

New episode is up 👆
The most popular date night of the year is upon us – Valentine’s Day! When is the last time you changed up your date night routines? Getting tired of Netflix and chill? Want to engage with your partner in new and different ways? This episode offers a ton of creative (and hot) date ideas and ways to make a gift of the date experience. Sarah's date night suggestions are made for relationships new and old and all love languages ❤️💋
https://omny.fm/shows/intimacy-advisor-podcast/date-night-overhaul

04/02/2022

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and we’ve got you covered! This episode is dedicated to Sarah’s favorite toys. Toys can be a way to enhance your connection, create unique sensations, and bring creativity into your play. We cover toys for any experience you may be looking to create this Valentine’s day; from sensual CBD massages to adventurous date nights or trying bo***ge for the first time. You can find all products mentioned on the pod and more at
Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! ❤️
https://omny.fm/shows/intimacy-advisor-podcast/episode-58-valentines-day-gift-guide

25/01/2022

To kick off Valentine's Day season, episode 57 of the pod landed today. It is part 2 to our very first (and very popular!) episode about the original 5 Love Languages. This episode explores expanded concepts around the love languages, what to do when you and your partner’s love languages don’t match up, and how to ask for what you want and need!

15/01/2022

Episode 56 is here 🗣

Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggling to feel s*xy? Body acceptance is a process. Host Sarah TomTom offers a variety of tips for affirming and accentuating your body in ways that helps you build confidence and self-love.

15/01/2022

Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggling to feel s*xy? Body acceptance is a process. Host Sarah TomTom offers a variety of tips for affirming and accentuating your body in ways that helps...

05/01/2022

New Year, New Pod! Episode 55: Pleasure Resolutions is live! Today, we welcome our new host, Sarah TomTom. Sarah's talking about how to approach your New Year's goals and resolutions with pleasure in mind and ways to incorporate pleasure into all of your routines. How do you want to feel? Let's help you get there! 😍

05/01/2022

We are kicking the New Year off with a new host, Sarah TomTom. S*x Educator and founder of Damiana Productions. This week we are talking about prioritizing pleasure in our routines and incorporating pleasure into our New Year’s goals and resolutions. This episode is sure to get you thinking about ...

18/10/2021

Trick or Treat?! In Episode 53 we talk about TikTok trending s*x toys and products, how to give the easiest and best blow job ever, and helpful hints for awesome oral. Be sure to check out our Intimacy Advisor blog and shop Lover's Lane!

11/10/2021

It's time for the talk...about how the s*x ed we've learned as young adults doesn't add up to what you grow to learn. No one teaches pleasure, they don't teach how to explore your preferences, and the part I hate the most is they don't teach LGBT+ s*x education. We need to change that. Send this epi...

04/10/2021

Episode 51 is all about ni***es! If you're wondering what products and creams and gels do all the best job of tugging, sucking, clamping, and caressing your way to a ni**le or**sm (yes that's real!) look no further. Don't forget to shop Lover's Lane for all the best titillating toys ;)

27/09/2021

Are you tired of faking it?! I bet you are. But why are we faking? Is it our fault? Our partners? Technique? Skill? The real reason behind it can be a few different things but it mostly boils down to 1) either our bodies don't want to (weird, right?) or 2) lack of s*x education. (Not a big shocker t...

20/09/2021

Now's the season of layering your clothes! But what's this... a s*xy surprise for your partner after date night? You betcha! In Episode 49, you'll learn about different styles of lingerie and on what body works the very best for what style as well as some s*xy layered outfit ideas on how to s*x-up y...

06/07/2021

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0dkEo5rHqarIV8tdYmxWMF?si=9Q-QkRkbS4KH6nXQmn6JOQ&dl_branch=1

Have you heard?! Listen to Episode 38 to learn more about Prostate Play!

19/04/2021

Stress Less with CBD in the Bedroom! The newest episode of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast discusses who can benefit from CBD intimate products, why CBD is gaining popularity so quickly, and how you can find the best product for YOU! 🌿💚
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3H09kbW4yVaIm9igvRJykS?si=1ef38ebed82b4bf9

04/03/2021

Newest episode of our podcast is now available! Don't miss wise words from Dr. Sadie Allison on the Intimacy Advisor Podcast.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2L7WyP8dqJT8qO5z09q2NW?si=0cf3474254144357

Don't miss out on our latest podcast! Special guest Dr Sadie Allison
https://loverslanepodcast.podbean.com/

28/01/2021

https://open.spotify.com/episode/22lQ6iyptwQWcr6yDArZDm?si=2fm8IrseQQKN789PCyNO2A

Our newest episode will guide you to the BEST Valentine's you could ever hope for 😘

28/01/2021

22/01/2021

Valentine's Day is upon us! What plans do you have for 2021's Covid-VDay?