Ewade Abdulsalam (2024)

10/04/2023

Dear Lady.

Every body knows you need a man who can take care of you and meet your needs, financial and otherwise.

No body expects you to marry a Man who will bring you into a life of suffering and hardship because he lacks financial wisdom, prudence and vision

But please,

Don't Marry a Man who will use his Money to silence your voice

Don't marry a Man who wlll give you Money and take your Happiness, Peace and Joy.

Many Women live in MANSIONS and in MISERY

Many Women can't open their mouth to say what they go through in their Marriages with their Rich, Powerful and Celebrity Husbands..

Dear Lady, you may see and place your financial needs as yor top priority now, when you get married, you will suddenly understand that a Woman, you also have Emotional needs and Physical needs.

Don't Marry a Man who presents a Financial Solution and then balances that with Spiritual, Physical and Emotional Problems.

You need a Man who is balanced.

Money is good but Money is not everything.

As a Woman, have a handwork,
Work, Earn Money.
Don't depend on any Man for ALL your financial needs, it's a path to disrespect.

You can work and buy a Car for yourself, many women have done so.
You can build a house for yourself.

And even if you can't, be content with what you can provide for yourself, be proud that you aren't selling your body like others are doing to live exotic lifestyles that they can't afford.

Let the Money a Man brings be an addition, something you can at least eat, cloth and survive without.

Yes, Marriage can bring a Woman out of poverty,
Yes, a Husband can be a Woman's destiny helper, like Boaz was to Ruth.
Yes, God can use marriage as a solution to a Woman's and a family's financial predicament, I'm not arguing this.

But if you chose to use this route to fame and wealth, please make sure you are not just marrying a Rich Man, but a good Man as well.

If he beats you up, Run.
If he threatens you, Run
If he mocks you, Run

22/03/2023

Ramadan Mubarak 🙏🙏🤲
More of it on Earth bijahi rosul 🙏🤲🤲🤲

17/03/2023

®She's not properly dressed, no hijab, no scarf, instead of you to preach to her, you are shouting "WOW!!! you look s*xy.... Brother u are part of the problem.

®Rasulullah (saw) said "if you know what I know, you'll laugh less and cry more"does that ring a bell in our head? do we have to see b4 we believe? Pls repent

® I want to have money, I want to marry a beautiful wife, I want marry a handsome guy, I want to buy a nice car, I want to build a big house, is that all we think about? We will all die & leave all these. Walahi...

® You think regret is when u did not marry the man/woman u wanted, or did not study d course u liked? NO! Regret is you reaching the grave without enough good deeds" # Subhanallah

®Rich, poor, pretty, ugly, slim, fat, literate, illiterate, white, black, ustaz, pastor, player, King, slave, DEATH does not care who u are, when its time, you are going"

® Someone is dead & you are alive, someone is sick & u are healthy, someone is lost & you are guided, why then are u sad coz someone is rich & you are poor? why are you ungrateful?

®Oh! see Benz, Chai see house, damn! see that babe/guy" the world is just a play & illusion, its beauty doesn't last, don't be carried away, seek Jannah"

®On Qiyamah, people will be naked, but the fear of judgement will not allow u look, have that fear now and stop asking, uploading or downloading n**e pics...

®Haba! Qiyamah still far na, because Dajjal never come, Mahdi never show up, even gog and magog. I go Repent before then. Abi??? if you die tonight your judgement has started

®Body no be firewood " Seriously? Is that why you commit zina? You no know say na d same body dem go carry do firewood 4 hell? Don't allow yours to be among. .

®Did I pass maths & English? What's ur jamb score? U graduate with 1st class? Haba! Those are the only things u care about? He memorised Qur'an. Do u

®Drive your mom go market, u go dey vex, but u Sabi do ajayi driver 4 girl from morning till night.
Jummah mufeedah

16/03/2023

1_I have NEVER heard Pastors preaching about the Maps behind the Bible. I think they are hiding directions to HEAVEN from us*

2_You are dating 5 people and you say you are in a
relationship Sister you are not in a relationship....You are in a MEETING

3_When am bored I call MTN customer care and ask why my phone isn’t charging…

4_Breast-less girl still wearing bra. What are you trying to hold? Your heart or your feelings

5_Money is the root of all evil..but poverty is the complete tree ..infact a forest. An evil forest for that matter.

6_I will not be impressed with technology until I can download food.

7_You don't treat your girl right, another guy comes and treats her
like the queen that she is, she dumps you for him and now you're calling her a Cheat..... The thunder that will fire you is still doing press-up!!

8_Ladies being single ends at 25. You can’t be 26+ and you are talking of being single. Your not single but Unmarried. Say it with me:
I am U.N.M.A.R.R.I.E.D

9_You won't know how broke you are until the bank manager calls you and ask if you are still alive

10_When some people are acting so important, Just skip them like the first slice of bread.

11_The Way this weather is Hot this Days, I won't be surprised if fowls start laying boiled eggs in fact let me be going.

12_No Matter How Arrogant & Disrespectful You're, U will always Obey Running Stomach

13_English has a habit of running away in a serious moment

14_I always double check my spelling before I post anything because of this unemployed FACEBOOK English professor*

15_Some of you ladies also want to be loyal to your boyfriends but the economy doesn’t allow you

16_You are a yellow bone but you are still bleaching your skin... My sister and brother, are you trying to become invisible??

Good Afternoon here 🖊️😍

16/03/2023

Rich People Are On Instagram, Fine People Are On Tiktok, Violent People Are On Twitter
Guess the people wey full FACEBOOK 🙄🚶🚶

16/03/2023

ADVICE FOR WIFE

When you become a wife, once in a while, look at your husband's face when he is asleep.
That is the person who has no blood relationship with you but keeps trying to love you.
Once in a while when your husband comes home from work or from his place of business, look at his face, kiss his hand.
That is the hand that is working hard to find sustenance to provide you and your children
In fact, before the marriage contract he had no debt of gratitude to you.
In fact, he has a debt of gratitude to his father and his mother.
He chose you before he could repay all his parents' debt of gratitude.
Once in a while when you are alone with him, look at your husband, look at his face with affection and full of respect.
it's the face that's struggling out there, it's the face that's burning in the hot sun, it's the face that holds back the heat of the sun and sometimes ignores himself, ignores his own safety, only because of you and your children.
Their sacrifice, the sacrifice of a hard worker very noble
Islam highly respects people who have a high work ethic. People who work can be said to be jihad fi sabilillah,
As the Prophet (SAW) said:
Who works hard to make a living for his family, then he is a mujahid fi sabilillah.(Narrated by Ahmad).
The Messenger of Allah. also said:
Whoever in the afternoon feels exhausted because of the work of his hands, then in the afternoon he gets forgiveness. (HR. ath-Thabarani and al-Baihaqi).
I salute and look respectfully at people whose hands are black and rough because they seek sustenance in the way of Allah SWT .
And I salute and look respectfully for all the struggle of a man who seeks sustenance in the way of Allah, seeking halal sustenance for his family
Don't give up brothers, fathers, all men with father's titles out there.
May Allah SWT protect you and give everything you want for your family (Aamin)

16/03/2023

Look at my Dp and look one things that feet me🤣🤷🤷
1 dancer ...2 Singer...3 comedian...4 Actress...5 military 🥰🥰🥰
Good morning 😍😍😍 ERS

15/03/2023

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting
5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so had for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive women

*A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME*🧏🧏🧏🧏

15/03/2023

DEAR LADIES: MARRY A MAN THAT HAS SENSE.

1: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you.

2: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour.

3: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you.

4: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to s*x at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood.

5: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag b***s and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, your sag b***s or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood.
(Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.)

6: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.

7: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions.

8: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry"

9: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity.

10: Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you.

Therefore to the Lady reading this, May you not waste ur years loving someone that is only playing games with your 💞 heart
Ewade cares 🖊️🖋️🖋️

15/03/2023

(Teach him how to love, nobody is perfect)
🥀 Hug your husband a lot, it reduces his aggression when you find him lying on his back .Sneak gently and drown in his lap .And tell him I adore that warm embrace.
Softly hold his face in your hands and plant a kiss on his forehead.. and pray for him a beautiful and comfortable invitation
Then he will reassure you and calm you down!!
Sit near him and ask him to sleep on your feet.. And let your hand play in his hair sometimes and feel his face softly and tenderly at other times
💎 Look at him with contemplation and admiration, and be satisfied with his facial features.. And when he asks you why do you look like that?!
*Answer simply, I like to contemplate your beautiful face! 🤷🏼*
💎Put his back from time to time and pat his shoulder..and stomp on his chest..this makes him feel like a small child in your arms
💎 Hold his hand whenever the opportunity arises.. and press it gently.This makes him feel like he is in front of a caring woman.
💎 Taste some candy and say it tastes great, then feed it to him with your hand with a beautiful smile, then give him a wink of love from your charming eye.
💎 When he wears a special perfume..Quietly approach him and put your nose on his neck and smell deeply his good scent 🎶
Then praise him, saying, "I adore the smell of your perfume."
💎 When he is about to leave the house, stop him for a while.. and put your simple touches on his appearance.. such as adjusting some of his clothes.
This is how he feels your interest in him
💎 Perfume your hands with a beautiful calm fragrance.. Approach him and fix his shirt collar with a gentle touch
And tell him, "A moment like this is better!"
💎 Play your little child next to him.. and tell him that you are a wonderful child like your father.. an affectionate child like your father.. a smart child like Papa..
💎 A good word is charity,So believe your good words and actions on your husband.
May our homes always be under Allah's protection 🤲🙏🙏

15/03/2023

I'm afraid to die at this age knowing that my ibadah is not enough to save me from the punishment of Jahannam

Astagfirullah😢🤲

15/03/2023

Ramadan is next week inshallah
Surprised ur babe with beautiful hijab
Don't be a boring boyfriend 😏

14/03/2023

Dear Ladies, Am going to hurt some of you with this post but kindly read and digest…..✍️

•A Lady who cannot make her hair without asking a guy for money. And if not given -would call the guy BROKE.

A Lady that cannot subscribe her phone without sending “Can you do me a favour..?” to her random boyfriends on Facebook or whatsapp, and if not given would call them BROKE

A lady who does nothing than to jump around from one bed to another to pay her rent, feed and forming fake life on Facebook will be calling a guy who hustles; pays house rent, feeds himself, does everything for himself, BROKE.

A lady who is Jobless and lazy will come on Social media to argue how she can't marry a man who doesn't earn 100K a month.

Isn't it Funny that Ladies who can't foot their bills call men BROKE for not dancing to their drums?

Ladies, How I wish you understand how cheap you are when you Embarrassed a guy who didn't give you money for your hair.

How I wish you understand how Cheap it sounds when you say a man who can't buy you the Latest phone or trending stuff on a date is not man enough to talk or date you .

Stop demanding from men If you can't do it yourself.

Before Calling a guy broke, let it be that he can't take care of himself not because he can't take care of your personal Bills .

If not you are the broke one here...YES

As a Lady you should think of Building your self-esteem, Creative, Learning skills and praying to God to Direct your path.

Stop, Embarrassing yourself with guys, if a guy can't pay for a plate of Rice in Mega-Chicken..
Aunty why can't you pay for it?

Come to think of it ,If we Interview most ladies the way they examined most men, you'll see that many ladies are LAZY, JOBLESS and Lack COMMON SENSE but forming Rich and Sensible..
On the Other hand, Men are Hardworking and Resourceful for themselves.
Life go easy if you can take care of your bill's 40% and 60% for your man.
Go get a life,
Set standards,
Be financially independent
Ewade cares😍😍😍

13/03/2023

🥰🥰 #
Hmmmmm🥰🥰🥰
Most smile🥰🥰 are started by another smile💯💯.
A smile is a beautiful curve on woman's body 💯💯,it is an expensive way to change ur look .💯💯
People seldom notice old cloths if u wear big smile .
My dear a smile is the shortest distance between two people 👭👭because smile🥰 and forgive🙏 are the two ways to live 💯💯.
You have to smile and let everyone know that *TODAY*you are a lot stronger than *YESTERDAY* .
Use your smile to change the world ,don't let the world change your smile .
*LIFE*🌎🌎🌌🌌 is like a mirror ,we get a better result when we smile at it 💯💯
Today give a stranger one of your smile🥰🥰, it might be the only sunshine ☘️🌻🌻☀️☀️🌄🌄 he sees all day
But do you remember that smile and sunshine are those two powerful 🦾💪💪💪 tools we use in life 🌌🌌🌌
A smile🥰🥰 is the prettiest attire that you can wear and don't forget to smile .💯💯💯
As for me #💯💯
I am a simple person who hides a thousand feelings ,and have the happiest smile .
abdulsalam 💯💯
Expensive diamond ✍️✍️✍️

13/03/2023

CELEBRATING ALL SINGLE MOTHERS!

Being a single mum is not by choice but a painful bullet shot by life. No woman wishes to carry all the burdens alone. Every woman wants to sleep off every night while resting her lovely head on the chest of a good man. Single mum is a warrior who deserves a medal.

They don't deserve stigma and ill treatment from men and fortunate married women. I feel their pain today as their labour up and down to raise those beautiful kids alone. Every single mum deserves respect and helping hand always. They are not toys to toll around by young men and married men.

Their hearts deserves not to be broken again by men. Their kid's interest should be respected always.

I celebrate every single mum.

I respect their courage.

God bless all single mum.

God bless all ladies🙏🏼
Ewade cares🖋️🖋️🖋️🖋️😍

13/03/2023

BENEFITS OF MARRYING A VIRGIN

To my own opinion the greatest gift you can get from your wife is her virginity.

As a man, the less experience she has, the more you enjoy her.

Higher chances of faithfulness, one that has defeated fornication can defeat adultery, you are sure your first born is yours, 30 percent of firstborn in Some places belong to other men, don't be surprise.

There is a unique Bond when a husband has s*x with his virgin Bride especially if the man is also a Virgin, it is awesome.

A great role model for your kids, having lived a life of s*xual purity is the best position to guide your kids in the right way "brand new has a special feeling."

She won't compare you with others, her only s*xual experience is the only one she is having with her husband and therefore she is contented. Those who are not virgin will compare you with 100 of their ex.

A virgin can't have s*xually transmitted disease because she hasn't had s*x so you are safe, no need of running those tests because she hasn't been tested.

You don't have to deal with hearing later on that your newly weeded wife has one or two Children, marry a Virgin and have peace of mind.

Abortion is a sin and we all know, majority of ladies who are not virgin have had two or more abortion for so called useless boyfriend.

When you marry a Virgin cheating is limited, and no man can boast of having her except you, sorry to say because some men are useless and tell others with other people's wives, but as a virgin there is no such claims because you know you are the only one that has slept with her.

As a lady you can proudly inform your kids that you kept your virginity till you got married, you don't have to deal with guilt from your past life, in conclusion remaining a virgin is the best, do not be discourage, Almighty ALLĀH knows the best, angry girls who have lost theirs would try to discourage you, fornication is a great sin.

Apologies to those who are not virgins but it is the bitter
Ewade 🖋️🖋

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