✨ Here’s how my abusive relationship escalated…
✨ "Here’s how my toxic relationship escalated…
Coercive control doesn’t happen all at once—it builds over time, starting with what feels like love and ending in control. It’s easy to miss the signs when you’re in it, but recognizing these 4 stages can help you protect yourself or someone you care about:
1️⃣ Love bombing: They make you feel special with overwhelming attention, gifts, and promises.
2️⃣ Boundary testing: Small red flags appear as they start to push your limits—checking your phone, showing up unannounced, or questioning your decisions.
3️⃣ Isolation: They slowly separate you from friends, family, and your support system.
4️⃣ Full control: They dominate every aspect of your life, leaving you feeling trapped.
💡 If any of this resonates, know that you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault. Education is the first step to breaking free from these patterns.
🎙️ For more tools to recognize coercive control and take back your power, tune into Prey VS Predator the podcast!
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🎯 Coercive Control RED FLAGS!!
🎯 5 subtle RED FLAGS of coercive control you might be missing...
Coercive control doesn’t always look obvious—it can sneak into your life through subtle behaviors that feel off but are hard to pinpoint. Predatory individuals often use these tactics to manipulate, dominate, and gain control over you without raising immediate alarms. Let’s break down 5 signs to watch out for:
1️⃣ over-the-top compliments or flattery (love bombing):
They overwhelm you with excessive praise, gifts, or attention, making you feel special—until you don’t reciprocate. This is often a tactic to create dependency or lower your guard.
🚩 Example: “You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met. No one else compares to you!”
2️⃣ boundary testing:
Coercive controllers push small boundaries to see how much they can get away with. If you let one slide, they may escalate their behavior.
🚩 Example: Showing up uninvited or probing into private aspects of your life too soon, with comments like, “I thought we didn’t have secrets.”
3️⃣ subtle jokes at your expense:
They erode your confidence with critical or demeaning comments masked as humor, making it hard to call them out without seeming “too sensitive.”
🚩 Example: “I can’t believe you’d wear that—it’s so you, though. Just kidding!”
4️⃣ excessive curiosity about your weaknesses:
They dig into your past traumas or insecurities, not to empathize, but to gather information they can use against you later.
🚩 Example: “You must’ve been so hurt when your ex left you. Tell me everything about it.”
5️⃣ fast-paced relationships:
They rush emotional or physical intimacy to establish control before you have time to evaluate their intentions.
🚩 Example: “I’ve never felt this way before—let’s just move in together already!”
🎙️ Awareness is your best defense! Watch out for these signs and trust your instincts. Don’t forget to tune into the latest episode of
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😠 Women are BLAMED for Men's desires!
In the IBLP, young women like Lindsey were conditioned to believe they held sole responsibility for men’s behaviors and desires. In this incredible conversation, Lindsey shares how this toxic belief system silenced women and perpetuated abuse within the cult.
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🌟 In the latest episode of Prey VS Predator the podcast, we explore the art of providing help without judgment, empowering your friend with a language to express their experience. 💬✨
Join us on a journey of empathy and understanding as we share insights on fostering a safe space for victims. Our hosts unravel the complexities of emotional abuse, shedding light on the path towards healing, hope and liberation. 🕊️✊
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