Embodied Queen Academy

27/04/2022

I make a lot of money so I can live my life with endless freedom and choice.

NOT to increase my worth as a human.

There is a big difference between why you are requiring & desiring money.

I am just as valuable as a human with a dollar in my account as I am a billion.

The value I place on myself for being ME is why I am able to make so much money not the other way around.

The money doesn’t make me valuable.
My value creates the money.

If your seeking and searching for your title, rank or money in the bank to validate your worth you will be seeking forever and miss the beautiful reality that what you seek is already inside of you.

27/04/2022

Let’s talk about the myth of progressivism.

It seems that because we look like we are progressing in certain areas

Medicine or technology for example…..

And that’s controversial based on what’s currently going on in the world!

The Metaverse, the V and many more that is being released into our communities right now.

There are many things that the world has created that’s improving generally yes

BUT

I believe we are forgetting that the fundamental thing that we need be awakened is the SPIRIT.

The deep power that is within you, that is your birthright, your soul contract, your mission, that’s innate and inherit.

Progressing to the point where that is numbed and programmed out of you is a very scary place to be and witness within our world.

While progression is a beautiful thing and what we have birthed and created to evolve our planet has supported many people and our world to find solutions to many problems.

Its has also caused even MORE problems along the way.

The environment,
The governments,
The control and manipulation,
The violence,
The cultural destruction,

Destroying our natural ability to trust our intuition and live naturally not rely on outside external reality to tell us what we “should” be doing.

Respecting the earth and treating it as our co-creator not a resource centre.

Love thy neighbour instead of everyone fending for themselves and competing with one another.

Listening to our own internal compass for freedom instead of being scared of rules and following someone else’s dictatorship.

As we step into a heightened and unnatural place of progressivism we must remember that our most natural state of being where we thrive and are most happy is in nature, fully connected to ourselves, each other and source.

With a deep awareness of self, community, freedom, creativity, compassion, love, service and passion.

We must never loose this in pursuit of evolution or we will loose the very thing that makes us uniquely human.

Can we find a balance between old wisdom, culture and rituals that feed our souls and activate our purpose AND the advancement of technology that’s supports the collective consciousness?

I believe so but we are not currently on the path to being there.

With so much destruction of our earth, disconnection and segregation, need for power and control, medical warfare.

Everything you do matters,
every word you speak matters, everything you consume matters, every dollar of circulated contribution matters to where we will be in 10 years.

We vote with our dollars and energy so make sure that the exchange always aligns with your values when contributing to the world you want to live in.

It’s time to start giving a s**t and live intentionally to create a world you want to live in, one that you would be proud to hand down to your future generations.

How do you feel about progressivism?

27/04/2022

I’m so done with the narrative in the spiritual community that monogamy just isn’t that “spiritual”

Seriously I’m all for people having their own preference and I have no judgment if you want to practise ethical non monogamy.

But to use the spiritual card that your not that awake or aware if you can’t practise non attachment is fu**in BS.

That you can not be “enlightened” without it.

If that’s your preference cool but it doesn’t make you any more spiritual if you do bro 😎

I’m done with many men in the “spiritual community” using this to basically get a pass for leaky dick energy.

It’s not cool and I’m not down with it.

Own your journey and your preference if you want to explore open relating.

There is nothing wrong with this and we are living in an era where you get to be who you are and do what feels good to you.

But don’t use the spiritual card that somehow it’s “more spiritual” so that people in this community feel it’s something that deepens your spiritual experience.

It’s easy to not face your intimacy issues when you have multiple partners.

It’s easy to look outside your relationship when things are challenging instead of facing what’s truly going on.

It’s easy to escape into another persons energy vortex when things are getting triggered in your relationship.

I think the most beautiful thing you can do is honour a divine union by giving ALL of yourself to someone else.

That’s just my opinion.

That is my preference and I happen to be spiritually woke AF

For me being spiritual is a way of being that allows you to live in a deeper connection with YOURSELF.

Not to be used to manipulate and entangle others by making them wrong by wanting a monogynous divine union or any other way they want to live that doesn’t have the “spiritually approved identity tag”

We are all spiritual beings, we just practise different levels of depth within this earthly journey as humans.

So no matter what you choose there is no right or wrong but the narrative that being non monotonous is more spiritual is a load of BS.

Can we stop spreading this narrative please?

Can we stop letting leaky dick energy get a pass for spiral awakening?

Can we please open this discussion so more women can make the right decision for them and not feel pressured into this kind of “spiritual awakening” that just isn’t true for them and in many cases leads to trauma.

Anyone else feel me on this?

27/04/2022

I’m done with the separation.

F**k the rules.

There has been a lot of posts lately asking what would you like most.

It’s created separation between 2 things that can be created together.

Labelling people and behaviours in a world where we love to put people into boxes.

Would you rather:

A guy who is good looking, ripped and has a lot of money OR someone who is conscious connected and woke.

Ummmm both please!

Your saying that if your good looking, rich and successful you can’t be conscious, loving and deeply connected to yourself.

Label.

If you had 20k would you invest it in the inner work or your outer appearance?

Umm both!

I am a whole human and love and respect my temple plus am deeply committed to growing, learning and healing my heart and expanding my soul.

Your saying if you value your appearance you can’t also be committed to the deep inner work.

Another box to fit in.

Would you rather be happy or have money??

Ummmm both please!

Your saying you can’t be happy and have successful connected relationships while also having a billion dollars in the bank!

People have a hard enough time thinking they need to be one or the other anyway.

That you can’t be this and that at the same time.

That you need to choose between certain identities that society created because people understand you better that way.

So we fall in line and become committed to being in our most natural identities that we have created for ourselves since childhood.

You can’t love money and live the high life with big houses and fancy cars AND be of contribution and do volunteer work in Africa.

I call BS

You can’t have hair extensions, false eye lashes and take care of your body AND be spiritually woke AF

I call BS

This one or the other just creates separation within ourselves and then within our connection to others.

We are all ALL the things and get to be whatever the hell we damn choose.

These questions are validating someone’s belief that they need to choose between 2 things that they already are or want to be.

Subconsciously programming them to believe they can’t have both.

Because the world doesn’t work like that and we want to be accepted and fit in so we put ourselves in the boxes society has laid out for us.

I am done with the separation.

I am a goddess unicorn who is woke AF that lives in a mansion and drives sports cars on her way to a big event speaking on stage with my fake hair and eye lashes to then go deep into the jungles of Peru and sit with the tribes doing plant medicine then volunteer for months in an orphanage sleeping in huts.

So there you go I just broke every single one of your boxes and I don’t give a s**t cause I rule my life and I do what FEELS good to me not what looks good to you. 🔥

27/04/2022

Why am I so ruthless with my boundaries and standards?

Because I have been though enough in my life to know EXACTLY what I am and am NOT available for.

Many people don’t know the half of what I have had to overcome in my life and some do.

Addiction
An eating disorder
Sexual abuse
Miscarriages yes plural
Affairs

Putting myself in situations that were dangerous.

Allowing men to disrespect me and my body.

Not giving a f**k about anything let alone myself or anyone else.

Doing many things I am not proud of that were out of integrity with my true values.

Having absolutely no respect for anyone else’s feelings because I had no respect for my own.

Being completely shut down emotionally to the point I actually couldn’t feel anything.

Being such a hot means express that I would regularly melt down in public either in a fit of rage or crying uncontrollably when I was drunk.

Being arrested for drink driving and going through a court case because not only was it not my first time but I was high range.

The family events I have ruined for being completely out of control.

I didn’t feel worthy of being alive.

I didn’t love myself and actually spend most of my life punishing myself.

The work I have done to get myself to this point I am currently in my life on this wild ride of being human.

To love myself as I am.

To know my value and worth.

To acknowledge my brilliance and power.

To honour my sacred temple and this vessel I now walk the earth in.

To lean into my magic and genius.

To forgive myself for all that I have done and know it’s not who I am but how my trauma played out.

To apologise to many I have hurt.

To forgive myself and those involved for it ALL. To the depths in every cell of it all.

To learn how to manage my emotions and my body through intense and challenging situations WITHOUT drugs or alcohol to numb them.

To heal my trauma that was deep in my womb to create a clean vessel for me to thrive in life.

The grief I have felt.

The multitude of identities I have had to let die.

The purging, the releasing, the acknowledgment, the forgiveness and the process of all this took enormous amounts of courage.

The depths I have gone, the s**t I have seen, the heartache I have had to face.

So for me the chaos and BS high school drama some people want to create is not something I am available for.

Other peoples projections and unhealed trauma that leads to this behaviour is not something I can tolerate in my life.

What I have learnt is environment is EVERYTHING and what I chose to allow in my life energetically really impacts every piece of my soul.

It also effects my business, my relationships, my income, my happiness, my integrity, my peace and bliss.

There are many who have been mad at me over the last 4 years because I chose peace over drama and distance over disrespect.

I am committed to my values and the way I choose to live my life now.

And if I don’t feel energetically connected to a situation or person who is going to continue to raise my vibration and be a positive reinforcement to my continued success and healing then I will walk away with such an ease now because I choose myself first always.

My boundaries are crystal clear and I am unafraid to honour them.

We don’t always walk away from people who bring this into our lives because we are wanting to teach them a lesson, we do it because we finally learnt ours.

We are not obligated to stay the same and for me it was a matter of life or death.

I spiralled so many times that I was either going to end up on the street or dead.

Our desires change, our identities change, our values and interests change.

And continuing to surround yourself with the same people living a life your intentionally moving away from doesn’t support you to lead a life of expansion and elevation.

That is not something that is negotiable for me anymore.

I don’t play in those spaces, I repel them.

I choose this over and over and over again every single day in EVERY single situation.

Not everyone is trying to better themselves, not everyone is committed to healing their wounds that lead to a life lived in a new positive empowered way.

And I am ok with what others do, no judgment it’s their life.

I am not attached to how people want to live or if they choose to evolve and expand with me.

But I will not be part of it, I will not engage in it and I want nothing to do with it in my life.

Not everyone wants to see you win and support your evolution.

So just a gentle reminder that you know yourself better than anyone, you know what you need and what feels good.

You know what you have been through and what you choose for the future you desire.

And every decision, person and situation you allow into your life or move away from matters.

You don’t need to justify or validate to others why you choose to respect your decisions to be ruthless with your boundaries.

Trust your intuition and don’t ever feel guilty for standing in your truth and owning what you will not tolerate in your life.

Speak it with clarity and confidence.

Life is way to short to be around anyone or anything that doesn’t feel aligned with your souls purpose and is not a full F**K YES

Who you see in the mirror is the only person you need to live with for the rest of your life so honour and respect them.

And your current reality is created by the boundaries you have and the courage to keep them.

19/01/2022