02/11/2023
HEALING FROM EMOTIONAL
TRAUMA FOR WOMEN
As a woman, the first thing to put in place is HEALING...
Heal competely, heal from your past, heal from the dysfunctionality of your background, heal from your Ex, the journey of healing if between you and GOD not your husband.
There are wounds that only GOD can help you mend and the danger of not healing before you say "I DO" is that you begin to bleed on the one who didn't injure you. One of the sign that you need HEALING is that you "OVERREACT", overrating to things is a sign that you are seeing someone else in your spouse , "REACTION" out of FEAR , sometimes you are not even responding to HIM, you are responding to the person he reminds you of.
You see your EX in him
You see your DAD in him
You see the person who tried to r**e you in him And sometimes the person who hurt you the most looks like the spouse, sounds like the person, sounds exactly like the person, talks like the person, imagine what will happen if you don't heal, you will even hate your child for looking like the person.
There are many people smiling and taking pictures online but they are not fine.
If you keep carrying the baggages of this Emotional Truman's, what is going too happen is that you keep mutiplying the pain.
If you refuse to forgive the people who betrayed you, you are injuring yourself again, those who left you it's GOD trying to show you that they are not the only one that exists, HE still has better, He has sons
You are not worthless you're only around the people who don't know your value, when people you are designed for comes you will be what the prayed for and more, why should you be crying over those that want too manage you, don't give people the impression that they are so important you can't do without them, and you can't find their kind
Learn from your mistake, pick up yourself again..
You are a queen
Get up and deal
Fellow GAINT woman for more
GAINT WOMAN