So many people have been hurt by the church. There are far too many people in leadership that were not called by or are not led by God and they cause wounds in the body of Christ.
On behalf of the church, I apologize if this has happened to you. I also want you to know that healing and restoration are available if you are open and willing. 🙏🏼💛🦋
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So many people around us want to slap a label on us. They want to tell us who we are. Unfortunately we often accept the narrative unconsciously. How we view ourselves affects every aspect of our lives.
The Bible says that we were knitted together in our mother's womb by God Himself. He chose us. He made provision for us to be adopted into His family and be called children of God. I can't think of a more solid identity than that!
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I am back and I will try to find a rhythm again with my posts.
Please understand that even though I am trusting God, it has still been a struggle. Don't allow the enemy to condemn you for feeling fear. There is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. God doesn't look down on you for having feelings.
He gave us emotions. Take those heavy feelings to Him.
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with emotions. God gave us feelings for very specific reasons. However, we must learn to process our feeling in a healthy way. Feel those emotions fully without suppressing them and without getting stuck there.
I found out on Monday that my brother passed away. I was so deeply saddened. I was not able to sleep much that night. The next morning I woke up very early with dark thoughts in my head. The sadness rolled over me and threatened to become something much worse.
I chose to get up, pray and then go for a walk. It was exactly what I needed to pull me out of the spiral. When you notice that you are about to decline, put fail safes in place to pull yourself back.
I tell my team all the time, "it's OK to feel, just don't unpack and live there!" I am allowing myself to grieve but not in a way that takes over my whole life.
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What would your response be? How many times do you allow someone to hurt you before you say enough?!
As Christians we are told to forgive our enemies and those who hurt us. Forgiveness does not mean the person wasn't wrong. Forgiveness frees your heart and mind from replaying what they did.
When we forgive we do not have to maintain a connection with the offender. We can and should set boundaries. Jesus did!
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Sorry not sorry! Of course the unhealthy person always acts like they are the victim. They tend to portray shock when you are done with their mess and start setting boundaries.
I stopped trying to repaint a person's colors after they show me what they are. 1000 apologies does not compensate for a lack of changed behavior. I no longer have the time or the energy for foolishness.
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People with good intentions will tell you to date someone new so that you can forget the hurt of the last person you were with. This is not solid advice. Don't keep the cycle going.
Since being single, I have encountered so many people that just bleed all over everyone with their open wounds. It's sad, frustrating and disappointing.
I certainly not saying that I am perfect but I have been doing the work to heal emotionally for years and will continue to.
My desire is that all of my relationships, even the platonic ones, will be healthy. 😊❤️.
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Sometimes we forget the basics. It's the simple things that keep us grounded and healthy. Self care doesn't need to be complex.
Focus on you, even in the small ways. Drink your water. Take deep breaths, go for a walk, get some sunshine.
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My heart is heavy for those who are hurting as a result of church folks. I hate that you experienced these awful things. This was never God's intention for the church.
I have experienced spiritual abuse and church hurt. It is an awful weight to carry and difficult to navigate without the right person guiding you. I am so grateful that God put amazing people in my path that gave me the grace and space I needed to be angry at God and people and also to heal from those things so I could move on.
Many people who experience church hurt aren't able to move on. You hurt so badly that you turn against God with no chance of reconciliation. Some of you desperately want to understand and heal. You want that spiritual connection but it is currently wrapped in fear. Reach out to me. Let's talk through this. You don't have to do this alone.
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