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Dating Hotline podcast Dating Hotline is a weekly Q&A podcast with host Chloé Miller, Founder & CEO of AND, SWIPE RIGHT.
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Our curve this week goes out to using your dating profile from pre-covid. ⁠⁠No no no no, those pictures are at least 15 ...
01/05/2022

Our curve this week goes out to using your dating profile from pre-covid. ⁠

No no no no, those pictures are at least 15 months old, and who is that same person they were before covid? ⁠

I’m not asking you to do a major production overhaul, I’m just asking you to redo your dating profile, completely. ⁠

Doing this will help you realize how many new pictures you need and that should inspire you to get those taken ASAP. ⁠

Don’t be a covid catfish. ⁠

Don’t lure people in with an old dating profile. Update it with current pictures so your date won’t feel like she swiped right on you pre-covid but got you post-quarantine. ⁠

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21/04/2022

Winter dating in COVID made dating difficult.

The answer to this - Driving Dates.

Chloé explains why and tune in to this episode for more tips on how to date successfully.

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Driving Dates ⁠⁠Now you’re going to have to gauge the situation to see if this date is appropriate for a first date or i...
20/04/2022

Driving Dates ⁠

Now you’re going to have to gauge the situation to see if this date is appropriate for a first date or if this is something better saved for date 2 or 3. ⁠

PRO TIP: If you know this person and you’re taking the relationship to a dating level then is a great date idea for a first date. ⁠

But if this is someone you’re meeting online, back pocket this move for date 3. ⁠

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12/04/2022

In our Dating App Etiquette episode we cover the Dos and the Don’ts for successful online dating.

Remember, each profile is a person and people have feelings.

Don’t start something you won’t finish.

And finally, the Match & Ghost is the worst.

Don’t create bad dating karma for yourself by not treating others with dignity and respect.

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Just like we talked about rotations last week, your dating app matches are your pre-rotation rotation. In other words, t...
11/04/2022

Just like we talked about rotations last week, your dating app matches are your pre-rotation rotation. In other words, this is the dugout for your dating life and the players on the field are the people you are dating IRL. (See what I did there, I see you baseball season).

We recommend you follow the rotation rules and keep your dating app roster small so you can give the attention that is necessary to each match and really see who is worth your time and who's not before you give them the privilege of meeting you in person.⁠

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5 Ways to use Social Media to help you move on after a break up⁠⁠1. Start your Glow Up. If you don't know what a Glow Up...
27/12/2021

5 Ways to use Social Media to help you move on after a break up⁠

1. Start your Glow Up. If you don't know what a Glow Up is, DM and the Dating Specialists will be able to help you ⁠

2. Slide into that hot guy’s DMs and spark a conversation with hot strangers. ⁠

3. Change your narrative on your social media profile and start posting content from this new perspective.⁠

4. Building upon that last point, you never know when your work could be ripe for a brand partnership. Follow your passions, create the ideas that come to your mind, and live your best life off social media so that it makes sharing your memories on social media that much easier⁠

5. Follow new accounts. Create your vision board - follow accounts that will remind you of your goals so that you continually work towards them. ⁠

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11/11/2021

Jules Hannaford shares how she overcame the shame of falling victim to an online romance scam.

We LOVED chatting with Jules, add her nominated podcast to your library today!



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08/11/2021

Scammers are ruthless and will do anything to get a hold of your money. Be especially careful mixing love with finances.

Dating Hotline podcast EP 25: sugar Babies & Scammers

Streaming on Apple Podcast & Spotify

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New Episode -- New Episode -- New Episode ! ⁠⁠Things have changed, now that we've spent so much time at home, isolated, ...
24/08/2021

New Episode -- New Episode -- New Episode ! ⁠

Things have changed, now that we've spent so much time at home, isolated, and dating virtually. How do we differentiate the zoom meetings from the virtual dates? How do we impress through a computer screen?⁠

Chloé covers all of this in this podcast episode of Dating Hotline: Ep 22: Dating Simplified. ⁠⁠

Streaming now on Apple Podcast and Spotify⁠

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The best way to help your friend is to be there to listen, let them talk in an unconditionally safe and supportive space...
22/08/2021

The best way to help your friend is to be there to listen, let them talk in an unconditionally safe and supportive space. Some people are aware of the unhealthy patterns in their relationship and others may not be yet. Be there to support your friend through this and help introduce them to resources that will help. ⁠

Additionally, directing your friends to therapist, abuse-specific recovery groups, and organizations that support them through this transition will help.⁠

Most importantly, be patient with your friends. Toxic and abusive relationships are designed to destabilize confidence and confidence is necessary to take action. Getting out of unhealthy situations can take time, it's a long-game strategy and your continual support throughout their journey can help them find security in other people again - aiding their healing. Support them all along the way but take care of yourself too.⁠

🎧 New episodes drop Wednesday at 11am 💋⁠

21/08/2021

Modern Dating has a pretty side snd a dark side, the dark side including . The best way to stay safe is to protect yourself by educating yourself on covert dating abuse. In this episode, Chloé dives into hidden abuse in modern dating exemplified by celebrity relationships. We don’t always know what’s going on behind closed doors, pay attention to the signs as they present themself - you might be lucky enough to save yourself from a toxic relationship.

Guys, if there’s a disagreement between you two and she leaves upset, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE CHASE YOUR GIRL! Repeat after...
06/12/2020

Guys, if there’s a disagreement between you two and she leaves upset, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE CHASE YOUR GIRL! Repeat after me, if she leaves upset I will chase after her, if she leaves upset, I will chase after her. If she leaves upset I will chase after her. ⁠

Why do I want to drill this into your head? Because every woman wants to know that her man will come chasing after her because the guy who chases after you is the guy who is showing you how important you are to him. Don’t let her sit with her emotions and worse, if she leaves and goes over to a friend’s house before you get to her, you are absolutely digging that hole deeper for yourself. ⁠

If you have the opportunity to catch her before she gets to a friend’s house you will be saving everything. If you choose to ignore her actions - like storming out of the apartment, then you are showing her that she’s not important and that you don’t care that her feelings are hurt by something that you did. NOT the message you want to send because guys, let me tell you, you could string together any collection of words you want but it won’t matter, all she’ll remember is that you didn’t chase her and your actions will speak louder than your words. ⁠

Do yourself a favor and definitely stop what you're doing and go after her to show her how important she is and that she is your number one priority.⁠

Join us tonight for QUARANTINED TOGETHER at 8 pm via Zoom with guest host, Jay Searle! Remember that song, you know, the...
20/08/2020

Join us tonight for QUARANTINED TOGETHER at 8 pm via Zoom with guest host, Jay Searle! Remember that song, you know, the one that goes..."Mmmbop, ba duba dop, Ba du bop, ba duba dop, Ba du bop, ba duba dop....yeah, yeah."

If you guessed Hanson then you, my friend, are PRIME for tonight's game. Better than just 90s songs, our Guest Host Jay Searle is hosting Name That Song tonight at 8 pm Central. We will be jumping through the decades with short snippets of songs just long enough for you to rack your memory for the title & artist.

This golf pro, EDM fan, international (home) chef, and adventurer is no stranger to keeping things spicy, including his playlists. Jay Searle, a uniquely positioned professional, blends finance, consulting, technology, and people skills on the reg, but on the weekends, you can catch him up in the sky as he advances through his pilot lessons. Plus, you can get him to talk about anything with payment of Insomnia Cookies & Oberweis & chocolate milk. Pro Tip - bring extra cookies.

is a free, weekly hangout created by AND, SWIPE RIGHT to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, we'll email you the Zoom invite. EVERYONE is welcome!

QUARANTINED TOGETHER x AND, SWIPE RIGHT - Join us tonight at 8pm via Zoom with guest host, Alexis Miller.Guys, she's bac...
13/08/2020

QUARANTINED TOGETHER x AND, SWIPE RIGHT - Join us tonight at 8pm via Zoom with guest host, Alexis Miller.

Guys, she's back! We enjoyed her first Trivia Night Game so much that we invited Alexis Miller back for round 2. Last time we quickly learned who we would be calling when using our phone-a-friend lifeline for random knowledge and we're pretty sure we got this exact face from her a couple of times when we guess incorrectly. But hey, rejection only makes us want to do better next time...Tonight is our time to shine!

is a free, weekly hangout created specifically to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, we'll email you the Zoom invite. Please share this open invitation with anyone and especially with those who are self-isolated during this quarantine. EVERYONE is welcome!

QUARANTINED TOGETHER - Join AND, SWIPE RIGHT and our Guest Host, Chris Marella, tonight at 8 pm. We all fell in love wit...
06/08/2020

QUARANTINED TOGETHER - Join AND, SWIPE RIGHT and our Guest Host, Chris Marella, tonight at 8 pm. We all fell in love with Cards Against Humanity when it first came out and as a testament of their creative genius, we are still playing that game years later. But that was for in-person hangouts and that was so 2019. This year, is all the rage and that's exactly what we're going to be playing tonight.

An up-and-coming YouTube sensation and highly anticipated Best Man Speech performer, Chris is no stranger to comedy. He curates stand-up performances, Instagram memes, and Tik Tok videos. On the weekends, you can find him on his YouTube channel Bro Montana. Come learn a new game and stay for the laughs.

is a free, weekly hangout created specifically to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, we'll email you the Zoom invite. Please share this open invitation with anyone and especially with those who are self-isolated during this quarantine. EVERYONE is welcome!

Tonight we are talking literature - join AND, SWIPE RIGHT for a QUARANTINED TOGETHER Book Exchange tonight at 8 pm Centr...
30/07/2020

Tonight we are talking literature - join AND, SWIPE RIGHT for a QUARANTINED TOGETHER Book Exchange tonight at 8 pm Central via Zoom.

What stories are you escaping into? What business books are you reading? Who's your favorite author? What's the last good book you read? We want to know - what is your reading interest? Bring your book suggestions as well as the answers to these three questions:
1. What's the last book you read?
2. What is your favorite book?
3. What's currently on your To-Read list?

is a free, weekly hangout created specifically to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, we'll email you the Zoom invite. Please share this open invitation with anyone and especially with those who are self-isolated during this quarantine. EVERYONE is welcome!

AND, SWIPE RIGHT is hosting QUARANTINED TOGETHER tonight at 8 pm Central via Zoom. They are making a QUARANTINED TOGETHE...
23/07/2020

AND, SWIPE RIGHT is hosting QUARANTINED TOGETHER tonight at 8 pm Central via Zoom. They are making a QUARANTINED TOGETHER Mixtape and they want your song suggestions. Bring your top 10 songs to add to the mixtape and at the end of the evening, they will share the QT Mixtape playlist. Just like a picture is worth 1000 words, songs hold so much meaning behind them. Curate your top 10 all-time favorite songs to include in our QT mixtape. Come listen to some great music and chat about all the memories that come up when hearing each song.

is a free, weekly hangout created specifically to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, we'll email you the Zoom invite. Please share this open invitation with anyone and especially with those who are self-isolated during this quarantine. EVERYONE is welcome!

In case you haven't been following along with these updates, AND, SWIPE RIGHT hosts QUARANTINED TOGETHER every Thursday ...
16/07/2020

In case you haven't been following along with these updates, AND, SWIPE RIGHT hosts QUARANTINED TOGETHER every Thursday at 8 pm Central and tonight's Guest Host, Alexis Miller, is bringing the heat with trivia. Good news, you're invited!
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Tonight - QUARANTINED TOGETHER at 8 pm Central via Zoom - Trivia Night with Alexis Miller. Think you have strong memory skills? Do you just know a bunch of random knowledge? Come test your trivia skills with our guest host.

By day, Alexis manages people & operations and by night she kicks ass with trivia and tv/movie recommendations. Our advice, ask her what she's watching now. Tonight, she will be hosting a virtual game of trivia. Let's see just how well you know those random facts.

is a free, weekly happy hour event created specifically to provide socializing opportunities for anyone looking to escape quarantined reality. Comment below if you're interested in joining, I'll email you the Zoom invite. Please share this open invitation with anyone and especially with those who are self-isolated during this quarantine. EVERYONE is welcome!

No, Ex-boyfriends and Ex-girlfriends are exes for a reason - don’t go back to them. It didn’t work out the first time so...
15/07/2020

No, Ex-boyfriends and Ex-girlfriends are exes for a reason - don’t go back to them. It didn’t work out the first time so why subject yourself to the emotional pain all over again a second time. Once I’ve broken up with you it’s over, there’s no getting back together and furthermore there’s no reason to keep in touch. I committed to something with you and we were building something together. For whatever reason, the relationship ended and that’s enough for me to say never again with you. More so, I’ve never threatened my boyfriends with a breakup because I don’t believe in empty threats. Meaning, if I’m breaking up with you - then this is over. My mind is already made up. If you have a yoyo relationship that breaks up and gets back together - we all know these relationships - it just means that eventually one of the breakups will be the last. Save yourself the heartache and work through the challenges or just call it quits.

And I’m happy to tell you guys that 's 4-week coaching program - The High-Value Package is open for sign up! There’s a C...
15/07/2020

And I’m happy to tell you guys that 's 4-week coaching program - The High-Value Package is open for sign up! There’s a Coaching tab on the AND, SWIPE RIGHT website under Our Services with more information.⁠⠀
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This package includes weekly zoom calls, unlimited texting support, a mindful dating strategy sessions where we get clear on your definition of love and what you’re looking for in your partnership, my personal favorite meditations to open your heart to love, self-love healing meditations, and even my favorite pranic healing meditations that I talked about in our Energy & Dating episode that is PERFECT to do right before a date. We're also including some bonus goodies for your dating life Post Quarantine. This coaching package is my gift to you because instead of one-off sessions where we work reactively discussing what’s happening in your world, this High-Value Package is a proactive approach to your dating life focusing on building up your self-love so you know exactly what that type of love feels like. We’ll clear out old dating patterns, reprogram new dating strategies, really hone in on your ideal partner and set you up with tools to succeed online ( aka zoom dates ) and then I’ll leave you with some gifts for IRL dating because we will be just wrapping up at the time this Quarantine should be lifted! ⁠⠀
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This is the biggest gift you could offer yourself - the key to successful dating is learning how you want to be loved. Without knowing what you want and need emotionally you will accept whatever your partner will give you and that is, in essence, boundaryless dating. This is how people walk into unhealthy relationships, unrequited love relationships, and worse, abusive relationships. We want to empower you so that doesn't happen to you. Tap the link in the AND, SWIPE RIGHT bio (tagged here) and sign up for the 4-week coaching package.

14/07/2020

Think before you send, that’s a mantra we cannot stress enough. If you’re looking for attention or if you’re bored recognize that before starting something that you don’t want to follow through with

Our ~ curve ~ this week goes out to people who drop you into a conversation without context. One of 's female clients wh...
13/07/2020

Our ~ curve ~ this week goes out to people who drop you into a conversation without context. One of 's female clients who is a member of their monthly texting membership asked what she should do with a text from an old flame. They hadn’t talked in a couple of months but he just texted her and better yet, he sent her a screenshot of someone’s Venmo activity without context. ⁠

She asked me a couple of things - ⁠
1. What is this? ⁠
2. What does this mean? As in, what is he trying to say with this? ⁠
And 3. Should I even respond? ⁠

All are good questions because we don’t know what he was thinking when he sent that or why he sent that but this is why it’s so important to provide context when you’re communicating through text. In a phone conversation this would have gone differently but in a text without any additional information to set the metaphorical conversational table, who knows what his intentions were when he sent that. ⁠

We advised her to first ask herself if she wants to re-engage with him because he’s testing to see if the door is open. Then I suggested crafting a response that says something along the lines of “well hello, how are you, I’m doing well thank you. What is this little gem you’ve dropped in my lap, You’re going to send me this screenshot without any context, I need more sir….” this way you are acknowledging the silence and time in between the last time you two talked and more so, you’re clearly telling him that you have no idea why he sent that to you but your delivery is playful. ⁠

She could have easily said something like “what is this? Why did you send it?” but doesn’t that already sound so icy and honestly we’d feel insecure getting that as a response. The point here is not to correct him but rather ask for more information around why he sent it. The message we crafted shows the door is open and the conversation is still friendly. Plus, she said she wouldn't have been able to navigate that without my assistance finessing her reply.

An old flame is someone you casually dated while you were still dating other people, you never stopped dating other peop...
13/07/2020

An old flame is someone you casually dated while you were still dating other people, you never stopped dating other people for this person - you were still technically single and playing the field. This is important to note because there are many guys we’d consider old flames that if they were to text us we would respond. But if our ex-boyfriends were to text us, we would leave them on read. Once we’ve broken up, it’s over, there’s no getting back together and furthermore there’s no reason to keep in touch.
But an old flame is someone who can find their way back into your life because it was a spicy romance that had potential but you two never saw it through, but given a second chance maybe things would be different.
The main difference is an ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend is someone you break up with, an old flame is someone who fizzles out. The people from your past who you reflect upon with fond memories.
While we advise reflecting and finding the positivity in the experience every relationship brings, ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends are people who have made it into your inner circle and ultimately there was a long term compatibility issue. Old flames never make it in that inner circle - they come really close but never get the privilege. This is why we feel old flames could be explored again but exes are a thing of your past

Guys - we want you to set up the Zoom date like you would a traditional first date. But instead of setting it up like yo...
19/06/2020

Guys - we want you to set up the Zoom date like you would a traditional first date. But instead of setting it up like you would for a zoom biz meeting - spice things up a bit. Here’s an actionable tip on how you can take the lead and impress her on a virtual date.

Set the mood with a good zoom invite detail description. You want to build anticipation and excitement. Chloé had 3 different female clients this week send her screenshots of what their zoom date descriptions were and let me tell you, guys, you are funny. Flex those skills and come up with some witty zoom call topics For example: here’s one that we thought was particularly cute, he took a gamble with it and we think it paid off - here’s what he wrote in the Zoom Meeting Details section:

In this special edition of “Live from New York Virtual Happy Hour,” we’ll welcome special guests Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas who recently made the news for stating he’s “bored” living isolated in their mansion, DJing for his 13 Million Instagram fans. If Sophie and Joe end up having conflicts, I’ve got David Blane lined up to perform some never-before-seen “street magic” - an exclusive live performance just for us! It promises to be a scintillating evening so you definitely don’t want to miss out! Other potential discussion topics include: - Do you think “Tiger King”’s Carole Baskin killed her husband and fed him to a tiger? Biggest surprises from the 2020 NFL Draft? If you got admitted to Hogwarts, what house would you be and why? Warmly (his name), Sophie, Joe, and David Blaine.

This, you guys, this is what we are talking about when it comes to effort. Get yourself excited about it and show her that you’re excited to Zoom with her. We all know virtual first dates are not necessarily how we would want a first date to go, but what other choice do we have right now. If you want to date - that’s how it is in the world of Coronavirus. We gotta make do with what we have and this man-made lemonade out of lemons. 👏🏻 👏🏻 to this guy because SHE was so excited about this date, she screenshotted this and sent it to us.

18/06/2020

Zoom Dates are First Meets. But that doesn’t mean they have to be casual. Chat with your date and create a theme for the First Meet. Since you’ll be home (and comfortable) maybe you want to upscale the date into something formal with a black tie affair. We recommend popping some champagne and dressing up, everything is better with champagne while wearing dress clothes. Plus, it’s give a whole new meaning to a great first impression

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Dating Hotline

This is a podcast about breakups that left money on the table, breakups that broke our heart, breakups that A L M O S T broke our spirits, breakups that defined who we are but mostly this is a podcast about our recovery road and how we got back up, mind-hacked the s**t out of our brains, took control over our emotions and put ourself back out there again. This #OnlineDating Q&A is hosted by Chloé Miller, the Founder, and CEO of AND, SWIPE RIGHT - a personal consultancy setting the standard in online dating. Chloé empowers singles to succeed when dating online. #DatingHotlinepodcast is a weekly show covering diverse dating & online dating topics.

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