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Frustrated Ka Ba? In ka Dito. I'm not promoting frustration. It's just my thoughts and opinions. Might be some stories to produce out of hand. But we'll keep everything classy. :)

14/03/2025

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No Filipino should be celebrating what the ICC is doing to Duterte.

This isn’t just about him anymore—it’s about all of us, our nation, our dignity, and our right to govern ourselves. What just happened sends a chilling message to the world: the Philippines is weak, its laws are meaningless, and our leaders cannot even defend our own sovereignty.

Think about it. A foreign court, made up of people who do not know our history, our struggles, or the weight of our decisions, just placed itself above our own justice system. They are telling us that our courts, our Constitution, our leaders, and even our ability to judge ourselves as a nation do not matter.

And what does this say to modern imperialist powers? To nations like China, the United States, and the European Union—countries that have long dictated the fate of smaller nations like ours? It tells them that we are still a colony, that we are still at the mercy of outsiders, that they can do whatever they want to us as long as they justify it with their version of ‘justice.’

And here’s the most disturbing part: 7,000 of our own police officers—Filipino men and women in uniform—were sent to arrest Duterte, not by our own courts, not by our own people, but at the demand of foreigners. Imagine that. Thousands of our own law enforcers, made to march against a former president, not because of a decision by our own justice system, but because of an order from a foreign court.

Even if you despise Duterte, ask yourself this: if a foreign court can override our country’s authority today, what’s stopping them from doing it again? What’s stopping them from coming after another president, another leader, or even an ordinary citizen one day?

If the ICC can do this now, then what are we as a nation? Just a playground for the powerful? Because let’s not be naive — countries like the U.S. have killed millions in their wars, yet no foreign court dares to arrest their leaders. Who is holding them accountable?

This isn’t justice. This is a reminder of who really holds the leash. And today, that leash just got tighter around our necks.

So, tell me—is that really something to celebrate?

Paglaban ang bansang Pilipinas! 🇵🇭😡

You wanna learn how? Ask me..
28/02/2025

You wanna learn how? Ask me..

10/07/2024

Dear Gentle Readers,

I'm here not to talk about the chismis.. Here's to share you something of what's the current affairs going around in front of my eyes. And I'm not Lady Whistledown.

So sit back and relax.. How would you react when someone like a Godmother of your kid, acts like the original mother to your kid? Would you tolerate it? How would you able to handle it situation as a single working mom?

There were moments single working mom were powerless when it regards to their child due to they can fully hands on to the kiddo, and your role was fill in by someone else. Slowly, your child-parent bond is getting weaker... Child would rather listen to those who always give them attention, because their parent is busy hurdling.

Most of you would say time management is the key. Have the child-parent bonding, there' shouldn't be any excuses when it comes to your kid.

To tell you honestly, a parent shouldn't have to compete with someone to have a bare minimum rights over her child because first and foremost, nothing can beats parent-child relationship unless it is abused, manipulative and neglected.

Nobody has any rights to alienated some parent against their child. No matter how you helped raising the kid, as long as the parent is still alive and being a responsible one, no one has any right to take that away from them.

Gentle readers, that's it for today. I would like to write more in the upcoming days..

17/09/2023

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07/09/2023

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26/06/2023

Dear FB,

Another episode:

Last night I was trying to put my kiddo to bed and she was arguing with me because she said she don't want to sleep at 9PM. She told me she will sleep at 11PM.

She will insists what she wants. I tried to convince it is bad to sleep for only 6 hrs and woke up at 5am for school. She has an exam today.

Hndi sya nakinig at lalong nagmatigas.

Here's what I didn't expect her to say:

"Tama si tita, sa kanya lang ako makikinig. Hindi na ako makikinig sayo."

Natriggered ako especially her tita was around and nakikinig lang. Like WTH San to nanggagaling?? I told her cgeh sa tita mo na ikaw, hayaan ko kayong 2 dito.

I walked out and was feeling furious. Went upstairs, pumunta siya sa itaas para magpalit ng damit.

I told her this:
Hindi kita ihahatid sa school tomorrow. Mag.isa ka nalang. Iiwan kita dito sa Tita mo dahil siya nman gusto mo makasama dba?. Uuwi ako ng province., dito ka lang. (Nasasaktan na ako sa sinasabi ko at my voice broke)

She cried. Nagmakakaaawa na wag ko daw siyang iwan.

I asked her, bakit ganyan ka? Tinuruan ka ba ng tita mo ng ganyanin ako? Lasunin pag-iisip mo???

Tapos umakyat yung Tita niya. Nanggigil siya and kinompronta ako.

Ano daw ang pinagsasabi kong nilalason daw niya utak ng anak ko?
Hindi daw niya tinuruan yun at yung anak ko lang daw nagsabi nun.

Nagkanda.utal utal na siya galit. Bastos daw ako at ang kapal ng pagmumukha ko. At another sumbat.

Hindi ko siya sinagot, sa anak ko lang ako nakatingin at nag.iiyakan kami.

Bakit ako takot sumagot? Dahil alam ko kasunod nun, pisikal. Mapanakit siya. At ayaw ko na maulit yun last 3 years ago. She walked out na umuusok yung mata sa galit..

Hindi ko alam why naapektuhan siya sa sinabi ko? Dahil ba totoo?? Bakit nung sinasabi yun ng anak ko na nadidinig nman niya, di sya umimik or ngreact or kinorek yung bata.

Now my kid is a liar...?

Next character: yung may.ari ng bahay ang umakyat ktatapos lang maligo:

Ano daw nangyari? Ano daw sinabi ng anak ko? Hindi ko siya sinasagot..

Hindi daw nila alam bakit galit na galit ako. Maang-maangan? Ikaw ba hindi respetuhin ng anak mo, iba n pinapakinggan niya..hindi ka ba masasaktan?

Tapos ako pa din ang sisihin?? There is a wall between the 3 of them and me, there is another world of me and kiddo and them.

Ang hirap.. it's been 3 years since the last incident 2020 tapos bumabalik na nman pagka.impakta nila.

Yes this is traumatizing. I'm telling you this and I don't care whoever read this. Maganda sila makitungo sa ibang tao, pero hindi mo alam totoong ugali nila pagkasama sa house. Mganda din pakikitungo nila kung may kelangan sila sayo.

But I am done tolerating this. Ang tagal ko na nagtitiis, at yung nasa loob2x ko baka umapaw na at sumabog na ako. Hindi ko na makayanan.

If God is listening, sana I'm doing the right decisions..

😫😤😭

22/06/2023

Dear Fb,

So kase wala akong diary. At heto na nman ako - feeling stress, helpless and I don't know what to do..

'BITCH SISTER'

Wala akong mahingian ng payo, walang mapag.sabihan kaya sayo ko nalang ibubunton lahat.

The last 2 nights, bitch sister and I had a fight - verbal arguments WITH regards of my KID and she was there. Buti hindi umabot sa pambugbog ulit saken and sirain ang phone ko.

Here's how it goes:

My kid asked me: Bakit noong daycare si Tita ang taga hatid at sundo niya? Bakit ngaun ako na tagahatid at ndi na si tita si niya..

Sabi ko kase may work ako at that time..Sa office. Eh now work from home na. But she always keep asking me that. Any time anywhere.

And I told her: Gusto mo hindi na kita ihatid? Kayo nalang ng kaschoolmate ang papasok kase back to office na ulit si Mama. Tulad ng kaschoolmate mo papasok nalang siya mag.isa.

Sumabat si bitch sister: Subukan mo lang.. Kaming 2 ni Ate **** mo ang makakaaway mo pag ginawa mo yan. (Yung may.ari ng bahay ang tinutukoy niya dito. Ninang lang yan.)

And I told her, anak ko nman to bat hindi ko pwdeng turuan??

At andami niyang pinagsasabi, di nalang daw ako maging thankful sa kanila kase inalagaan daw nila anak ko. They seems to care, kase wala nman sila mga work since wala pa anak ko.

Nabutthurt siya sinabi ko, sabi niya sgeh mas ok pa daw sa province nalang kmi at ako nala daw mag.alaga sa anak ko.

Ayaw nila maging independent ang anak ko kase gusto nila umasa nalang at walang alam. Which is I don't agree, magiging delayed na sya sa edad niya. She's 8yo and sinusubuan pa din tuwing umaga ppunta sa school.

I wanted to broke this curse. And I'm in between of giving up my career and to take care of her sa province nmin. I NEED A PEACE OF MIND.

ALAM MO yung pinagtatalunan namin yung ANAK ko sa harap niya. At sa bawat pagtatalo andun yung takot ko na baka bugbugin na nman ako at ikamatay ko.

That's how because I'm receiving threats, kahit magpost sa sarili kong fb hindi ko makagawa..Para mailabas ko hinanaing ko.

God please help me.

10/06/2023

Please invent a charger with a Bluetooth. Ang hirap hanapin ng hindi namimiscallan. 😩

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