Wet Dreamz Podcast

01/07/2025

“You’re not the problem—you’re the one carrying the weight of it.”

A lot of men aren’t taught how to process grief, rejection, or emotional overload. Just how to shut it down. That doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’ve been carrying too much, too quietly.

💬 If you’re looking for real, honest conversations about mental health, masculinity, and healing, you’re in the right place.

29/06/2025

You’re holding it together on the outside, but inside? You might feel lost, angry, or like you’re not enough anymore—and no one’s really asking how you're doing.

In our newest episode, Jose and Dr. Hinman get real about navigating divorce as a man—how emotionally draining, confusing, and isolating it can be. Whether you’re a dad, a partner, or someone starting over, this episode unpacks everything from:

👉 S*x and intimacy during/after divorce

👉 Mental health struggles in men

👉 The impact of divorce on self-worth and relationships

▶️ Check out the full episode wherever you get your podcasts. Our LinkTree is in our bio for the full episode now out on Spotify and Youtube!

41 seconds · Clipped by Lindsay Hinman · Original video "29. "You're pressing the nuclear button": Divorce, S*x, and Self-Esteem" by Wet Dreamz Podcast

19/06/2025

🖤 Juneteenth is a reminder that liberation is more than a moment—it’s a process.
It’s about freedom, yes—but also about healing, rest, and reclaiming what was taken.

In our podcast, we talk a lot about personal healing. But that healing doesn’t happen in a vacuum—it’s deeply connected to the systems around us.
Let's pause to honor Black freedom, Black excellence, and the ongoing fight for equity in both mental health and beyond.

✊🏾 Stay grounded, stay kind, and stay in the fight.

17/06/2025

🧠 + 🍆 = more complicated than you think.

When you’ve trained your brain and your body to respond to p**n, it can actually make real-life s*x… well, hard. Or not hard.

Dr. Brad explains how consistent p**n use can rewire s*xual arousal patterns — so when you’re with a real person, things don’t always fire the way you expect.

This isn’t about shame. It’s about understanding how your body works — and how to reconnect with it.

🔗 Links in bio to listen to the full episode.

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25 seconds · Clipped by Lindsay Hinman · Original video "26. "Erectile Dysfunction: It's Bigger Than Your. . ." by Wet Dreamz Podcast

15/06/2025

Happy Father’s Day to every dad out there navigating the complexities of life, love, and libido.

Let’s be real—being a father doesn’t come with a manual. And when it comes to intimacy, a lot of men carry silent worries. Shame. Comparison. Pressure to “always be in the mood.”
This week on the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we’re breaking the silence.

Host Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman dig deep into the truth about lower male libido—a topic that hits home more than people might admit. They unpack the emotional weight, the myths of masculinity, and the importance of honest communication in relationships.

Because strength isn’t about performance. It’s about presence.
And showing up for your partner—and yourself—is something worth celebrating.

🎧 Listen to the full episode on YouTube or Spotify. Links are in our bio! 👉😁👂

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman dive into the topic of men experiencing lower libido than their partn...

15/06/2025

Not every thought needs to be a motivational poster.

Sometimes the most helpful thing you can say to yourself is:

“Eh, I didn’t do great… and that’s okay.”

In this clip, Jose and Dr. Hinman talk about how swinging between “I suck” and “I’m amazing” can be exhausting — and how neutral self-talk can actually help you grow more steadily.

It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being honest, kind, and real.

🔗 Links in our bio for full episodes of Wet Dreamz Podcast on Spotify and Youtube!

13/06/2025

For the men who’ve been told to “man up.”
For those who’ve been taught that emotions are weakness.
For anyone carrying shame around identity, s*x, or silence — this space is for you.

The Wet Dreamz Podcast isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about understanding what’s underneath it all — and helping you feel less alone while you figure it out.

🧠 Real conversations.
💬 Shame-free support.
🏳️‍🌈 Inclusive, affirming, and built for growth.

🎧 Links are in our bio for Spotify, YouTube & more!

*xPositiveHealing

11/06/2025

Yes, we’re s*x therapists.

No, we’re not here to scandalize you.

We’re licensed mental health professionals — who happen to talk about s*x, shame, boundaries, identity, trauma, relationships, and the things that keep people stuck.

This moment? It’s funny. But it’s also real.

Because when someone asks you a question that nudges your shame or touches your history, your reaction matters. That’s where the work begins.

🎧 Hear the full convo from Episode 24 on Youtube or Spotify! Links in our bio! 🩷

*xTherapistsAreRealTherapists

40 seconds · Clipped by Lindsay Hinman · Original video "24. So you want to see a S*x Therapist?" by Wet Dreamz Podcast

08/06/2025

Life is going to throw you curveballs, it's guaranteed to happen BUT we get to choose how we cope and react to the difficult situations we go through in life. There's no one right way to cope with hard times, but taking your time and thinking through it as best you can is always a great place to start.

15 seconds · Clipped by Lindsay Hinman · Original video "27. "It wasn't this random surge of p**n in your brain, there's reasons"" by Wet Dreamz Podcast

06/06/2025

🎙️ Behind the scenes at Wet Dreamz HQ 😎

Dr. Hinman and Jose mid-recording (and probably mid-laugh, let’s be honest).

We talk about tough stuff — but we also bring humor, heart, and human-ness to every episode.

New episode’s up now if you haven’t listened yet — and yep, it’s a good one.

04/06/2025

We know what it’s like to not see yourself reflected in the conversation.

That’s why we’re building a podcast that holds space for the messy, the complicated, the “I thought it was just me” stuff.

If you’ve ever felt out of place — whether it’s in your identity, your healing, or your relationships — this podcast is made with you in mind.

🎧 Catch our latest episode on either Youtube or Spotify! Links are in our bio!

No performance. No perfection. Just honesty, growth, and the occasional awkward laugh.

03/06/2025

🎧 “It wasn’t this random surge of p**n in your brain — there’s reasons.”

In this week’s newest episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez sits down with Dr. Brad Hinman to unpack Step 3 of their 8-step recovery model: Progression.

They talk about escalation, tolerance, emotional triggers, and how understanding your patterns isn’t about shame — it’s about reclaiming your story.

🔄 If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep going back to this?” — this episode is for you.

🎧 Watch now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuLnsqKM6jE or listen on Spotify! Links in our bio!😁

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In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman discuss STEP 3 of their eight-step recovery model for addressing out-...