Sunshine in my heart

23/09/2023

You deserve someone who can't wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you.

Stop settling for half hearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive people.

It's so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.

11/09/2023

Never force a relationship.

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with.

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you.

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need
them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be
careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

30/08/2023

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12/08/2023

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I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything.

It won't make people suddenly love and respect you.

It won't magically change their minds.

Sometimes it's better to just let things be and let people go.

Don't fight for that closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from.

I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside of you.

Take my advice and ....work on yourself and your inner peace and you'll come to realize that not reacting to every little thing that bothers you is the first ingredient to living a healthy and happy life.

11/08/2023

10/08/2023

“I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me…
“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me…
I stopped fighting with my in laws…
I stopped fighting for attention…
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me…
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone…
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me….
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight…
And I started fighting for my vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny.
The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content.”
Some fights are not worth your time….. Choose what you fight for wisely.”-Author unknown

08/08/2023

So tell me,
where shall i go?
To the left, where
nothing’s right,
or to the right,
where nothing’s
left.
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22/04/2023

📌 let go. love them from a distance‚ let them figure out their feelings‚ what they want in life‚ where they’re going‚ and who they want to be. focus on yourself and your goals while you’re giving them space and remember you’re not obligated to still be there waiting when they’re ready.

14/04/2023

📌 Sad life in being an employee.. We are like robots of our bosses, and at the end of the day, they don’t care what ever is going to happen to us.. That’s why don’t be die hard in the company. Take good care of our self 1st, and self love❤️

03/04/2023

📌 know your worth and
Stop giving people a discount

05/02/2023

📌Never stay in a place where no one see your value.

A father said to his daughter “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago.
It is a bit older now but before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them you want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.

The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because they said it looks pretty worn out.”

The father said, now “Take it to the pawn shop.” The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said,”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”

The father asked his daughter to go to a car club now and show them the car. The daughter then took the car to the club, returned and told her father,” Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Holden Torana and it's an iconic car and sought by many collectors”

Now the father said this to his daughter, “The right place values you the right way,” If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.

24/12/2022

📌 Life is too short to hide your feelings. Dont be afraid to say what you feel…

24/12/2022

📌Forgive your self for the choices you made, when you didn’t know you had better options.
Focus on growing and moving on.

24/12/2022

📌This is the way life is,sometimes you are sad,sometimes you are lonely,sometimes you are depressed,and sometimes you need somebody to grab hold of your hand and pull you out of your emotional trauma,but the world seems to be unfair,nobody seems to care about your feelings,nobody seems to give a dam about what you are going through,but don't give up because life goes on and you are not alone,that's is just the way life is..

24/12/2022

📌Make sure you enjoy the holidays on your own terms. Don’t let others dictate to you how to celebrate Christmas. Don’t allow yourself to be sucked into the frenzy of nonstop buying, giving and eating. Don’t be embarrassed if you can’t afford the gifts you’re expected to give. Don’t be pressured to prepare a lavish party that your friends are too busy to attend. Don’t cry yourself to sleep because you’re home alone while the rest of the world is out there celebrating. Remember that all this boisterous merry-making is not as real as it seems, exaggerated only by those who want to exploit it for their own gain. If you just let the noisy bandwagon pass tonight, tomorrow you will wake up to a quieter world. If you can wait until the holiday reaches its climax, you will emerge from it with your health and savings intact. Be smart and don’t give to anyone who feels entitled to your gift. Give it instead to those who least expect it and those who need it the most—the poor, the sick and the suffering.