Inspired Lolibu

15/12/2023

Do you love BINGO??

Me too!! My amazing yogi friend is hosting a Self-care BINGO game. If you win (blackout the card), you get an awesome prize. 🎉 🎁

The way I see it though, you're a winner if you take the time to complete ANY of the squares! 🧘‍♀️

Join using the link in the comments 🙏🏻

10/09/2023

Instead of reasons why you can't, gather reasons, excuses, and evidence of why and how you CAN.

09/09/2023

We can grow alone and get good results.

Or we can grow with others and become limitless.

09/09/2023

Achieving all the grandest things start with being grateful even when you have "nothing."

09/09/2023

Can I be honest with you?
You're smarter, more prepared, and more successful than you give yourself credit for.
Sleep on it 💤

07/09/2023

I don't pick sides.

Every side has another side that is unable to be spoken.

I've learned in life, that things just are.

They exist.

It's up to us to take action on them dependent on the moment or the need.

And if no action is taken, it will either exist or cease to exist.

But it doesn't mean that it's good or bad.

What we pick up or react to is a reflection of what we want or desire.

We get to choose.

We choose how we feel.

What we see.

How we respond.

It's not easy to actively choose versus just running on autopilot.

But with practice, it gets easier and easier. 💙

I learned this lesson when everyone was picking between N'SYNC and Backstreet Boys and I'm over here thinking... Why choose when I can love 'em both? 🤷🏻‍♀️😄🥰

As an example, my children asked which drawing I liked better 👇 and of course... I love them both 😁

19/08/2023

Before he started live-streaming, Alex Hormozi said he practiced his 90-minute presentation at LEAST 40 times 🔥

15/08/2023

When you exert a lot of energy (good or bad), allow yourself the time to recover.

There's a post I saw recently that I love so much, shared by a few people.

What it shows is that consistency isn't showing up at 💯% each day or every single time.

Consistency is showing up each day and every single time with what you've got.

Some days, you've got 110% to give, and to pour into yourself and others.

Other times, it's showing up to allow others to pour into you.

And that's OKAY! In fact, it's healthy! One of the greatest things about being human is that we can build or find a community that we can thrive in no matter what stage of life we show up as.

I'm going all in on my communities. I've created a few and joined several.

I can feel the next level arriving! 🚀

11/08/2023

Everyone needs a shameless Hype person in their lives!! 🌟✨💥🚀

Someone who will cheer you on no matter how wild your wishes are, how insane your goals may be, how impossible your dreams might sound.

It's just as important to have a hype person in your life as it is to have someone who will call you out on your s**t 💁🏻‍♀️

But PLEASE know the difference in calling you out on your s**t to help break unhealthy patterns or bad habits versus just plain talking s**t ❎

Here's your reminder to LOVE on the people who elevate you and LEAVE the people who drain you of your energy.

You know who they are!

Tag your hype person 👇 and if you're proud of them, the s**t-caller-outer too? 🤷🏻‍♀️😆🔥

11/08/2023

There are parts of me holding back because I'm afraid I'll lose time with my children.
I'm afraid I won't have enough product.
I'm afraid I'm not prepared.
All of this is allowing me to just sit back and coast and let more excuses in than I'd like.

Reframes:
I have enough time to do all the things I desire 💙
Things are happening at a rate in which I can show up - freely, fully, meaningfully, and intentionally.
I am spending time creating moments that truly light me up during a time when such moments are fleeting.
Positivity, possibility, and flow surrounds me.

Fear will always be present. But it can simply remind us that just because something is present doesn't mean it has to take over.

Acknowledge its presence and communicate with it why for right now, you're going to keep going.

Name the reasons. Be specific. Give it examples of how and why you are capable; that you can create clarity.

Remind yourself that fear and specifically - fear of the unknown - are a part of the process.

If you can take one action towards your goal for today, the momentum will build and the fear gets a little quieter and quieter.

Gratitude:
My daughter and I are becoming closer, which means the world to me.
My son is starting to realize how awesome he is not only to us, but to himself - which is what really matters.
Our little dude is standing on his ownnnnn!!!! 🥳🥳 He is so protective of his older siblings 💙💙
We have a wonderful community that surrounds us of people who love, support, and empower us to be amazing humans.
Some things may not be seen, heard, or shared, but are felt deeply in all the best ways.
Knowing all of these things, I sleep so well. 💙

Oh, and A/C. 🙏 With all of these "EXTREME HEAT" warnings every night, this air conditioning is something I am actively aware of throughout the day 😄

07/08/2023

Find the evidence that you've got what it takes to do BIG things and knock 'em outta the park! 💥

06/08/2023

This month, my dad turns 60 🥹

It's amazing how fast time flies when we're just going going going.

My dad has evolved so much from the man I remember in Vietnam who didn't even seem ready for children because he had multiple massive German Shepherds, chickens, and pigs that he spent most of his time caring for.

When he married my mom, he traded in livestock for fish 🐠 🐟 (the only animals allowed in a food service facility, an interesting lead-in to a story for another day ;) ), secured and contained so they (for the most part) would not interfere with my mom and her unnerving fear of animals 😅

Seeing pictures of how rebellious he was is hilarious because he had the look, with his motorcycle, cigarette in hand, and long hair. Yet he is one of the kindest people you'll ever meet.

He finds joy in spending time with people who give him energy.

He has a rule: He'll only attend weddings and funerals because they are life milestones intended to only happen once. That way, he can prioritize them and be there for everyone who has any meaning to him - which - if we were still in the world of Rolodexes, would be never-ending. In fact, I remember this huge list of phone numbers he used to carry around in his pocket before cell phones 📱 became a thing.

He liked to have numbers handy so he could refer friends and connect people who could benefit from knowing each other in one way or another.

In junior high, I had random schoolmates calling me asking for other students' phone numbers because they knew I had a little address book with just about everyone's phone numbers inside 😂

There's one specific memory I'll never forget and reference often. I was 18. First year of junior college. The person I was dating at the time went to school 4 hours (driving distance) away. I wanted to go see him and stay the night. Thinking back, if it were my daughter now, geez, there would be a lot to talk about 😁

But I tried to reason with my dad - "Dad, we (me and my 3 siblings) don't party wildly, drink til we black out, hang out with sketchy people, do drugs for kicks, or vandalize buildings to express ourselves creatively. We are GOOD kids! Why can't you trust me to make good decisions with a GOOD guy??"

He responded with, "If you're going to compare behaviors, why would you choose these? Why not compare to behaviors of growth, discipline, kindness, compassion, self-control, moral, and legal acts?" Okay, I added a couple of my own words in there but the message remains the same.

This was one of the few conversations my dad and I have had over the years.

With 4 kids, a full-time work schedule, hobbies, friends, and now 3 grandchildren, it's a rare moment to get to "sit down and chat" with him.

I treasure these moments with my dad. He's one of my favorite people in the world, and despite what the other 3 may think, I'm my daddy's favorite 😆💙🥰 and I see more and more as life goes on how much I've really picked up from him. Except for his punctuality. That never really stuck. In fact, I may even be allergic to it... 😂🤣 (My sister actually acquired this from him, so at least it didn't go to waste 😅)

I love my father. He is a father, a dad, a gentleman, a friend, a son, a brother, a husband, and grandfather (ông ngoại) we all would want and more 💙

All the Hispanics around here think he's Mexican and he's okay with it. He'll be your amigo if you let him. 🤗

I get a lot of what I love about myself from him and I'm eternally grateful to be raised by such a wonderful man.

I hope you have a splendid birthday this year, dad. 🥳 We love you. 💙

05/08/2023

Your go-to will always be what is most accessible to you.

What are you keeping close?

02/08/2023

Happy August 1st, y'all!! 🥳🥳

For the next couple of months, my posts will be around Redefining Success and Limiting Beliefs.

I'm co-hosting a virtual Summit around the idea of Success.

This idea was written long ago. Not by me. Likely not by you, though you are pretty awesome ;)

This idea of success looks a lot like:

Successful career, ie. Lawyer, doctor, engineer, architect, you get the idea, all the "guaranteed to be successful" professions.

Successful family - if you're a woman - to be wed to a wealthy husband, a man - to be wed to a doting woman who will do a smashing job raising the children (yes, you must have children), caring for the house, all while being an all-star full-time employee.

Successful finances, mental health, beautiful house, fancy car, faithful friends, the list goes on.

Successful was defined for me when I grew up, by what I saw on television, heard on the radio, watched in movies.

These days though, you turn to any social media platform and success is displayed in a grandiose manner with unrealistic lifestyles highlighted as though it's the only expectation we have for ourselves and of everyone.

But how common is it for us to see families fall apart, "happy" people take their lives, seemingly great citizens craft their own stellar kidnappings, CEO's step down and away from the responsibilities of the expected success?

To see and hear about CHILDREN ending their lives because they don't have the life, the car, the house the happiness, the grades, the followers, the likes, the vitality of people online is devastating.

The struggle in men. In women. In children. In leaders. In employees. In students. In teachers. In professionals.

The struggle starts with how success was laid out FOR us.

It's time it's rewritten.

For you.

For me.

For those looking up to us.

For those after us.

Happiness. Joy. Creativity. Fulfillment. Love. Compassion.

I'm not making millions.

I'm not technically married.

I'm not a doctor.

I'm not shaped like Barbie.

I don't do my makeup every morning.

But I am happier than I have ever been before in my life.

I've learned to say "no".

I've learned to keep people away who don't add peace and joy to my life (or at least have minimal interactions with them 😅)

I've learned to enjoy this moment.

Learned to appreciate my NOW.

I've learned that my life is how I create it. How I view it. How I lead it. How I choose to live it.

And on this journey, I've met so many beautiful (in every way) people who just exude happiness without living the traditional idea of success.

It's so inspiring.

And I can't keep it to myself.

So, I'm inviting you to join me on this road - to Redefining Success. 💙

We go LIVE mid September.

I'll be revealing speakers between now and then.

You'll love them.

Will you be sticking around?

Will you join us for the virtual summit?

And in full transparency, this summit will be $47 for each person who wants to have a virtual seat.

From years of experience in the online space, over saturated with information, good, bad, free, or otherwise, there is no doubt that when you pay, you pay attention.

Honestly, I'm even toying with the idea of providing a full refund to those who pay, attend, and actually get something out of the experience. 🤷🏻‍♀️ No promises! But if everything comes together the way we know it will, you'll walk away with value that surpasses the amount invested by leaps and bounds.

Ultimately, this event will be transformative.

If nothing else, you'll leave inspired to view life from a renewed perspective.

You only get this one life.

Make it count.

Let's Redefine Success to get the MOST out of every day, starting from within.

What do you say, are you in?

Leave a "YES" below if you are and I'll be sure to reach out as soon as the registration link is available. ✨

01/08/2023

We all have a choice.
We can either make a living or design a life. 🌟✨🔥
- Jim Rohn

31/07/2023

There should not be a soul out there who wants your success more than you do for yourself.
Be your own biggest cheerleader. 💙

31/07/2023

Until Facebook figures out how to properly promote 🌟 and celebrate their creators, I'm sprinkling Stars left and right ⭐✨🌟

31/07/2023

My dream life includes waking up to the sounds of the beach and a view of🌅 thru my floor-to-ceiling windows in a secluded area 😍

28/07/2023

July 27, 2023

Tonight, I'm grateful for:
My family - they continue to grow expansively in love and laughter

My communities - I have been yearning for friendships that will last a lifetime - the ones who end up becoming generational friends with you.

The tech that supports my efficiency, my business, and my creativity.

My comfy bed and sheets. It never fails. Every time I lay out on my bed, I think... "Mmm... Nice... Cool... Sheets. Ahhh... I'm so lucky 😍"

My little bubs who just loves to bang on the piano. He may be Mozart one day 😀

Nice. Cold. Water.

Phone calls.

The internet. So vast 😅

Feeling good about what I'm grateful for and not feeling guilty that I'm leaving anything out of my list 😆

27/07/2023

I love every single thing about this 💙💙💙💙

I'll be your Jamie if you'll be mine! 😘

25/07/2023

My mission is to be here to remind you that you CAN when you think you can't.
💙

22/07/2023

I'd like to try an experiment.

I want to start collecting offers. People will submit their links and offers into my collection (spreadsheet).

Then, every week, let's say I have $30-$100 to invest into someone's "Easy yes" or "tripwire"

I go through the offer, course, resource, call, whatever this offer is... And then create a video about it. An honest one.

Why does it matter what I think?

Great question.

It doesn't. But what I share could potentially be a great testimonial for someone's product(s) and they reach an audience they may have never otherwise reached and I help the people who need said offer as well as the creator. Win-win. Which also, in turn, is a win for me... Because I love seeing other people win! 🥳🥳

However, if I don't love it, I'll provide private feedback to the individual creator and it's up to them whether they want to take action on it or not. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thoughts?

(Yes, this picture is definitely a part of my collection of selfies from my Day of Selfies 😄)

21/07/2023

I took at least 134 selfies yesterday.

To some, this is conceited, narcissistic, self-centered, arrogant, shameless, vain, selfish... If you're one of those, nice to know you, but we can't be friends.

I, myself used to cringe at people taking selfies and being "too much." I was busy worrying so much about others that I didn't take the time to see much in myself.

I'm happy to report (and y'all who know me now, know), that I've awakened to the reality of beauty.

Self-love, confidence, appreciation for yourself, showing self-worth comes in many different forms.

Show yours HOW. YOU. WANT. TO.

Let others look in wonder.

I've spent too many years behind the camera because I didn't feel worthy, because I was "too fat," because I felt ugly, because I didn't fit in, because I wasn't proud...

But now, I know better.

I am effing fabulous. 💁🏻‍♀️

The AUDACITY, right??? 🥰

You are, toooooo!!!! Open up to yourself, do the work, connect with others who inspire and lift you up and you'll see it just how magnificent you are 🥰✨🌟

When you love yourself, it's SO easy to love others and allow others to love you.

AND you never feel guilty for doing the FUN things, the things you enjoy, the things that fill your cup, the things that some people just. Plain. Don't. Get. And the best part, you aren't even bothered to wonder why.

You keep strutting your stuff, and shining your light... And eventually, slowly, but surely, people will start to get it. They start to see that this IS you. And it's pretty. Dang. Phenomenal.

Don't dim your light or hide yourself to accommodate anyone else's lack of vision or understanding.

Show up with pleasure and shine brightly. Because you are!! ✨

In case you're wondering, I was invited by my sister to dinner to celebrate a totally awesome person, I had just taken a fresh shower, my lipstick 💄 and lip gloss ( Queen Cosmetics 🙏🙏 a literal gold mine of glittery force in one tube, I SWEAR!) were ✨poppin✨, I got to spend time with my daughter *in addition* to meeting some amazing new people, had a fantastic meal, I had on some 🔥🔥 heels, and I was, as they say, "feelin' myself." 💫

21/07/2023

I took at least 134 selfies yesterday.

To some, this is conceited, narcissistic, self-centered, arrogant, shameless, vain, selfish... If you're one of those, nice to know you, but we can't be friends.

I, myself used to cringe at people taking selfies and being "too much." I was so busy worrying so much about others that I didn't take the time to see much in myself.

I'm happy to report (and y'all who know me now, know), that I've awaked to the reality of beauty.

Self-love, confidence, appreciation for yourself, showing self-worth comes in many different forms.

Show yours HOW. YOU. WANT. TO.

Let others look in wonder.

I've spent too many years behind the camera because I didn't feel worthy, because I was "too fat," because I felt ugly, because I didn't fit in, because I wasn't proud...

But now, I know better.

I am effing fabulous. 💁🏻‍♀️

The AUDACITY, right??? 🥰

You are, toooooo!!!! Open up to yourself, do the work, connect with others who inspire and life you up and you'll see it too!!!

When you love yourself, it's SO easy to love others and allow others to love you.

AND you never feel guilty for doing the FUN things, the things you enjoy, the things that fill your cup, the things that some people just. Plain. Don't. Get. And the best part, you aren't even bothered to wonder why.

You keep strutting your stuff, and shining your light... And eventually, slowly, but surely, people will start to get it. They start to see that this IS you. And it's pretty. Dang. Phenomenal.

Don't dim your light or hide yourself to accommodate anyone else's lack of vision or understanding.

Show up with pleasure and shine brightly. Because you are!! ✨

In case you're wondering, I was invited by my sister to dinner to celebrate a totally awesome person, I had just taken a fresh shower, my lipstick and lip gloss Queen Cosmetics 🙏🙏 (a literal gold mine of glittery force in one tube, I SWEAR!) were ✨poppin✨, I got to spend time with my daughter *in addition* to meeting some amazing new people, had a fantastic meal, I had on some 🔥🔥 heels, and I was, as they say, "feelin' myself." 💫

01/07/2022

✨ Are You Trying to Grow Your Following? Your membership? Your Revenue? ✨
✨ What You Track and Focus on Grows 🌱 11/100

29/06/2022

✨ Let this question scare you into action!! ✨ 10/100

28/06/2022

✨ Start Selfishly ✨ If you've ever felt like you're doing something for a selfish reason... 10/100

26/06/2022

✨Digital Declutter✨ Do you ever feel overwhelmed by your email inbox? Here is a quick tip on how to get organized one subscription at a time

24/06/2022

✨ Easiest Content Organization by Special Request ☺️ ✨ 8/100

23/06/2022

✨ Don't know who you can help? Start HERE! ✨ 7/100

23/06/2022

✨ NOT without Intention... ✨ 6/100

22/06/2022

The Inspired Love, Life, & Business Podcast : Episode 6: 5 Fool-Proof Ways to Bring the Right Energy Into Any Room!

You know what I wish I'd learned earlier about mindset and how you show up? The fact that you can improve your energy in the space you're stepping into simply by having the right tools! I've discovered and have been using a few if not all of these 5 things to thrive in any environment.  I'm sharing...

22/06/2022

✨ How to Be Ready for ANYTHING!! ✨

21/06/2022

✨ THIS is Where to Start... If you're Feeling Stuck ✨

21/06/2022

✨This ONE Thing Will Get You Traction When Starting Out in Business ✨

20/06/2022

🧹 Digital Decluttering: Cleaning out your Facebook groups (getting rid of the ones you haven't visited in a while and making space for more aligned groups for where you're at now). ✨

20/06/2022

Super excited to be back and sharing Marketing and Business tips EVERYDAY!

Quick and easy to help make YOUR Love, Life, and Business Simpler and even MORE enjoyable 💙🔥

18/06/2022

Last week, I shared the Realities of Starting a Business and I got into the truths that I faced as I got my first client, got to 6-figures and beyond, and then refigured what aligned with me.

My hope is to help you realize that the ups and downs and ebbs and flows of doing anything you haven't done before are to be expected. Maybe not always exciting, but knowing what you're meant for and that it's all a part of the journey to reaching your desired life is what makes it all worth it. 💙

You can scroll down to watch each part of the 5 series. I'd love to know your thoughts 🤗

16/06/2022

Being grateful every day. A reminder when something could potentially p!$$ you off (from experience) 😂

15/06/2022

The Inspired Love, Life, & Business Podcast : Episode 5: How to Find The Light When You're Feeling Lost

I wish I had learned to celebrate every single win and every small step - even the hard parts and the struggles. Paired with what I know now about the energy we create and can share with others, it's completely changed my life quality in so many ways.   Join me in this episode, as we discuss why no...