The VanderPointe

03/02/2022

Season one was about our experiences and perspectives with ineffective systems, working with survivors, and our thoughts on changing and dismantling the systems that are keeping the wheel turning. And in season two, we need you!

https://thevanderpointe.com/2022/02/03/season-two-yes-please/

In season one of The VanderPointe, we questioned our impact despite intentions, explored solutions, and got critical of systems and the way it has always been done.  Jessyca and Rachel hold ma…

24/01/2022

The in between is where the work happens, and we're hard at work reflecting on what we've learned through season one and making plans for season two!

Stay tuned for announcements and ways that YOU can get involved in the next season of The VanderPointe 😎😎😎

(resharing this episode just so you can listen again ❤)

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03/12/2021

Have you listened to this yet???

https://thevanderpointe.com/2021/11/25/tied-in-a-bow/

Cohosts Jessyca Vandercoy and Rachel Pointer conclude season one of The VanderPointe. Jessyca and Rachel reflect on why they chose today to conclude season one, what they have gained and learned th…

25/11/2021

On this episode we reflect on what we have learned throughout this journey of breathing life into this podcast. We also talk about why we chose today to air the conclusion of season one, and what we hope the impact of the work has been.

What comes next for the VanderPointe? As we work on what happens in 2022, we’d love to hear your reflections and thoughts on what you hope comes next! 😃❤

https://thevanderpointe.com/2021/11/25/tied-in-a-bow/

24/11/2021

We are so grateful to all of you for the support we have had throughout this journey of creating and producing The VanderPointe. The final episode of season one hits the airways this Thursday at noon, don’t miss it.

23/11/2021

New episode will be dropping Thursday at noon! Set your watch, grab your family and friends, and get ready to listen in :-)

(yes, THIS Thursday at noon)

23/11/2021

We talked about this last episode... sometimes the message needs repeating.

"The work happens between the sessions, and life happens between the breath." - Rachel Pointer

We're working on our final episode of season one, reflecting on the in between. ❤ Thursday at noon!

18/11/2021

We are back with a whole new episode!!
We missed you and know that you missed us too 😊 In this episode, we talk about healing and justice, and how the “in between” is where the really work is.

Grab your lunch, walking shoes, or a comfy blanket, and listen in.
https://player.captivate.fm/episode/1ccf3aee-6ee5-47a2-b09c-e70b1871797c

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18/11/2021

We are back with a new episode, today at noon!

See you soon :-)

11/11/2021

We are hard at work on the last two episodes of season one, and tending to ourselves and our families. We will be back next week (11/18 at noon) with a brand-new episode, but in the meantime, take a listen to one of Rachel’s favorite episodes!

https://thevanderpointe.com/2021/08/05/check-your-message/

Cohosts Jessyca Vandercoy and Rachel Pointer talk more about their process, open the door for a conversation about white saviorism, and remind us about how our words and actions impact healing. Jes…

10/11/2021

Due to needing some additional time to honor some personal and family needs, and making sure we’re staying true to our intentions, we are taking an extra week off.

We will be back next week with episode 19, and in the meantime, check out one of Jessyca’s favorite episodes!


https://thevanderpointe.com/2021/09/16/its-an-encore/

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01/11/2021

While the VanderPointe team is off resting and enjoying some time away, go back and relisten to your favorite episodes. Don’t forget to share with your friends, subscribe, download, and listen to all the episodes of The VanderPointe on your favorite app – Apple, Spotify, Google Podcast, Audible, Amazon Music and more!

We will return with episode 19 on November 11th at noon!

28/10/2021

We talk a lot about modeling behavior, and interrupting the systems that create space and opportunity for trafficking and exploitation. This episode is no different, except for the part that we’ll be talking about our upcoming time to recenter and practice rest! Join us for this reflective conversation that will leave you wondering which episodes you’re going back to while we’re on break 😊

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/70bd3e73-059c-4aeb-b487-bbc20a2ec697

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24/10/2021

Worthy today, to be heard, to be successful, to share your thoughts. Tune in as The VanderPointe discusses what could have gotten in our way in building this podcast.

21/10/2021

Today we return for part two of our conversation about the difference between being trauma informed and trauma responsive or trauma ready, and what that has to do with the challenge to not be a trafficker. In this episode we talk about some specific examples of parallel processes and exploitive actions, ways to wade upstream, and more of our thoughts about trauma ready and trauma responsive services.

Pull up your favorite chair, grab your coloring pages and notebook, and join us!

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/9d544e68-1d4e-4c4b-a2f0-a7dcd61fcdd6

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14/10/2021

Today we begin a two-part conversation about the difference between being trauma informed and trauma responsive or trauma ready, and what that has to do with the challenge to not be a trafficker. In this episode we talk openly about our own ongoing journey with self-care, and challenging systems and norms around what success is and why that matters.

Grab your coffee or tea, lunch or snack, or lace up your walkin’ shoes, and listen in!

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/8c776e58-efc0-408a-8864-add87f55666b

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07/10/2021

First, we built a plan. Then, this happened. And it was truly beautiful.

Want to know what we’re talking about?

Find us on your favorite podcast listening app, or click the link below to listen in.

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/0e2daab3-80c0-4392-9aee-7e8a485e9fd5

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30/09/2021

Episode 14 is live and ready for you to hear on the website, or on your favorite podcast listening app!

The program, agency, or movement says it’s survivor centered…but is it really? Join us this week as we dive into this question and give some insights into things that need to change.

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/61488e8a-39de-4354-9868-98bf74c160a3

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29/09/2021

Are you excited for episode 14?? We sure are!
Wonder how we get to these conversations that we air? Here’s a teaser to give you another little peak inside our process 😊
Next episode drops Thursday at noon!

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/f5e37759-aeca-4da5-89dd-2eb647604d7c

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23/09/2021

Here we are y'all, episode 13!
On today's episode we really begin to unravel what happens when intention doesn’t consider impact or listen to the folks that are “being served.” We keep pulling that thread all the way through, and name the messages that are sent through some example actions and the way things have been done. Of course we talk transactional relationships, healing and repair, worthiness, parenting, consent, and how programs are operated. It's not enough to just intend to do good, we have to check our motivation, and make sure we're really listening to the people we hope to help.

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/06222350-01c6-4a22-8308-df20da2c0347

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21/09/2021

Are you excited about this Thursday when the next episode drops??? We definitely are! We're so excited in fact that we decided we would let you listen in as we processed our time with Aubrey and talk about what's coming up next.

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/d7ebc71e-ee06-4959-857e-8192ce8fd941

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16/09/2021

We are ever grateful to our guest Aubrey Dinslage for joining the conversation the last couple of weeks! Episode 12 is an encore episode, and is one you do not want to miss. Aubrey offers some really beautiful perspective, and shares some really important final thoughts before signing off.

If you haven’t heard about Aubrey yet, here’s some things you should know: Aubrey has been working in the anti-exploitation field for four years and their ideology and politics are deeply connected and rooted to their identities as a q***r and trans person. When they aren’t hard at work dismantling capitalism, Aubrey spends their time with their puppy, River, and preparing for surgery. Aubrey is currently raising funds to cover costs of top surgery and recovery, which is scheduled to occur in the next couple months. Aubrey extends an invitation to support these fundraising efforts in any way you are able.
Venmo: dinstitsbegone
PayPal: aubdins

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/17138dc2-97b2-46dd-8996-ce127618cd6a

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14/09/2021

Our non-profit world of programs and funders love "evidenced based". What does research tell us about what is impactful for survivors of exploitation, gender-based violence and human trafficking?

Truth be told-- there is limited research. However, what we do know (because of research) is that a holistic approach to serving survivors is important- intervention on the individual, relationship, community, and societal level.

We probably all know this, without the research, because we are humans serving other humans. We have an idea of what WE might need to begin to heal from trauma, to rejoin community in a way that we might never have experienced, and take on the hard work of beginning to feel safe again-- we know what we would need and we might even demand- an approach that recognizes our individual needs, our need for safe relationships, and the impact our community and society have on our wellness.

Check out this article on using the ecological framework and responding to the needs of survivors (and prevention). After you read, examine your program-- are you empowered to walk along side your clients? Does your organization allow you to serve a survivor in holistic way? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7357858/

14/09/2021

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12/09/2021

Verbal Reasoning Test:
Ra**st IS TO person in Texas accessing abortion
AS TO
S*x buyer IS TO person being trafficked.

Ra**sts and S*x Buyers are protected, not accountable for their violence.

What else?

09/09/2021

Join Jessyca and Rachel, and special guest Aubrey Dinslage, for part two of a blunt conversation about white supremacy, patriarchy, capitalism, and what all of this has to do with anti-trafficking work. Aubrey will their perspective on personal growth, relationships, showing up in their community differently, and what that has to do with working with folks who have experienced trafficking. And we will have a great conversation about coercion and exploitation within nonprofits, representation as a historically excluded or marginalized person, accountability, locker-room talk, and gendering conversation styles.

We have enjoyed Aubrey’s contribution to the podcast so much that Aubrey will be back for an encore next week! Don’t miss an episode, find us on your favorite podcast listening app and subscribe!

About special guest, Aubrey Dinslage:
Aubrey Dinslage has worked in the anti-exploitation field for four years. They’re ideology and politics are deeply rooted in their identities as a q***r and trans person. When they aren’t working to dismantle capitalism, Aubrey spends their time with their amazing puppy River. Aubrey is currently raising funds to cover costs of top surgery and recovery, which is scheduled in coming months. Aubrey would appreciate any support in this endeavor.
Venmo: dinstitsbegone
PayPal: aubdins

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08/09/2021

Are you excited about tomorrow???? We are!!

On tomorrow's episode, special guest Aubrey Dinslage joins us for part two of "that conversation" and we are just so thrilled! Look for the link (or check your favorite podcast listening app!) tomorrow at noon. :)

Aubrey has been in the anti-exploitation field for four years, and is deeply involved in the work. Their ideology and political position is rooted in their identities as a q***r and trans person, and they are not afraid to share about their own journey in unraveling the many ways that white supremacy, patriarchal structures, and capitalism impact their life and the lives of the people they serve. Aubrey is raising funds to cover the costs of top surgery and recovery, any support towards this endeavor would be greatly appreciated.
Venmo: dinstitsbegone
PayPal: aubdins

06/09/2021

Thinking about how the "to do" or push for self care can be exploitation, coercion. Caring for self is rooted in the ability to work and conduct ourselves in a way that is congruent with our values-- that means leaving the work and the relationships that just don't work for us. And not being forced to do not work that is not congruent with our values because we need health insurance. Some how self care has gotten lost- take a look at the roots of "self care" and how self care is not possible without community care.
https://urge.org/there-is-no-self-care-without-community-care/

Illustration: Dani Pendergast You know that weird thing that happens when you say a word too many times repeatedly, and it starts to feel funny on your tongue when you pronounce it, and sound funny wh

04/09/2021

We love this graphic illustrating components of healthy relationships. Helping children develop the skills for healthy relationships and building programs that model healthy relationships between staff and clients IS anti-trafficking work. How do you do you build relationship based programs when you are the "professional"?

Well first, you don't use "the professional" (who built the definition of professional?- you guessed it, white men).

You decide staff do not know more than the survivor by honoring their lived experience.

You support and build programs that center honesty and transparency with survivors.

You interact with survivors in a way that allows the survivors to receive AND give feedback and information (no one wants to be in a relationship with a know-it-all, even if the know-it-all holds the purse strings).

You fund programs that allow for time- time for survivors to heal, time for staff to earn trust, and time for survivors to get off course and return with no consequences (attach yourself to the process and not just the outcome (that takes time)).

You do not require success in treatment in exchange for support in accessing basic needs (that is actually what traffickers do).