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Going backward on the night as it ended far better than we startedThere are few things at play that pictures can only co...
02/11/2024

Going backward on the night as it ended far better than we started

There are few things at play that pictures can only convey to a certain extent.

Rory had a hard time this year, to put it simply traditions he had in mind has a vice grip on him. Why he LOVES Halloween (while he was upset about the order of events, he was committed to his amazing Joker outfit!)

I celebrate the fact that with some help from medication, two administrations, we were able to work through it because I know he didn't want to miss out on Halloween. Was it his best year, no, not socially but sensory wise, he owned that outfit and allowed minimal makeup. I have never been able to do that.

The other challenge is that little sister is out growing some of her patience for her brother while she is aspiring to be more social.

Does she still love and adore him? Yes, yes she does. But there is resentment regarding certain things I am seeing surface. I have been intentional about many things. She did a Sib shop group with our kiddos that have siblings with disabilities at school through the school counselor. That was great! She has the Lil Big Sister book series written by Amy B McCoy which has been fabulous! And we have put focus on her passions now that Rory’s therapies aren't the center of our entire schedule. There has been a shift. However I recognize even with those steps those feelings exist and she will have to process and we will work through as a family. I really worked hard so that both kids could have their Halloween and was prepared to just drop McKenna to be with her friends if need be.

They had the sweetest relationship, I believe they still do but they are definitely going through a phase. We all are, many, many, changes.

Another day, another season!

Another Halloween

on the books!

👻 🎃

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷



Y’all we’ve hit the puberty mark! Oh my Lord nothing can truly prepare you for this stage and we’re legit just scratchin...
02/11/2024

Y’all we’ve hit the puberty mark! Oh my Lord nothing can truly prepare you for this stage and we’re legit just scratching the surface.

Hormones are ramping up, emotions are dicey, and all the physical things are happening. We can talk about it and we can somewhat prepare ourselves, but each kiddo is different so our experiences are all going to be exceptionally ours.

Here is the plus and the minus for me. I’m sober, so it’s tough to stay calm. But also, I’m sober so I’m aware, more connected, and ready to help Jack process in a healthy way.

One day at a time and one portion of his journey at a time. We got this!💪🏼

Love, Tash ❤️

She has my hair. She has my eyes. She has my heart. 🥰Great day at school, worked hard. Some tears and frustration after ...
30/10/2024

She has my hair. She has my eyes. She has my heart. 🥰

Great day at school, worked hard. Some tears and frustration after school. But we ended the night with lots and lots of giggles. My favorite sound in the world. ❤️

Spooky season means:Different routines at school for holiday projects and partiesPumpkin patchesApple pickingCostume dec...
25/10/2024

Spooky season means:

Different routines at school for holiday projects and parties
Pumpkin patches
Apple picking
Costume decisions and sensory choices
New foods, candy
Crowds
Scary store and yard decor
Trick or treating with communication and/or physical challenges
Weather changes
Daylight Savings
Overwhelm with anticipation and the unknown
People come to your door over and over
Later nights, less sleep

It can be so much fun, and it’s A LOT! Don’t let anyone out there, including us, tell you to what you should or shouldn’t be doing this holiday season. Do what works for your family and enjoy that to the fullest. Ruby will knock on doors until she can’t lift the heavy candy bucket. Austin will chill at home and watch a show in the hot tub. It’s all good and fun and right for us 👻🎃🦇

Love
Britt and fam

Hey guys! Wow, it’s been a busy couple of weeks! Jack is continuing to do great in many areas of his life, and the bigge...
20/10/2024

Hey guys! Wow, it’s been a busy couple of weeks! Jack is continuing to do great in many areas of his life, and the biggest area is school. He continues to make smaller strides in academics and large strides in social/emotional development. Although we’ve seen lots of progress over the last few months, life is still full of other obstacles or challenges, but nothing that can’t be worked on.

For me, I’ve now been alcohol-free for two weeks and only doing necessary shopping and not shopping out of emotional impulse. I also decided to go a step further in my recovery, and I jumped into a program called Steps to Recovery, which is essentially a 12-step Program, just faith and Jesus-centered. The support from so many, including y’all from this community, has been incredible, so thank you for that!

We will check back in soon, but for now everything is pumpkin spice and everything Halloween 🎃✌️🏼

Love, Jack & Tash

Today was a first. Gracie played her first board game with me.. all the way through! Ya’ll know that we are BIG on celeb...
15/10/2024

Today was a first. Gracie played her first board game with me.. all the way through!

Ya’ll know that we are BIG on celebrating things here on MTA. And Gracie having the attention span to play this full thing with me is one! 🎊

for the win! 🙌🏼

He’s forgiven me…For going away last weekend. After my mom retreat with Shannon last month, Austin was pretty mad at me ...
11/10/2024

He’s forgiven me…

For going away last weekend. After my mom retreat with Shannon last month, Austin was pretty mad at me when I came home. He wouldn’t let me hug him or get close, very different from his usual snuggly self. It took a couple of days of his version of the silent treatment before he decided to let me back into his good graces. We are snuggle buddies again.

At least, until the next time I leave. Oh, and Ruby let me have it too. Re-entry can be so tough! Do your kids act out more than usual after you return from a trip?

Today we went to the doctor. We walked in and Gracie immediately found a seat in the waiting room while I checked her in...
09/10/2024

Today we went to the doctor. We walked in and Gracie immediately found a seat in the waiting room while I checked her in. She sat there, like a big kid. I mean, her Gracie version with noises and stimming. 😁

We got called back and she jumped on the scale. We walked back and she sat nicely in the exam room while I talked to the doctor. Let’s be real… If she needed an exam things probably would not have gone that calmly.

Then, we were done. I left that appointment so proud of her. For a kiddo that has some medical trauma, she just really crushed that appointment today. A year ago even, that probably wouldn’t have been possible. And while I was annoyed that we had to go to the doctor for such a ridiculous reason today, it was a great practice run.

And I think it built this girl’s doctor confidence, a little. If nothing else, she got some ice cream out of it. 😁🍦

🎳 The SOTX Pflugerville Falcons Bowling Crew 🎳 There is so much JOY packed into these photos right here.Today, I had a t...
05/10/2024

🎳 The SOTX Pflugerville Falcons Bowling Crew 🎳

There is so much JOY packed into these photos right here.

Today, I had a total cathartic moment running errands processing this morning, even the past few days, because it became apparent that these kids right here know where they belong.

I also got thinking about how tethered my life and my dreams are to how life will work out for my son. Like, I literally can't freely think unattached to what I have to plan and have in place for him. This has been very confronting. Cry and think with me if you want. His involvement in SOTX has busted down doors upon doors of limitations I both subconsciously and consciously put on him.

Anyhow.…

We pray for our kids to have “friends” and learn that friendship means something different and could exceed our expectations.

Yesterday, Rory was frantically waving down his principal, Ms. Waggoner, whose son is also part of this crew, “Waggoner, see you tomorrow for bowling!”

For starters, that type of communication never existed. Additionally, when he went to bed, he asked again to make sure he had bowling in the morning.

It shows up today. All the boys have the same matching shirts, and they couldn't have been more excited to wear the same shirt.

Today and yesterday, coaches and parents alike told me how awesome Rory is doing. He could care less about the score; he doesn't have the competitive gene, but what is recognized is how happy he is and how the boys love being together. They cheer each other on. Some even play mother hen after the other.

I think all the parents were equally as happy as they were if you couldn't tell from the cameras. One out of the four had to have the best shot. 🤣

Yours in solidarity always,

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


No Limitations!

Day 1…Many emotions share this; the two most significant are shame and excitement. Many of you know the hard things of m...
04/10/2024

Day 1…

Many emotions share this; the two most significant are shame and excitement. Many of you know the hard things of my past, like the loss of my son Jameson, the journey through Jack’s diagnosis, and many years of depression. Those have not been my only trials, though. When I came to Christ in 2019, I believed that some of those “other things” would work themselves out, but all it did was clarify how I use them as crutches; more than that, they are strongholds of my flesh.

The great thing about a loving Father is that He doesn't stop loving me in my sins, but He brings clarity, conviction, and grace. Without Him, I wouldn't have this beautiful understanding of why a change needs to happen. Man, oh man, the gratitude for that, All Glory To Him!🙌🏼✞🙏🏼

This is to say that I've chosen to quiet the chaos around me because, unfortunately, I am human, and I can wholly admit that life is not one vice. It will be another, so time alone with Him in complete silence and connection is necessary.

I'm going to take a break from here. I hope you, as the Moms Talk Autism community, can understand and/or support that decision. I'm not abandoning my place here; I'm just taking a break from the part that can be disruptive for me mentally. Brittney, Shannon, and Jean are not only incredible business partners but also my friends who love me and support my decisions to do better for me and the God I love and serve.✌️🏼

Don't worry; the girls promise to keep you updated on me and Jack.🫶🏼

So much love and appreciation, Tash ❤️

Let’s talk about “typical” siblings…I share a lot about Jack on here, which is understandable, being that this is a page...
26/09/2024

Let’s talk about “typical” siblings…

I share a lot about Jack on here, which is understandable, being that this is a page about parenting autistic children. But I also parent a typical child, and she is the sister to an autistic brother. Hopefully, you see where I'm going with this!

As Jack’s mom, I have the beauty and the struggles of raising him. I tend to forget that Sloan has those same beauties and struggles but from her sister's perspective. I like to give credit where it is due, and she deserves a large amount of credit and praise. Sloan is a loving, kind, and devoted sister to Jack. Sure, they have moments, but Sloan is the first to protect and throw down for Jack if necessary. She is also accepting of her brother and curious to understand him and his autism.

I would be ignorant to think that there are not deep struggles, pressure, and sadness that she deals with because of having an autistic brother, so this is why I, as her mom, always try and keep tabs on her deeper feelings and thoughts those that she may be reluctant to share with her dad and me.

At the end of the day, I am grateful to God for choosing Sloan to be the sister Jack needed and the person He chose her to be. We are blessed to have her, and she deserves to be reminded of that often.

Love you Sloan, Your mom and brother ❤️

Here’s to trying things again and again.And again. Austin hates the doctor. They touch you and sometimes poke you with n...
25/09/2024

Here’s to trying things again and again.

And again. Austin hates the doctor. They touch you and sometimes poke you with needles and put things in your mouth and ears. It’s a lot.

Haven’t had a successful check up in a few years. We are very blessed that Austin tends to be healthy and has a strong immune system. There’s something to be said for eating dirt and food off the ground I guess.

This week, we made it through an appointment! We didn’t get to check everything and we didn’t get his LAST immunization unfortunately. (We scheduled a quick visit for that another day) We did sit quietly and let the doctor check a few things though. We left in good spirits and were able to attend the rest of the school day. It’s a big win. And it’s because we keep trying.

Love,
Britt and Austin

🎉It’s COMING!!🎉Back in July, Brittney visited me in Tucson and we teased a friend project that we were working on! Well,...
17/09/2024

🎉It’s COMING!!🎉

Back in July, Brittney visited me in Tucson and we teased a friend project that we were working on! Well, now it’s time to share!

We got together with Action Behavior Centers to do a webinar talking all about the things that we wish we had known about this journey of autism with our kiddos. It was such a great conversation and we would love for you to check it out!

You can check out the link to the webinar in our bio up top 👆🏼! If you’re a part of the mailing list, will be emailing you a direct link next week ❤️

Check it out and let us know what you think! We can’t wait to bring more fun projects like this to our amazing community!

Can’t wait to chat about it!

❤️ Shannon & the Girls

A different kind of 𝓜𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓼 𝓓𝓪𝔂Subconsciously I think I purposely busied myself and kept a laser focus on other prioriti...
14/05/2023

A different kind of 𝓜𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓼 𝓓𝓪𝔂

Subconsciously I think I purposely busied myself and kept a laser focus on other priorities in my life.

The truth is, this Mother's Day, especially this year, in this season of my life, is very confronting.

I think for many mothers; it is quite frankly. It's not a joyous day for many, while maybe intended. It can be a day that makes it harder for moms to hold it together and pretend everything is fine. I hear that and see that.

Single motherhood is empowering because, as another momma so graciously shared regarding her own motherhood, a day like today is a reminder of how unappreciated, undervalued, and unacknowledged you can feel.

Today, I acknowledged myself and invite mothers everywhere to do the same.

While outside validation is nice, you don't need it. It comes from within, and there is nothing more remarkable. And not just today, but every day. Because being a mother is 365, 24/7.

You know what you are shouldering and carrying; you have a depth and understanding that doesn't need to be explained to anyone, especially as a parent to children with exceptional needs.

This pic was taken by staff 😍, in a pure moment.

It makes me emotional because I have been late so many days, whether it's coming back from the capitol, meetings, or appointments. They are holding it down, reassuring my kids.

Moments like these make it all worth it, and yet another reminder I can't do it without my village.

When my Pflugerville community or fellow Texans thank me, they must thank my village.

Mommas, no matter single, married, partnered, co-parenting, gender, etc.: remember, women like us don't happen often, don't forget how rare you are, and treasure all that you do.

In ❤️ + solidarity,
𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


How Friday feels 😜Rory is a mood. Let's put a cone on our heads and call it week!Happy Fri-YAY! ✌️ 𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷    #tgif
31/03/2023

How Friday feels 😜

Rory is a mood.

Let's put a cone on our heads and call it week!

Happy Fri-YAY!

✌️

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


#tgif

This girl. My heart. The last week or so… She’s been SO into expressing herself. So much artwork. Painting, drawing. Dre...
24/03/2023

This girl. My heart. The last week or so…

She’s been SO into expressing herself. So much artwork. Painting, drawing. Dressing herself. Speaking more. My heart feels like it’s going to explode.

We have her artwork hanging all over the house with blue tape. She’s just so proud of it. And my heart can’t take it.

She brings me so, so much joy. 🥰

This sweet girl dressed herself this week. I was in the kitchen and she walked out of her room fully dressed before brea...
16/03/2023

This sweet girl dressed herself this week. I was in the kitchen and she walked out of her room fully dressed before breakfast. She’d carefully selected her shirt, pants and shoes on her own. And put them all on. 🥰

The pants are a little big on her but I wasn’t about to say a word. We were so proud of her and of course let her wear her outfit to school. (I packed an extra pair of jeans just in case the big ones got annoying 😂).

For a lot of parents this wouldn’t be a big deal. But this independence.. it’s huge for us. And I know this community understands it.

Not to mention she looks crazy cute 🥰😂

~ Shannon (.for.the.fight )

Trauma-informed.The theme this week on the pod was on connecting and joining. I spoke briefly about a protocol a BCBA im...
11/03/2023

Trauma-informed.

The theme this week on the pod was on connecting and joining. I spoke briefly about a protocol a BCBA implemented for us called IISCA, for short, the “my way” protocol.

Instead of breaking it down, what I wanted to highlight here is WHY it had to. Sometimes unintentional efforts to “connect” or gain compliance have unintended consequences for our kiddos. Trauma from these situations and misapplied techniques can occur. When they do, it can be detrimental and hard to repair.

This didn't remedy every way harm was done, but it rebuilt trust with trusted adults and expanded his self-advocacy skills.

Research and learn about trauma-informed practices and techniques. Seek out the professionals with those credentials serving your child. It's okay to question data-backed effective strategies and listen to your kid's behavior; it could be telling you something isn't right. Our kids communicate in all different ways, even if they can't articulate it.

Sometimes the biggest downfalls can come with the greatest redemption. The same can be said about setbacks can equal great comebacks.

💪

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


Connection…It’s hard to collect and “join” Austin at times. His sensory needs are so profound, he actively retreats from...
08/03/2023

Connection…

It’s hard to collect and “join” Austin at times. His sensory needs are so profound, he actively retreats from anyone and anything to regulate himself. As his mom, I try to keep a lookout for those moments when he can tolerate and maybe even enjoy close proximity and extra input from my presence. On this day, he was down for a long snuggle session. And so I joined him where he can meet me right now. We’ll keep trying. We’ll keep encouraging and even pushing him out of his comfort zone at times. That’s connection and what being a parent is all about.

Love,
Brittney and Austin

No lies detected 😬𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶?𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴?Totally could keep going. This week on the pod, on our “𝘔𝘰𝘮𝘴 𝘛...
03/03/2023

No lies detected 😬

𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶?

𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴?

Totally could keep going.

This week on the pod, on our “𝘔𝘰𝘮𝘴 𝘛𝘢𝘭𝘬 𝘔𝘰𝘮𝘴" episode, Jean (it’s me, Jean, btw) makes a reference to how she felt after, what felt like re-entering the world once elected as a school board trustee, campaigning and living through a pandemic as the type of parent she was—imposter syndrome on steroids with anxiety flying off the charts. The social atrophy I felt resulted from the years before the pandemic accumulated with them.

I had no idea until 💥 the demand was there, and I had to “people.” 😳 And it’s super people-y.

I had my high expectations paired with others' expectations and fulfilling all the roles and lanes I occupy in life. Oy!

Anyway, I have resonated with big bird here many times on this journey as a parent to my child with a disability, not just on this side of the pandemic, because facts are facts; we technically are still in it. However, it is an image that illustrates how I feel inside at times on many occasions.

And I know I am not alone.

In solidarity, friends ✊🏼

Happy Friday + embrace your inner big bird.

💛🐦

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


This one is going to have a rude awakening come Monday.We have kept the new pool heated all this week for rodeo weekend....
24/02/2023

This one is going to have a rude awakening come Monday.

We have kept the new pool heated all this week for rodeo weekend. Unfortunately, heating a pool this large doesn’t come cheap. So the heater will likely be off until closer to April.

It’s been so fun (and honestly reassuring after spending so much money) to see her enjoy the pool this week. I’m just hoping it’s not too much of a sensory change for her. It’s been such a great outlet.

Hopefully some day we’ll also have an above ground hot tub. That’s much cheaper to heat. 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

Cheers to having a blast in the pool over rodeo weekend! 🤠 🐴 👏🏼

If people ask me how I do it, it’s because of them—these humans. I know they don’t realize it, but I am ensuring they kn...
10/02/2023

If people ask me how I do it, it’s because of them—these humans.

I know they don’t realize it, but I am ensuring they know. It’s not just limited to those featured here. I am missing photos of others who have daily impact on my kids. Trust me, it doesn’t go unnoticed.

Shout out and tag your people below!

I can’t be the mom, the advocate, or the public servant without them. It’s holding me up. Love them! Most importantly, my kids love them.

After talking with a couple of parents about their trouble with transitions into High School and Middle School, especially after good experiences in elementary, it makes me treasure the current crew I have even more. At the same time, admittedly, I am nervous about the future. If you know our story, arriving to this place wasn’t easy.

That is the status quo as a parent in this arena.

We are two years away and will meet next month for the annual ARD (IEP for the non-Texans). Still, my conversations with those parents have my wheels turning about things we need to ensure district-wide that we have better transitions into these new arenas and be clear on what to expect and plan for.

I know, you’re telling me, calm down; two years away, but planning and ensuring plans take time + examination.

I know the teams I have now are committed to Rory + whatever they can do to support him. They go above and beyond, and in this current climate of vacancies and turnover, we are so fortunate.

Again, while grateful, my brain is constantly turning to how to set the standards in this ever-changing landscape so we can secure the continuity our kids deserve.

Yours gratefully (and yet anxiously)

𝓙𝓮𝓪𝓷


Lots of advocating lately. Advocating for accommodations in Gracie’s IEP due to a new sleep disorder. Advocating for new...
09/02/2023

Lots of advocating lately.

Advocating for accommodations in Gracie’s IEP due to a new sleep disorder.

Advocating for new goals that belong in the IEP for her safety.

Advocating in regards to medications and what she needs.

Lots and lots of things. It’s been a month. But we are making progress. And progress is progress no matter how slow or difficult.

She’s worth it. Every moment. ❤️

✌️🏼𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐁𝐨𝐰𝐥 𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐭✌️🏼Y'all I've got some big news! If you haven't heard the episode drop from this week then you don'...
08/02/2023

✌️🏼𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐁𝐨𝐰𝐥 𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐭✌️🏼

Y'all I've got some big news! If you haven't heard the episode drop from this week then you don't know that I get the opportunity and honor to volunteer for at the Superbowl in Arizona this weekend.🙌🏼

I could not be more excited and grateful for this opportunity. If you don't know of this incredible nonprofit organization that is making big changes across the world go peep their Insta, website, and app! Also, catch our episode drop with the inspiring who is not only a mom to an autistic child but a board member and advocate for KC! Truly an inspiration to see what they are doing for this community.🙏🏼

Seeking sensory inclusion for all✌️🏼

𝐗𝐨𝐱𝐨, 𝐓𝐚𝐬𝐡 ♥️

I mean.. I could tell her no. But why? Sensory seeking heaven. We value adventure play. And she LOVES it 🥰
26/01/2023

I mean.. I could tell her no. But why?

Sensory seeking heaven. We value adventure play. And she LOVES it 🥰

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