02/11/2024
Going backward on the night as it ended far better than we started
There are few things at play that pictures can only convey to a certain extent.
Rory had a hard time this year, to put it simply traditions he had in mind has a vice grip on him. Why he LOVES Halloween (while he was upset about the order of events, he was committed to his amazing Joker outfit!)
I celebrate the fact that with some help from medication, two administrations, we were able to work through it because I know he didn't want to miss out on Halloween. Was it his best year, no, not socially but sensory wise, he owned that outfit and allowed minimal makeup. I have never been able to do that.
The other challenge is that little sister is out growing some of her patience for her brother while she is aspiring to be more social.
Does she still love and adore him? Yes, yes she does. But there is resentment regarding certain things I am seeing surface. I have been intentional about many things. She did a Sib shop group with our kiddos that have siblings with disabilities at school through the school counselor. That was great! She has the Lil Big Sister book series written by Amy B McCoy which has been fabulous! And we have put focus on her passions now that Rory’s therapies aren't the center of our entire schedule. There has been a shift. However I recognize even with those steps those feelings exist and she will have to process and we will work through as a family. I really worked hard so that both kids could have their Halloween and was prepared to just drop McKenna to be with her friends if need be.
They had the sweetest relationship, I believe they still do but they are definitely going through a phase. We all are, many, many, changes.
Another day, another season!
Another Halloween
on the books!
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