Not a Purse

Not a Purse Join us on "Not a Purse!", a podcast where we challenge societal norms and promote open conversations about genitalia, and everything involved.

Let's break the taboo and question what is normal together!

๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "Menopause: What's the big deal?" with Julz ๐ŸŽงIn this episode, we sit down with the incredible Julz ...
28/06/2024

๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "Menopause: What's the big deal?" with Julz ๐ŸŽง

In this episode, we sit down with the incredible Julz Tremblay to explore the multifaceted experience of menopause. From her diagnosis and surgeries for ovarian cancer to the emotional and physical challenges that followed, Julz's story is one of resilience.

We touch on everything from the importance of comprehensive support, to navigating relationships, and the need for more awareness about menopause. Julz also shares some little known tidbits about menopause (some of which shocked even us!).

Join us for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation that sheds light on the often invisible journey of menopause.

๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "Let's Talk About P**n! with Elvis & Jillian" ๐ŸŽงWe are so excited to be joined by Elvis (again) and ...
14/06/2024

๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "Let's Talk About P**n! with Elvis & Jillian" ๐ŸŽง

We are so excited to be joined by Elvis (again) and Jillian (for the first time) on this episode! Come hang out with us as we dive into the complex world of po*******hy and question societyโ€™s attitudes towards it.

In this episode, we explore the role of p**n in s*xual education, its impact on our perceptions of s*x, and the importance of having open and honest conversations about s*xuality from four distinct perspectives. We also discuss how p**n could help bridge gaps in s*xual experiences given how societal norms influence its consumption. Donโ€™t miss out on this revelatory dialogue that looks at p**n honestly and without shame. Tune in now: open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐ŸŒŸ

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๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "S*x Toys Unboxed" ๐ŸŽงJoin us as we dive into the world of s*x toys! In this episode, we uncover the ...
31/05/2024

๐Ÿ”Š New Episode Alert: "S*x Toys Unboxed" ๐ŸŽง

Join us as we dive into the world of s*x toys! In this episode, we uncover the fascinating history of vi*****rs, break down societal taboos, and discuss the latest advancements in s*x toy technology. We also explore the important role of s*x toys in women's lives and the differences in pleasure experiences for men and women. Donโ€™t miss the first episode of this season as we celebrate pleasure for all! Tune in now on Spotify and letโ€™s get the conversation started. ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ’• https://open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV

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28/05/2024

โœจ Exciting News: "Not a Purse!" is Back! ๐ŸŽง

After a long break, weโ€™re thrilled to announce the return of "Not a Purse!" with a brand-new season. Get your summer drink ready and join us as we continue to challenge societal norms around genitalia and s*xual health with bold, thought-provoking discussions.

It's Season 3, and we're covering some wide-ranging topics, from early pleasure all the way to natural contraception, s*x toys, and much more. With more guests and diverse topics than ever before, we can't wait to spark new levels of dialogue and openness with you. Stay tuned for the first episode release this Friday! ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ฌ

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธ It's the โœจSeason 2 finaleโœจ of Not a Purse! We cannot believe how fast time flies and are absolutely loving the journe...
17/02/2024

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ It's the โœจSeason 2 finaleโœจ of Not a Purse! We cannot believe how fast time flies and are absolutely loving the journey this podcast is taking us on!

๐ŸŽ‰ Get ready to laugh and learn as we unravel the linguistic web spun around menstruation. Yep, you heard that right! We're diving deep into the world of period talk, from the quirky "Aunt Flow" to the whimsical "Strawberryweek." Trust us, it's a linguistic rollercoaster you won't want to miss!

๐Ÿ’ฌ But it's not all fun and games. We're getting real about how these euphemisms influence how society views periods and the support systems (or lack thereof) in place for people who menstruate. It's a conversation that's long overdue, and we're tackling it head-on.

๐ŸŽง Grab your headphones and join us for the Season 2 finale! You're in for a wild ride, and we can't wait to share it with you. Tune in now: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/notapursepodcast/episodes/Between-the-lines-The-rich-tapestry-of-period-euphemisms-e2frmeq

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŒŸIn this latest episode, we're joined yet again by an amazing guest,  Houessou, father of ...
02/02/2024

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŒŸ

In this latest episode, we're joined yet again by an amazing guest, Houessou, father of 2 girls and 1 boy, as we delve into the complex realm of virginity from a parent's perspective.

๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ฌ What do parents anticipate for their children's first s*xual experience? How do these expectations form? How might they shape their children's outlook on intimacy? Why are some expectations gender-dependent, and what double standards come into play? What weighs more on a parent's mind: their children's s*x life quality or their perceived image according to societal norms? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

This is just a glimpse of our insightful conversation. Get ready for a deep dive into the world of double standards, paradoxical desires, and the societal pressures that transform intimacy into a competitive arena. ๐Ÿš€โœจ Tune in now for a concise yet insightful journey!

๐ŸŒˆQuick disclaimer: We like to think of our conversations as a safe space to revisit our opinions. Miro, we wholeheartedly appreciate your honesty and openness in acknowledging and sharing your biases. ๐Ÿค

๐Ÿ‘‚Join the conversation now ๐Ÿ‘‰ https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/notapursepodcast/episodes/Virginity-through-the-eyes-of-a-parent-w-Miro-e2f900g

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert! โœจ๐ŸŽ™๏ธGet ready for a laid-back session with Larissa, Jo, and our special guest, Stephโ€” a fe...
19/01/2024

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert! โœจ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ

Get ready for a laid-back session with Larissa, Jo, and our special guest, Stephโ€” a fellow dancer, science lover, and mother of a thirteen-year-old boy!

In this episode, we delve into our diverse experiences shaped by various cultures ๐ŸŒ and reflect on the differences between the generations.

๐Ÿฅ‹๐Ÿฉธ From Taekwondo and period management methods to PowerPoint presentations on STDs, and nudity from one generation to another, join us as we unravel captivating anecdotes and thought-provoking discussions, exploring the tapestry of diverse experiences. ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ฌ
๐Ÿ’ปVery candidly, Steph demonstrates that it is about not having all the answers and being willing to learn alongside her son (and all the other people in her life).

Together, we explore the differences among generations, the unique gaps each generation seeks to fill, and the significance of acknowledging the contributions of past generations. Join the conversation now! [https://open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV]

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŒŸIn this heartwarming episode, weโ€™re joined by another special guest, Sarah โ€“ a teacher an...
05/01/2024

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŒŸ

In this heartwarming episode, weโ€™re joined by another special guest, Sarah โ€“ a teacher and mother of three amazing humans! Together, we jump feet-first into the complex world of parenting and how to appropriately navigate nudity with children while fostering a healthy relationship with their bodies.

๐Ÿคฑ Come along as we dive into Sarah's experiences and challenges in nurturing body-positive kids, discuss the delicate balance between openness about nudity and societal norms, and explore the intricate web of boundaries that guide our interactions with our children.

๐Ÿ’– We were so excited to have Sarah on this episode with us, and together, to start questioning our beliefs and assumptions about nudity and childhood. Why do we think the way we do about nudity around children? What part does context play in the appropriateness of nudity? When and why do we set boundaries?

Whether youโ€™re a parent, a teacher, or none of the above, we invite you to settle in with us and perhaps gain a new perspective on what it means to be an adult developing oneโ€™s own relationship with nudity while also guiding children through it. ๐Ÿค

๐Ÿ‘‚Join the conversation now [https://open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV].

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert!In our latest episode, we're thrilled to welcome another special guest, Ji. He says he's "...
22/12/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert!

In our latest episode, we're thrilled to welcome another special guest, Ji. He says he's "just a guy. We say he's an expert in creating safe spaces for open conversations and are excited we could pick his brain.

Addressing taboo topics like genitalia requires vulnerability, but how do we navigate that path? How do we create an environment that fosters openness?
๐ŸŒˆโœจ Have you ever thought about what it means to feel "seen" and considered what it takes to extend that sense to others? Join us as we navigate the landscape of vulnerability, exploring the transformative power of 'being seen' and 'seeing others.'

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Together, we examine some barriers to vulnerability, such as being the first one to open up, feeling like the only one, or underestimating our ability to inspire others.

Tune in now for an episode that transcends the ordinary and sparks meaningful conversations.
๐Ÿš€๐Ÿ’ฌ Join the podcast magic here: https://open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV !

โ€ผ๏ธ New Episode Alert! โ€ผ๏ธ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ In this powerful episode, we tackle the weighty and often silenced issue of s*xual assault. T...
08/12/2023

โ€ผ๏ธ New Episode Alert! โ€ผ๏ธ

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ In this powerful episode, we tackle the weighty and often silenced issue of s*xual assault. This episode isnโ€™t graphic in nature, but we understand that this topic can cause immediate fear, apprehension, or aversion. We hope that youโ€™ll give it a chance.

๐Ÿง As usual, we have a candid exploration of the unsettling truths surrounding the subject. In this case, those include the fact that s*xual assault is a lot more prevalent than is commonly believed. We dive deep into the language surrounding experiences of s*xual assault, shedding light on how terms like 'date r**e' and 'marital r**e' can inadvertently soften the gravity of these life-altering acts and mislead us.

Here's what you can expect: an essential conversation emphasizing the vital role that dialogue plays in shifting perspectives, fostering understanding, and ultimately bringing about change. Also included: ๐Ÿšจ an urgent call for open discussions to break down the barriers of s*xual assault awareness without โ€œpropriety,โ€ shame, guilt, or any of the usual suspects getting in the way.

๐Ÿ”ฆ Societal awakening can expose the harsh reality of s*xual assault and it starts with conversations. Yes, there will be some discomfort, and thatโ€™s OK. Join us in this imperative discussion and help us create a world where everyone feels safe and heard.

๐Ÿ‘‚ Listen now: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/notapursepodcast

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert! Join us as we cha-cha into the captivating world of partner dance in our latest episode f...
24/11/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New Podcast Episode Alert! Join us as we cha-cha into the captivating world of partner dance in our latest episode featuring Kizomba and Urban Kiz instructor, Elvis Amisi, and passionate all-around dancer Guy-Thierry Tenkouano.

๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ’ƒ Step into this fun and energetic conversation with us, where we explore the profound impact dance has on our body perception and its unique ability to shape our relationship with physical intimacy. From interpreting different signals to navigating involuntary erections on the dance floor, we share personal stories and even offer some practical tips on handling โ€œawkwardโ€ moments with grace and respect.

๐Ÿค”๐ŸŒŸ We ask ourselves important questions, like what are the nuances between what we know and what we infer in partner dance, and discover how it can translate to emotional depth into real-world connections. We uncover the delicate balance between safety and freedom on the dance floor (especially when it comes to our bodies) and discuss the quest for authentic physical intimacy, in a place where you might least expect it.

๐ŸŽถ Follow us as we lead you ๐Ÿ˜‰ into a new world that brings the authenticity and vulnerability of dance into our daily lives, making genuine connections without the added layers of social conventions. From teaching children how to dance to foster empathy, to changing societal perceptions around physical intimacy, this episode is a rollercoaster of discoveries, dips, pivots, and turns!

Tune in now on the usual podcast platforms and let's explore how dance can reshape our perceptions and our relationship to our (and othersโ€™) bodies! ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Episode is Here! ๐Ÿ”ฅJoin us for an eye-opening conversation with a twist that will challenge the way you think abou...
11/11/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Episode is Here! ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Join us for an eye-opening conversation with a twist that will challenge the way you think about breasts and body perception. In this somewhat unexpected episode, we dive deep into the concept of a "s*xualized body part" and explore how everyday actions can give certain body parts a special status. ๐Ÿ’ฌ

Listen in as we examine societyโ€™s complex and multifaceted relationship with breasts, and engage in a lively discussion that culminates in a profound realization about the power of touch and intimacy. Embark on this journey with us, as we tackle a topic that we had no idea would lead us where it did! ๐Ÿคฏ

Tune in now on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV or wherever you get your podcasts. ๐Ÿ‘‚

Did you know that in the early 2010s research for a male contraceptive pill known as the Clean Sheets Pill died a quick ...
08/11/2023

Did you know that in the early 2010s research for a male contraceptive pill known as the Clean Sheets Pill died a quick and quiet death due to lack of funding? This pill also had the added advantage of reducing transmission of HIV. The reason? The idea of an โ€œinvisibleโ€ or**sm was seen as emasculating for men. Over the past half-century, dozens of male contraceptive options have been in development but none have been approved due to a variety of undesirable side effects including acne, oily skin, weight gain, mood changes. Skin changes.

โ€œMen are worried about future fertility and about unknown side effects that may only become known years after using a product," says S. Walker., associate professor of contraception at Anglia Ruskin University "They're worried about the effect on their performance, how they feel about s*x."

For any user of the female contraceptive pill, the side effects and concerns will sound familiar. The current pills on the market all have some combination of these. So why is it acceptable for women to regularly experience side effects that can get as severe as depression, lack of focus, nausea, headaches, and more, but it is unacceptable for men? Where do we see the benefits outweighing the costs for menโ€™s contraception? And what would it take to get a third viable option (to add on to 1/ condoms and 2/ vasectomies) to balance the load of preventing pregnancy across both partners?

Source: BBC -> https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20230216-the-weird-reasons-male-birth-control-pills-are-scorned

๐Ÿš€ New Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸŽ‰Episode 02 of this season is out! And we're absolutely thrilled to introduce our very first gue...
27/10/2023

๐Ÿš€ New Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸŽ‰

Episode 02 of this season is out! And we're absolutely thrilled to introduce our very first guest: ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅ Pascal Ngabo ๐Ÿ™Œ

Join us as we embark on a deep exploration of the world of circumcisions ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’ก. In this episode, we unravel the layers surrounding this practice ๐Ÿง, and delve into its essence, the myriad of reasons behind it, and its potential impact on pleasure. ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ”

Inspired by the documentary "American Circumcision," this episode is filled with eye-opening insights ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿคฏ and a passionate call for democratizing knowledge on circumcision ๐Ÿ“ข. It's a conversation that goes beyond the usual 'yes' or 'no' discussions, offering a nuanced perspective that will leave you thinking ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ฌ.

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Don't miss this enlightening dialogue and our engaging conversation with Pascal ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ. Tune in now for a unique episode that promises to expand your understanding! ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŽ‰ Weโ€™re back with a brand-new season! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ™๏ธIn the season premiere of  , we are taking the lid off and blowing up the well-...
13/10/2023

๐ŸŽ‰ Weโ€™re back with a brand-new season! ๐ŸŽ‰

๐ŸŽ™๏ธIn the season premiere of , we are taking the lid off and blowing up the well-kept secret that is "The Business of Birth Control." ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿ’Š
You may know this as the name of a documentary but it is also a theme disproportionately impacting womenโ€™s reproductive health. Join us as we delve into lesser-known facts about the contraceptive pill, inspired by the eye-opening documentary that's got us talking. ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ก

๐Ÿค” Did you know surprising secrets are being kept from the public about the pill? ๐Ÿ’ฅ Are the risks of the pill being dangerously downplayed? ๐Ÿšซ
Get ready for an eye-opening, explosive exploration of the โ€œopen secretโ€ that is birth control. ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ•ต๏ธโ€โ™€๏ธ

๐ŸŒŸ is a champion of transparency. Together, letโ€™s advocate for accessible information to EVERYONE so that individuals are empowered to make informed decisions about their reproductive health. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ“š A choice isn't really a choice if you're in the dark. ๐Ÿ’ก

Tune in on , , or and join the conversation! ๐ŸŽง๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿ’ฌ

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ Season 1 Finale! โœจHey there, lovely listeners! ๐ŸŽ‰ We can't believe we've reached the season finale of "Not A Purse!" ...
08/09/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ Season 1 Finale! โœจ

Hey there, lovely listeners! ๐ŸŽ‰ We can't believe we've reached the season finale of "Not A Purse!" ๐ŸŒŸ We are ending it with some fun for us and hopefully for you too!

We're taking you on a wild linguistic journey ๐ŸŒ Ever wondered how quirky euphemisms for genitalia find their way into our daily chats? ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Or how these playful terms have shaped our self-perception since childhood๐Ÿ‘ถ? We're diving into these questions and more.

๐Ÿ” Plus, get ready to uncover the surprising origins of the Latin words "va**na" and "gladius" ๐Ÿ“š as we shed light on their original meanings. ๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ It's a linguistic adventure you won't want to miss!

But that's not all! ๐Ÿ“– We've got a special recommendation just for you: "P***y: A Reclamation" by Regena Thomashauer aka . ๐Ÿ“šโœจ

๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท For our French-speaking people, check out this song, from the 60s to get a glimpse of French euphemisms for female genitalia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcW4RfhbM88.

Last but not least, thank you for joining us on this incredible journey through Season 1, and stay tuned for more exciting conversations in the future. ๐ŸŽŠ Don't forget to hit that follow button on Spotify so you're the first to know when Season 2 unfolds!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New episode alert! โœจ ๐ŸŽˆ From Barbie and Ken to the intriguing world of LOL dolls, we're embarking on an exploration t...
25/08/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธโœจ New episode alert! โœจ

๐ŸŽˆ From Barbie and Ken to the intriguing world of LOL dolls, we're embarking on an exploration that not only sparks nostalgia but also ignites a much-needed dialogue about representation and its impact on young minds.

๐Ÿค” Reflect with us as we share our own tales of playtime, uncovering the perplexing absence of genitalia representation in dolls. Through our perspectives, we shed light on a topic often overlooked, sparking conversations that hold the power to shape the future generation's perceptions and understanding.
๐ŸŽ Let's redefine playtime and celebrate the impact of these tiny treasures on young imaginations together!

๐Ÿคฟ๐ŸŒŸ Ready to dive in? Tune in to Episode #9 now, and don't forget to hit that follow button on Spotify so you're the first to know when we unwrap more captivating discussions.

โ€œIf she knows about s*x and ge****ls too soon, sheโ€™ll try to have s*x early.โ€๐Ÿ’ฌ We hear this fear expressed by parents, t...
22/08/2023

โ€œIf she knows about s*x and ge****ls too soon, sheโ€™ll try to have s*x early.โ€

๐Ÿ’ฌ We hear this fear expressed by parents, that open discussions with their kids about bodies and intimate topics could lead to immorality and promiscuity. Dads and moms alike are worried that speaking about genitalia, whether in the context of a s*xual talk or not, will open a door they wish would stay closed. And we donโ€™t blame them! Instead, letโ€™s take a minute to dissect this. ๐Ÿค

๐ŸŒธ When we engage in candid discussions, we create a safe space for everyone to ask questions, seek knowledge, and feel empowered in making informed choices. You know the old saying, Knowledge is power! Embracing open conversations with children about genitalia and intimate matters actually paves the way for understanding, consent, and healthy attitudes towards relationships and their bodies. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฉธ

โšก๏ธ Let's break the stigma and embrace open dialogue. This doesn't rush anyone into anything โ€“ it guides us all towards healthier relationships, respect for boundaries, and fostering a culture of consent.

๐ŸŒŸ Itโ€™s important to remember that words matter. It might seem like this topic is provocative, but the messaging from parents to their kids doesnโ€™t have to be. And however awkward it might feel at first as a parent, your ultimate willingness to have open conversations will lead to understanding and responsible decisions.

๐ŸŒˆ Let's talk openly and learn responsibly, together. Weโ€™re here for it!๐ŸŒŸ

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๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽ‰Join us for the latest episode of Not a Purse! podcast as we shatter taboos and open up about the...
12/08/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽ‰

Join us for the latest episode of Not a Purse! podcast as we shatter taboos and open up about the concept of virginity. In this candid and judgment-free conversation, we share personal reflections on how we perceived virginity while growing up and the powerful influence of mainstream media. We explore the intricate connection in society between virginity and purity, and the myths and misconceptions tied to the h***n.

๐Ÿ“บ Plus, learn more with this fascinating TED Talk on virginity by two brilliant Norwegian OBGYNs! Check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBQnQTkhsq4 and follow them on Instagram at for more insightful content like this (in Norwegian).

You wonโ€™t want to miss this one! Tune in to Episode #8 of Not a Purse! now: open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV. Available on your favourite podcast platforms! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽง ๐ŸŒŸ Title: Ewww, what is this? Discharge? ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŽ‰ We're thrilled to share the latest episode o...
28/07/2023

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ New Podcast Episode Alert! ๐ŸŽง

๐ŸŒŸ Title: Ewww, what is this? Discharge? ๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŽ‰ We're thrilled to share the latest episode of Not a Purse! In this installment, we engage in a thought-provoking discussion about a topic that we canโ€™t help but come back toโ€”discharge.

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Join us as we confront the stigma and misconceptions surrounding this natural bodily function, sharing our own personal thoughts and experiences. While this often evokes a range of emotions, some of which include shame and confusion (and yes, even disgust), there is so much to explore and discover about discharge.

๐Ÿ” For example, did you know that cervical mucus and va**nal discharge *arenโ€™t* the same thing? ๐Ÿค” Weโ€™ll take you on a journey of exploration, uncovering the respective purposes of these often misidentified fluids and shedding light on the importance of understanding our bodies better.

๐Ÿ’ก But that's not all! Weโ€™ll also be acknowledging the invaluable knowledge shared by a traditional birth attendant, whose expertise on the female body has truly enhanced our awareness. You won't want to miss these insights! ๐ŸŒธ

๐ŸŽง Listen to the new episode of Not a Purse! now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Google Podcasts, and gain a fresh perspective on an essential aspect of women's health. Don't forget to share this episode with your friends and familyโ€”let's break down barriers together! It's time to end the silence and normalize these essential conversations for ALL!

๐Ÿ‘‰ For more information about the traditional birth attendant we spoke with and her incredible work, visit her website: www.qioflifebirthkeeper.com.

When did we decide that having knowledge about genitalia equates to not being a child? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ญThere's a pervasive notion that...
19/07/2023

When did we decide that having knowledge about genitalia equates to not being a child? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ญ

There's a pervasive notion that limiting or delaying discussions about genitalia is somehow "letting kids be kids." ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿง’ The status quo has been to avoid open conversations about our bodies, including our genitalia. But why do we link having knowledge about our bodies to losing innocence?

By creating this taboo, we're missing out on an opportunity to empower our kids with essential knowledge for their well-being and understanding.

When we allow kids to explore and understand their own anatomy early:
1๏ธโƒฃ They learn to recognize and assert personal boundaries.
2๏ธโƒฃ They're able to identify inappropriate behavior and speak up.
3๏ธโƒฃ They understand diversity, and the normalization of body variations fosters self-acceptance.
4๏ธโƒฃ We can help reduce stigma, shame, and confusion around s*xuality.

Let's prioritize open, age-appropriate discussions that equip our children with the knowledge they deserve. ๐Ÿ’ช Let's break the silence and create a generation that is comfortable and confident in their own skin! ๐ŸŒŸ

โœจ New episode alert! โœจ ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of pen*ses! ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฌ In this episode, we share persona...
14/07/2023

โœจ New episode alert! โœจ

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of pen*ses! ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฌ In this episode, we share personal stories, debunk common misconceptions, and explore the intriguing differences between โ€œgrowersโ€ and โ€œshowersโ€ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ We also discuss the surprising truth that erections aren't always under control. Tune in to gain a lighthearted and inclusive perspective on this often-taboo subject!

Have you ever encountered a โ€œgrowerโ€ or a โ€œshowerโ€? ๐Ÿค” Let us know in the comments below with a โค๏ธ Yes, and it was a shocking discovery!, ๐Ÿง No, I don't even know the difference, ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ I'm not sure, but I appreciate the variety!

Plus, for the first time ever, we're launching a poll on Spotify. ๐ŸŒŸ Don't miss out! Listen now! ๐ŸŽง open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV

We can't talk about the importance of correct language as it relates to genitalia, without talking about s*x as well. ๐ŸŒˆ ...
11/07/2023

We can't talk about the importance of correct language as it relates to genitalia, without talking about s*x as well.

๐ŸŒˆ Let's tackle some misconceptions about date r**e.

Consent is important no matter the contextโ—๏ธ The point of becoming more comfortable with conversations that are considered taboo is that we all feel empowered to speak openly, including when seeking/granting consent. R**e is an act of violation, regardless of the context. We need to challenge the harmful notion that "date" r**e is somehow less severe because it involves individuals who know each other. Consent should never be assumed or taken for granted, even in familiar or intimate relationships.

๐Ÿšซโœ‹By perpetuating the idea that r**e between acquaintances or partners is "probably just a misunderstanding," we undermine the experiences of survivors and maintain a culture that trivializes the horror of such an experience.

We must prioritize consent education and open communication in all relationships, ensuring that boundaries are respected and actively discussed. Empathy, respect, and ongoing enthusiastic consent are the cornerstones of healthy interactions. ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ž

Let's keep having those "uncomfortable" conversations! Whether it's about consent, genitalia, s*x, or anything else, we all end up better for it.

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โ€œYour va**na is SACRED.โ€ How many times have you heard this or a variation of this coming from a loving and well-meaning...
05/07/2023

โ€œYour va**na is SACRED.โ€ How many times have you heard this or a variation of this coming from a loving and well-meaning parent or adult to a child? Let's have an important conversation about the impact of language on our children's relationship with their bodies and s*xuality.

The way we talk to our kids about their genitalia can have a lasting effect on their self-perception and their understanding of s*x. It's vital that we approach these conversations with openness, respect, and *accuracy*. ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ญ

Every inch of our bodies holds its own unique beauty and significance. Recognizing that no body part is more sacred than another is essential. ๐ŸŒŸ
Elevating a single body part, like the va**na, to such a sacred place can create certain expectations and distort the healthy development of children's body image and self-acceptance. Let's celebrate the sacredness of the entire body, fostering love and acceptance for every part, from head to toe, free from imposed expectations. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ’–

Using positive language creates a foundation for a healthy body image and a positive attitude towards genitalia and s*x. ๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿ’ช Together, we can help design an environment where children feel safe asking questions and expressing themselves without judgment. ๐Ÿคโœจ

We're not advocating for everything to be shared all at once, all the time. But it's important to remember that our words can shape their beliefs and attitudes towards s*x. Promote open conversations, consent, and respect. Teach them about boundaries, consent, and the importance of mutual respect for their bodies' and others' in their wholeness.๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ž

Imagine an entire generation that views their bodies with confidence, knowledge, and respect, free from unrealistic expectations. Providing accurate information and fostering open dialogue empowers our children to make informed decisions and develop healthy relationships with their bodies and s*xuality. Together, we are changing the world. ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ™Œ

๐Ÿ“ข Episode 5 is here!๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Are you ready to dive headfirst into the captivating world of v***as on this episode of Not a Pur...
30/06/2023

๐Ÿ“ข Episode 5 is here!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Are you ready to dive headfirst into the captivating world of v***as on this episode of Not a Purse?! ๐ŸŒŸ

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ As always, Jo and Larissa are ready to dissect and challenge the normsโ€”starting with, what defines a perfect v***a? And WHO gets to decide? If you've ever wondered about this part of the female anatomy, have questions about what's actually down there (yes, we clarify some terminology!), or are just curious to hear some personal and slightly embarrassing stories around v***as, you're in the right place.๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿ’ฌ

๐ŸŽง Let's jump right in! Listen to Episode #5 now and make sure to follow us on Spotify for future episode updates. Don't miss out! ๐Ÿ””

https://open.spotify.com/show/4EAEsCsqZX26hhAbsNUtvV

P.S. Exciting news: Not a Purse! is now available on Apple Podcasts and Google Podcasts too! No more excuses not to tune in! ๐ŸŽงโœจ

๐Ÿ’ก BONUS: Check out The V***a Gallery! It's an incredible resource that can reshape your perception of v***as and their unique appearances. ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ”

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๐Ÿšซ Menstrual Stigma Ends Here! ๐ŸšซLet's talk more about something most people try to avoid in "polite conversation": the to...
27/06/2023

๐Ÿšซ Menstrual Stigma Ends Here! ๐Ÿšซ

Let's talk more about something most people try to avoid in "polite conversation": the toll of having a menstrual period. It is often underestimated or minimized, leaving women feeling like abnormalities in a world that isn't built for them. ๐Ÿฉธ๐ŸŒ

It's time we speak up about this, plainly and without guilt or shame. We deserve a world where menstrual health isn't stigmatized, but rather understood and supported. No more silently suffering or being told to "suck it up." ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’œ

Language shapes how we perceive things, and for far too long, the language and expectations around periods have been about "being strong", not "showing weakness", or everyone being treated equally. โฐ Time to debunk this myth!! Period pain, fatigue, and hormonal changes take a toll on the physical and mental health of billions, and being dismissive about this isn't solving anything.

Is the impact of having a period downplayed? Yes, every day. Does it have a huge effect on not just women, but our society as a whole? It sure does. And is it something that we can mold and change through empathy, open communication, and radical honesty? HELL YES!

Join the conversation below! Share your experiences with us, your ideas for creating a more period-friendly world, and even your tips for making the period experience a better one for all. Together, we can champion menstrual well-being and pave the way for healthier coping mechanisms. Let's empower one another! โœจ๐ŸŒบ

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