24/05/2023
My neighbor came to me one afternoon for afternoon discussion since we never see customers , as we were discussing about random things, relationships , love and guys etc
along the line she told me the plight of her girlfriend how the broke boyfriend left her for another lady , that this have friend have been with the guy since his broke days only for the guy to make money and leave her for another girl,
Chai ! It was painful though, your broke boyfriend finally getting rich and leave you for another person that’s sad to hear,especially when you have been waiting for him to get rich……
I felt bad for her friend truly but I asked her a question what was her friend doing when the boyfriend was hustling to make money and she was like what kind of question is that ?
I just laughed that’s the problem with my gender we stay with our broke boyfriends rather than growing with them,
When your boyfriend is broke and hustling to make money don’t just stay there and encourage him alone , doing nothing hoping that once he gets the money he won’t leave you because you were there when he has nothing ………
While this may work for some people it doesn’t always favour everyone ,
Don’t feel too entitled to his money after all you are not the one suffering to make the money ,I’m not justifying the actions of guys leaving their ladies for other ladies when they make the money ,
I’m just saying we shouldn’t be idle waiting for them to make money for us, let’s do something with ourselves also,
while our boyfriends are hustling to make it let’s also hustle with them , encourage each other , Grow with them , share ideas and rub shoulders together so that we both can make it together,
If they buy us car we get them suit if our money no reach for car,
Then if they now decides to leave when we don finally make am because I know boyfriend wey go leave go leave but at least we won’t be empty handed ,
Let’s all find something doing everyone can do something, no man is an Island,
