23/07/2020
Firstly, it's much easier to get to know your student deeper in a private session than a group class, as you spend all your time and engage all your energy in one single person. But there is always a way to do it, no matter it's a group class or a private 1to1 session
Observe Carefully
The first thing to do is to observe EVERYTHING.
How do they talk? What do they ask? What's the environment around them? Is he tired, talking too much, being too quiet, being sad, sleepy, having pain ...etc?
Adjust the angle or the aspect if it's necessary. In my story, as it was an online yoga class, I was limited to the sound from the speaker to the size of the screen. I had to ask my student to move around in his room with the we**am, in order to check his environment.
A smile of student's face, a single step the students make, a yawn....all can indicate what they really need in that yoga practice.
Ask, Ask, Ask
Before you start the practice, always ask the students questions according to your observation.
In the story above, I found he has a nice flat wall with carving behind. However, I had to confirm whether those carving makes him uncomfortable while leaning on the wall or not. I asked him gently putting his back on it. The wall is wonderful - comfortable and supportive. Then I used the wall in our first practice.
The chair he has as good as a support, but sometimes people have an office chair with wheels instead of 4 legs standing still on the ground. In this case, holding a chair in a yoga pose is not a good idea, as the chair may slide away during the practice.
Sometimes the issues are not from the equipment but from the students. At the beginning of every class, I always ask my student how do they feel? Do they feel pain or have any medical/ surgical history?
Yet they don't declare you all the details at once. Most of the time is not on purpose, they just don't know this information could be important for you. Sometimes they tell you during the practice, lie complaining about their wrist pain while holding in Downward-Facing Dog. Sometimes they don't say anything, but just frown or not following your cue.
Those above are all indicators of the issues or needs of the students at that moment. So ask questions!!! When you're not 100% sure about the safety and the situation, ask them about it. Why don't they follow the cue? Why do they frown? Why do they sit down when you ask them to stand up? Ask questions to clarify the situation, then you will know what do they really need. And don't be ashamed if you cannot give help to your students at that moment. Be honest with what you are able to do and provide as much help as you can, but you can never fake it if it's out of you.
Sima Hsiung
[A Yoga Instructor, Yoga Therapist, and a life-long learner. She believes that "Yoga is for everyone". She dedicates to help people find happiness and health in their life. IG : simayogatalk]