30/06/2024
Nathan had two children: a little girl from his first marriage to Stacy, who didn't live with him and lived with her mother, and a second child, a son, who lived with him and his present wife, Francis. Nathan spoiled his son because he believed he should always say only positive and pleasing things to him. Nathan never corrected him and often got upset when others corrected his son's behavior. Nathan always spoke sweetly to his son and never said anything harshly to him, even when he did something wrong.
Nathan was also a very organized man. He meticulously packed everything away before leaving his work desk daily, and his home office was just as organized. Everything was in place, and he knew where everything was if needed.
One day, Nathan was working from home. He walked away from his office for a few minutes to make himself a cup of tea. During that time, unaware, his eight-year-old son slipped inside his home office. And his son wrecked the whole room!
His son pulled down most of the papers and files, opened all the pens and markers he could find, ripped some of the papers, attempted to bite through some, and marked over most of the rest of the papers. During all that excitement, his son found Nathan's stack of chocolate on his desk and ate some, threw some on the carpet, and wiped some over the desk and papers.
Nathan finally arrived back at his office. How could his son do so much damage in 10 minutes when he had spent years fixing, pulling, and finding the best way to organize that office? But Nathan never corrected his son before. And he had no intention of starting now. As Nathan stood there, steering at the hurricane of an office, he would have to clean up. His son walked up to him, pleased and smiling.
Nathan returned the smile and said, "It's alright, don't worry. Everything is fine." He did not address the behavior or say it was unacceptable. Two months later, Nathan forgot to close the office door (again), and a similar situation happened.
Each time, he would simply say, "It's alright, don't worry. Everything is fine." Nathan did not address the behavior. Nathan allowed this issue to create a massive problem that caused his son to get into serious problems as an adult. His son never had to face the consequences of inappropriate actions. His son never had someone say this is wrong or unacceptable. It was (only) after situations arose where Nathan no longer had control and serious consequences faced his son that Nathan eventually addressed the issue with him, but this came when his son was much older and too late.
Jeremiah 6:13-14 says, "For from the least to the greatest of them, everyone is greedy for unjust gain; and from prophet to priest, everyone deals falsely. They have healed the wound of my people lightly, saying, 'Peace, peace,' when there is no peace."
The little things matter to God. In this scripture, we find the spiritual leaders at the time, priests and prophets, falsely instructing the people that all was well. Instead of telling them the truth, the scripture says they "healed their wounds slightly" by telling them there is peace. But in reality, there was no peace.
In this scripture, peace means "safe, well, happy, friendly, welfare, health, prosperity, peace." Don't we want to hear these things? Of course! We all want to hear good, nice things. Who doesn't want to hear they are healthy, wealthy, prosperous, and safe? God wants the best for us. He has the very best intentions for us. The Lord wants us to be prosperous, healthy, and safe. He wants us to be blessed and live with joy. But sometimes, we miss the Lord's best (for us) because we fall into disobedience and walk away from God's truth and purpose for our lives. In the scriptures, this was the situation. They had fallen in disobedience and believed they were doing well. They believed that there was peace.
But God was saying there was no peace. There was no peace because the people had not listened. They had turned away from the straight and narrow path and lived lives of disobedience. But the priests and prophets soothed the people with nice words! Isn't it the same way today? Even when doing something wrong, we don't want to hear someone say it. We want to hear the opposite and call the wrong things right. We prefer to hear correct even when things are incorrect. We all want to hear these all the time. All is well with you! God is pleased with you! God doesn't mind how we live or treat our spouse or family!
God doesn't mind if we spend just enough time writing a sermon or preparing for worship but have no time to pray or read the Bible at other times! God is all right if we have hate, anger, and hypocrisy in our hearts! God is fine with our unforgiveness, backbiting, and pride! Don't worry about malice, prejudice, favoritism, or strife; just go to church, give some money, and pretend all's well! There is peace, peace, peace! And it is well. All is well! It is well with our souls!
It sounds harsh, doesn't it? But God said smooth talking is not helpful and will eventually lead us astray, as it led the people in the scriptures astray. Soothing words will not cause us to obey God. Isn't it wise to know the truth or reality so we can self-reflect, admit our failings, and do better? In this scripture, God warns everyone from the least to the greatest, from the prophet to the priest, not to deal falsely and say everything is well when it is not the situation.
This is for our situations today, from those of us who sit in the pew or are at the pulpit, from those who preach to those who sing, those who lead, or those who (just) attend church without assigned posts or roles. All of us! We all must consider what we are doing and how we are living. We all must ask God, is this (really) pleasing to You? Is my life pleasing to You? I may feel that I am doing well, but we must ask the Lord if this is, in fact, the reality.
It may sound harsh, but the only opinion that (really) matters is the Lord's! What we think does not matter. Our thoughts or assessments don't matter; this is the reality and truth. Only what God's word says matters. That is all that matters! Let us evaluate ourselves sincerely. Are we obeying God's Word? Is our daily lives a reflection of a life surrendered and obedient to Christ?
The people we read about in Jeremiah are like many of us today. They heard that all was well, and week after week, they believed all was well. But God was not pleased. And all was not well. Let this not be our situation. In the scripture, the reality was that they were about to enter 70 years of captivity, and they were about to be overtaken. In fact, there was no peace! But the leaders kept speaking falsely to them. The people believed the lies partly because they made them feel good. The lies made them at ease, so they didn't have to address the problems and consequences they were facing.
No one knows our hearts, motives, or the sort of relationship we have with God but God! People don't see how we live in our homes, treat our spouses, children, or families, or speak about or think about others. But God knows and sees it all. We don't know, so we can't judge each other, and we should not judge each other. And this Bible teaching is not about judging anyone.
In fact, the Bible reminds us that we ought to judge ourselves. We ought to allow God to clean our lives and hearts so we are vessels of honor fit for His use. 1 Corinthians 11:31-32 says, "For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world."
Prayer
Our Father, we pray today that You will search our hearts. See where there is wickedness in us: a little hate, envy, pride, bitterness, unforgiveness, covetousness, or lust. So many little things may be in our hearts and lives that need to go. We pray today that You will help us not to allow these things (no matter how small we may think they are) to linger and fester into something even worse.
Please help us, God, to reflect Your light, love, and glorify You. May our lives glorify You in how we speak, think, act, believe, and treat others. Please help us not to say soothing words contrary to Your Word. But help us reflect, see where we may have fallen, and repent. Let us see it as essential to take genuine steps to remedy unresolved or partially resolved situations with others so that our offering may be acceptable and pleasing to You.
Lord Jesus, may You be the source and flow of all we are. We humbly come to You. Thank You for Your love and grace, in Jesus' name, amen.
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