31/08/2023
Please keep me anonymous .... I've been dating this guy for 3years plus now, I wasn't working as at the time we met nd he always said we'll get married once I have a job..He is into businesses and I supported him, I'm not the type to demand much from someone I love,so I didn't stress him.Last year, God gave me a job(civil service) I'm 24yrs old,and since then,my boyfriend has been acting like a wizard(kinda jealous),he will say things like,u now have a job,so u dnt have my time again,sometimes he will ask me for money for food,shoes,fuel...i mean something must leave my hand, I condoned that one very well,earlier this year, oga said I shud be giving him 20k out of my salary wenever I'm paid so he'll be supporting his business with it,dis didn't go well with me Buh I kept mute nd was doing little to support him as usual…He started giving me attitude,shouting at me,making excuses dt his business is not moving Dts why he's like that....Last week I went to the market,bought things,went to his house and made Afang soup,packed everything inside the fridge for him and waited for my boyfriend to come home and smile,when he got back,l served him... First thing he said was that I would have told him of my plans as he would have preferred Okro soup instead,I apologized for that, he started eating,next thing was...No Goat meat??,this is why I said u would have told me,I like my afang better with goat meat not cow meat...in all this,dere was nothing lik thank you"...I got pissed,went inside the kitchen, removed the ones in the fridge and left,he called and was telling me I'm not ready to be a wife,that a wife material wunt do wat I did....I told him he got me angry nd he said it's because I have job, thats why I'm bringing out my true nature with him,telling me I'm ungrateful,...I want to believe I'm doing the right thing cos I'm leaving the relationship..l need advice from your followers,make e no be like say na me Dey wrong Thank you