14/10/2021
BASIC INGREDIENTS AND ANATOMY OF MARRIAGE.
1. TRUST - This is very important in marriage,it's just the first thing u should take cognisance of,the pillar that hold marriage is trust when this pillar falls then the marriage crumbles. Trust start from courtship and becomes the search light to where Cupid resides,it's lead the partners involve with the prove of right Path. I called this (the Salt). E.g when there is absence of salt in ur food,the food will be tasteless and will not be eatable.
2. OPENNESS - Partners that refuse to operate on the platform of openness will definitely suffer marriage crash landing. When u genuinely profess ur desire to one another there is reason for keeping things away from each other,that is why the Bible says in Amos 3:3 "Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?. It means agreement in place for such journey to be started. I called this the "seasoning". E.g absence of this denies the sweetness.
3. CARES - Partners that doesn't show this will definitely encounter marital intrusion this pave way for distractions,it makes the party involved to look elsewhere. Wanting for emotional and passionate satisfactions. Be ready to do what it takes to keep u and ur partner together. Matthew 5 : 41 say " If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Be ready to show care to ur partner. This is part of the condiments to sweeten ur marriage.
4. TRUTHFULNESS - Your spouse is now ur confidant,that u share views together and deliberate on how to sustain the marriage and make it worthy of emulation. Some marriages has collapse due to the insincerity that eclipse the union. When you are truthful to ur partner ,it means the rough path and stormy way will be jointly won together for better marital result. This also is one of the condiments used in making it worthy to be in.
5. UNITY - This is the oil added to marital cuisine for acceptability and fascination. It does not allow intruder and prevent disarray. That is agreements,unity does an extreme work of cohesion in marriage. Colossians 3:14 says "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity".
6. LOVE - The last input of marital ingredients is Love. This is the pot that will contain the above mentioned ingredients. Love covereth ur short coming,it does not see weakness and fault, it makes the party involved to erase the sight of fault. Love does not wither ,love does not finds fault,love does not hold grudges, love appreciates, encourages, mentors, love gives back up , True love does not disintegrate , true love is filled with affection and compassion. It does not allows fear 1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. I pray for u this morning ,The right partner will locate u in Jesus name. Every marriage that is at the verge of collapse the heavens mend it in Jesus,that Love lost in ur marriage the heavens returns it in Jesus name. I decree into ur life those of u seeking for the right partner to journey with for a divine marriage,this morning go forth and meet ur husbands, go forth and meet ur wives, the partners that will not abuse u and the perfect will of God will be ur portion in Jesus name. Your testimony has come and ur life will never remain the same. It is well with u.
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