26/06/2024
Comfort zone.
Over my total 29 years professional career and over the last 20 years in the training, consulting and coaching sector, I have met directly with forty to fifty thousand people.
All this while, I haven't found a subconscious person who doesn't want to succeed in life. But most people seem to be upset about the fact that they are not able to succeed in life despite of trying and hopelessness and helplessness. With their lives as if they have clung.
And then most of the people are living with the regrets of their unfulfilled desires. There may be many reasons behind these desires, but today I have seen most people fall victim to the reason I am explaining.
And she is staying in her "comfort zone" and becoming accustomed to her "addiction"! Yes, comfort zone is also an addiction and a very dangerous addiction!
Most of us like to stay in our comfort zone because we're afraid that when they step out of their comfort zone, they'll face hardship. Therefore, it's good to stay in a zone where there's a kind of easy routine in life Yes and don't have to work hard.
But one thing most people ignore in this case is that they waste without utilizing the countless talents Allah has given them in life, they miss out on the countless beauties of life. They lose themselves and We miss out on giving the people connected to us a better but best life.
I've studied the lives of worldly and the afterlife successful people in human history or people I've met personally, none of them seemed to be a comfort zone addiction.
Successful people don't get to the point where they see you and you are inspired by them all the time.
They always push themselves to seek new knowledge, knowing and better to find better solutions to problems they face on highway life or to solve other people's life problems. Want to help.
Learning new things, acquiring knowledge and reading books for that.... . You have to step out of your comfort zone!
If you want to be financially and financially stable, it won't happen by sitting in your room and scrolling aimlessly on your phone. You need to upskill yourself out of that comfort zone, so you can learn new things. Gee, have to take courses, visit your teachers and mentors and invest time!
If you want to strengthen the emotional relationship with your family, you will have to work hard to develop these qualities within your character, spend quality time with your family, listen to them, and comfort. Gotta get out of the zone!
If you want to grow in your work, in your job, see if you are adding value to your organization that no one else is? Or are you spending day and night in a comfort zone in a routine from a common man?
You can never add any arbitrary value to a comfort zone and that means you can never be easily changed, or at least set progressives.
Do you get out of your comfort zone to get up early in the morning (or before dawn) or do you prefer to stay in the comfort zone of a soft, warm bed?
Do you stay in the comfort zone of most movies, music and dramas on screen or are you out of your comfort zone in search of learning something new?
Do you spend money only on eating, drinking, easy things and things in your comfort zone or you spend it out of your comfort zone for learning, skills improvement and success in this world and the hereafter?
How many times a year do you sit for hours chatting with friends or going out to eat while staying in your comfort zone? And how many books do you read and courses do and how many hours do you spend on them?
If you want success in the "real" world and the hereafter, you have to step out of your comfort zone and take a step forward. Doing so will lead you to attaining the success you seek.
Otherwise, it is certain that this "comfort zone" of today will put you in a particularly big and painful "discomfort zone" in the coming tomorrow, but at this time, I wish! Sighs! Sobbing! And there will be nothing but regrets!
"Tie it to yourself that you will have to endure one of two hardships. The hardships of living out of the comfort zone today or the hardships of carrying the burden of regrets tomorrow! "
You have to decide yourself!
Yaminuddin Ahmed
August 16, 2022