03/06/2024
I promise this post isn't meant to hurt you....
I know I'm a little bit loud-- but friend, it needed to be said. People who want to be in healthy, secure relationship with you- will USE THEIR WORDS to tell you that. And then, their actions will reflect it. And, if perchance- they lack the skills or self awareness to accurately convey their desire for you... do you *really* want to be with them?
You deserve better, friend. You don't have to walk away, but you do have to LISTEN. If they keep telling you they don't want to be with you- believe them. Even if their arms make you feel safe. Even if their smile lights you up inside. Even if you get butterflies when they text you.
You deserve to be with someone whose words you can TRUST, friend.
So shove that person out of your partner's seat, keep doing YOUR work and pursuing YOUR purpose, and the next person who is supposed to love you will be on your path.
Remember friend, you deserve to be with a good communicator. 💜