This Is Why You Are Not Married

28/07/2022

To every single person Sharing this post. May God Connect you to your Destiny Spouse.

30/01/2022

Rev. Lucy Natasha and Prophet Carmel Traditional Marriage. .

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18/11/2021

THE WOMAN EVERY MAN WANTS TO MARRY

There are singles hopping from one relationship into another like a frog on a trip. Their goal is in search for Mr. or Mrs. Right. And in all these attempts, they become disappointed at the end because that is when they get to know the true nature of their partners. They had been with a liar, a cheat, or a thief and only realized it when it was all over. It is really true that you only get to know the true length of a frog when it dies.

The question is, do most singles take stock of their relationship after it ends before jumping into another? The answer is NO. Yes the next person might be different but every wise man or woman needs to learn from their past.

The strength you have today comes from your yesterday's pain; your success today comes from yesterday's mistakes. If you want to be successful in life, learn to learn from your past, your mistakes. Ignoring the past and the mistakes without learning from it only makes you repeat these events.

The number one need of every man when it comes to marriage is respect and honour. "A wife must put her husband first. This is her duty as a follower of the Lord" - Colossians 3:18 (CEV).

And once you know this, you are a good candidate for marriage. You don't need to beg or force a man to marry you. Every man wants to marry a good girl and to them a good girl is one who respects. It’s not all about the looks, it’s about the character. No matter how beautiful you are, if you don't respect, men will love to get into your pant but will not want to take you home as a wife.

Men value respect more than money, beauty, etc. If a man has a well-paid job but feels disrespected at the workplace, he will leave. If a husband is not getting the kind of respect he needs at home but can get it in the street, he will make the street his next home. This is how vital respect is to men.

Men put their attention, passion at where they get respect. "Wherever your treasure is, there your heart and thoughts will also be" - Luke 12:34 (TLB).

A woman of respect is a woman of a good character, one who has standards and doesn't fall for just anything, who doesn't take people for granted and knows how to speak. She is hard working and beautiful in what she does. She is lovely, supportive and loved by many. She is careful in what she does and she fears God.

A respectful woman doesn't control a man or order him around. She believes in the man, understands him, prays for him, covers his weaknesses and focuses on his strengths.

In conclusion if you learn how to respect, not only will people admire and describe you as a woman of good character, but your man will tell you as in Proverbs 31:29 (TLB) "There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!”

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18/11/2021

"It is beautiful to be in love, to feel important in someone's life, but falling in love with someone who disrespects you makes you feel unimportant to them is what you should never settle for. If we are in love, we must Treats each other right with Respect ❤❤❤

02/11/2021

"No relationship stays the same, either its growing or dying. If you remain the old you, you kill your relationship. And don't be surprised to hear your partner asking for a break up. You might not know how hard it was for them to come to such a conclusion"

27/10/2021

TAKING STOCK OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

I was at Game shop at the mall to get few stuff for the house. Upon getting there, I realized they were open but not serving customers. I also saw a notice that read "Sorry, dear cherished customer Game is taking stock now, for that matter, we are not open to the public".

I wasn't the only disappointed customer, we were a lot, no matter how we pled with the security, we were not in.

This shop was here to sell to the public but I realized taking inventory or stock was very crucial to the success of their business and that process needed no interruptions or distractions. That is why their doors remained closed to the public until it was done.

Why is inventory or stock taking so important? To know the items that needs to be restocked. You don't wait for the customer to come wanting to buy something before you say it’s out of stock. This process contributes to the success of the business or shop.

How many of us periodically close off ourselves to the outside world, our job, friends, family, etc, so as to have time with our spouse and take stock?

We forget to take stock of our marriages and relationships; we don't check if we have run out of PATIENCE, or whether TRUST is low in stock, if COMMUNICATION is halfway, or even if LOVE is almost gone or its demand has increased. So what happens? Such a relationship or marriage will eventually collapse.

In your relationship you don't have to fight to the extent where people have to come and ask what the problem is. This will happen if you refuse to take stock.

Some of us ignore our spouses, putting them down; but when you are not happy at home, no matter who you meet outside or where you go, you will still be unhappy. It’s not about how big the house is, It’s about how Happy the home Is.

From today onwards, I encourage you to set aside a date in every month for this important exercise. Find out what your partner is not happy about, that is one of the things missing in your relationship, work together to fix that, tell your partner what you are not happy with.

"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace".- as it says Ephesians 4:2-3 (NIV).

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04/08/2021

26/05/2021

PROPOSAL GONE WRONG 💔💔💔

05/09/2020

Queens be careful devils comes dressed in “I’m a man of God” 🤷🏽‍♂️😳

05/09/2020

You're telling a married man not to break ur heart, if he can cheat on his wife, then who are u?🤷

01/09/2020

01/09/2020

YOUR SEASON OF BREAKTHROUGH HAS COME. I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH IN YOUR LIFE BUT THE SPIRIT OF GOD IS TELLING ME TO TELL YOU THAT BE REST ASSURED BECAUSE YOUR TIME HAS COME.
I PROPHESY TO EVERYONE SHARING THIS POST, MAY GOD REMEMBER YOU TODAY.

26/08/2020

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26/08/2020

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If you are not ready for baby, dont play S*X

22/08/2020

When she caught you cheating. .💔👇

22/08/2020

How different person react to Broken Relationships 💔

22/08/2020

Avoid relationship like this💔

21/08/2020

14/08/2020

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05/08/2020

If you hate financially broke men then don’t be a financially broke woman ... you cannot hate what you are , one sided expectations can destroy you . If you want a man with a car you should show us exactly where you parked yours . The mission has become a movement

01/08/2020

In this new month, may God give you a Bigger TESTIMONY 🤣🥰

21/07/2020

‼DON'T JUMP INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE NOT HEALED!

"There are those who have rushed into another relationship without healing themselves, believing everything might be fine but eventually it turns out bad. You don't heal yourself or your broken heart by rushing into another relationship or denying yourself a relationship.

You need to heal yourself before you venture into a new relationship. If you go into a new relationship without healing yourself from the pains and the wounds, you will end up bleeding on the people who didn't cut you. You bath your new partner with the blood of the wound from your old relationship.

Nobody can also take away your pains or heal your wound. You need to do that yourself, you need to fix yourself before you get into a new relationship"

19/07/2020

"No man or woman is perfect, and for that matter we have to be honest in our relationships. Let your partner know why you are into this relationship; is it for better for worse? Or is it until the next one comes around. Open up to your partner when they do something wrong, and together find out how you can resolve it. If we have agreed to stay together, then it’s worth talking about everything.

A true relationship doesn't entertain visitors; it wants someone who stays, it wants the one who is afraid of losing them, not the one who can easily replace them.

Many people don't realize the good man or woman they have in their lives until they are gone and are with someone new. Then they become emotional and want to be given a second chance to put things right. That's what I will describe as too little too late. Once your Ex is over you and happy with a new relationship, you are not going to get them back" -

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14/07/2020

"Marriage goes beyond s*x but it is sad to know that lots of people are just looking for s*xual partners in the name of marriage. The focus of a happy marriage these days has been reduced to s*x. So lots of singles going into marriage these days want to be s*x experts before they get into marriage.

They are concerned with the size of a man’s manhood than the size of his heart or commitment towards them. They are concerned about how long s*x will last between them than how long the marriage will last.

S*x is never love, s*x does not seal a relationship. It dirties relationships. Never mistaken good s*x outside marriage to be love. No matter how good the s*x is, it makes you dirty if done outside of marriage" -

24/06/2020

The mistake I did with dating was I got too obsessed with the idea of being inlove, seeing other couples on social media had me falling for that picture. I didn't wait on God and allowed the devil to introduce me to counterfeit relationships that left me bruised and damaged.
It took alot out of me. I lost my purpose and found myself asking God why he hates me and why this happens to me even when I am loyal and giving my all. I have two failed relationships that left me wondering why and why. one with a cheater and one with an abuser.

I looked at myself worse than I did before. Because I didn't wait on God I didn't put him first.
Lesson: when you don't wait on God you give the devil the platform to introduce you to REPLICA and you get damaged by people who were never meant to be in your life.

advice : its important you take your time. write a list of qualities you want in a man/woman.pray about it each and every day. God really does answers prayers trust me. work on yourself. heal so that your past scars don't prevent you from getting your Blessings ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

07/06/2020

"Before you promote your current relationship into marriage make sure you take away s*x, money, materials and see if you still have a relationship, If he or she still loves you and is willing to be with you. Don't wait until you lose your partner because you cannot give them any of those things. You need someone you can build with, it takes such a person to enjoy with. And when you find such a person, hold them dear to heart.

You don't take them for granted or mess up the relationship. If you do, you might end up with a fake lover for the rest of your life. You might also live with the regret of letting go someone who genuinely cares about you and you won't be able to get them back. People like that exist but it is hard to find in these days of a world full of fake people" -
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05/06/2020

"Before you promote your current relationship into marriage make sure you take away s*x, money, materials and see if you still have a relationship, If he or she still loves you and is willing to be with you. Don't wait until you lose your partner because you cannot give them any of those things. You need someone you can build with, it takes such a person to enjoy with. And when you find such a person, hold them dear to heart.

You don't take them for granted or mess up the relationship. If you do, you might end up with a fake lover for the rest of your life. You might also live with the regret of letting go someone who genuinely cares about you and you won't be able to get them back. People like that exist but it is hard to find in these days of a world full of fake people"
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05/06/2020

DON'T WELCOME A NEW PARTNER IF YOU'VE NOT FORGIVEN YOUR EX

Moving on might sound so easy but it's one of the most difficult things to do. It starts with accepting how things ended even if that's not what you wanted or prayed for. Life is not as cruel as we think especially when we don't get what we want. Sometimes life is generous, it takes away what we want but gives us what we need. The fact that we want it does not mean we need it.

Sadly, we don't understand how life works so we tend to hold on to what we have to let go, even if it's killing us. And one of the very things we hold on to is the hurt, the pain, the loss, making it hard to forgive the people behind it.

Maybe its hard to let go because it was the only thing that made us smile, maybe its hard to let go because it was the only thing we had given our all to. Whichever way you find yourself, you need to appreciate life and take what life throws back at us and make the best out of it.

When relationships come to an end, no matter how hard you try to fight to hold on or make it work, or no matter how much you are hurt, remember life continues. And to be able to go on with life, you need PEACE.

Peace at heart, will enable you live and be able to love; peace of mind will enable you to think well, make better decisions and choices. Forgiveness is one thing that gives us peace. When we don't forgive, we rob ourselves of the peace we need.

We end up with war inside us, we are constantly fighting with ourselves and people around us, we have no place for love and find it hard to embrace the love people show us. Our actions cause others pain because we live in pain. We have no place for smiles.

We might seem to be so strong on the outside but are weak inside. We are afraid of opening up our lives to others because we presume they will hurt us. And when we get into relationships without forgiving our Ex, we keep playing back the past memories instead of creating new ones with our new partner.

We bleed on the new partner because we didn't heal from the hurt and use them as pain killers or shield. We tend to depend on our partner for our happiness because we are not happy inside. We become frustrated when our partner is not able to make us happy.

Being in a relationship is like giving a piece of yourself to someone else. Before you get into a relationship, ask yourself if you are happy with you. You have to be happy with you before you give yourself to someone else.

If you have not forgiven your Ex and still hold on to the pain and the hurt, you won't be able to forgive your next. If you are sad and bitter, that is what you give to your partner. If you are angry, that is what you give to your partner. You get angry at the least thing or even without provocation because you have war inside you.

You need to know that your marriage or relationship is as good as yourself. If your relationship is going to be good, you have to be good. If your relationship is going to be a blessing, you have to be a blessing.

Forgiving your Ex does not mean you have agreed to be in a relationship with them again or allow them to get back into your life or be friends with them again. Forgiving is to set yourself free from the pain, to heal yourself, move on and enjoy the new you and your next relationship.

Forgiving your Ex is not justifying their actions towards you or their behaviour but justifying the fact that you deserve better. Forgiving them does not make you a weaker person. It makes you stronger and better.

In conclusion, "If you forgive others for the wrongs they do to you, your Father in heaven will forgive you. 15 But if you don’t forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins" - Matthew 6:14-15 (CEV)

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29/05/2020

"When you break up, please take enough time to work on yourself, take time to heal. Don't just jump into a new relationship. It's like making your next a band-aid for what the last person did. You will get more hurt.
If you take your time to work on yourself, you will realize there is no need chasing what is bad. You will not feel like you are losing someone, for the truth is, good people don't lose people. It is rather people who lose them.
The next time your Ex calls you to say he misses you, just tell him you are sorry for his loss for you are at a funeral now, saying farewell to the feelings you had for him. Your feelings for him is dead"