09/02/2024
Dapat ganon sana. 🤗
"Nasa isip mo lang 'yan"
Hi.
When someone started to open up sa'yo about their frustrations in life, please, be kind and gentle to them. Hindi mo alam kung gaanong kalaking courage yung binuo nila para sabihin yun sa'yo, thinking that they can trust you, that you'll listen without judgement.
They mustered their courage hoping that you'll understand but they get otherwise.
Please stop saying, "Nasa isip mo lang 'yan".
You don't know how many struggles and countless battles they've fought na sarili lang nila kakampi nila. You have no idea what they've been through and what they're going through.
Minsan kailangan lang nila ilabas yung nararamdaman nila to have more space to breathe in. They just need someone who listen.
Just listen, just be there for them.
Give them assurance na all things will be alright by giving your presence.
Ok lang kung wala kang masabi, let them rant, let them cry.
Pat their back to show some affection, offer your shoulder to show that they can count on you.
And if ever, they said something bad sa'yo ng di nila sinasadya because of their bursting emotions, hayaan mo na muna.
Huwag mo na sabayan, they need someone to understand them not someone who'll worsen the situation.
Let them speak whatever they want, understand that they are going through something na even sila hindi nila ma-comprehend.
Not all the time kailangan nila ng opinion galing sa'yo, and if ever they need one, please be kind with your words.
They easily get irritated and make small details into bigger issues.
Help them by just listening, listen without judgement.
Emotional/Mental breakdown is not easy to deal with.
Hindi po 'yan arte lang. When it hits you, it hits you.
Kapag nakalabas at lumipas na yung "unos" na nararamdaman nila, they are as cheerful as before.
They are the same strong person you've known.
They are the same person whom you love.
It takes a lot of patience and understanding galing sa'yo and you are so appreciated, they might not show it, but they are beyond grateful.
Please be one of the persons whom they can show weakness and not questioning it.
To those who are still struggling to understand them, I know you're trying, you'll get there.
I appreciate your effort.
But please don't leave them with these words "I think you deserve someone who can understand you".
*Leaving in an open air with a silent message don't-ever-involve-me-with-your-drama-it-irritates-me silence.*
You. Are. Breaking. My. Heart.
People, how could you?💔
And to those people who became their "strong wall", THANK YOU.
You saved them from questioning their worth, themselves.
You saved them from these unseen monster.
THANK YOU for lending your ears, your shoulders, knees and toes. Char!😆
We do appreciate you.🤗
-JheLaxy
