Ethan - Rite of Passage

It’s truly up to you External factors aren’t in control YOU ARE @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

This is the act of fully trusting yourself. Giving CONTROL over to the version of you that doesn’t think… Let your mind and body do the work. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

Your circumstances are the DIRECT SYMPTOMS of your choices and every choice starts as a thought… Raise your level of AWARENESS @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

If you intend to MAKE things GO a certain way, you’ll end up FORCING it. Your actions will make that apparent But if you frame your intentions around things that are IN YOUR CONTROL, everything changes. INTEND to ACT a certain way INTEND to THINK a certain way Forget about the outcome… Live through the PROCESS and the outcomes you seek will be more easily achieved @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

As time passes, with consistency and iteration present, growth WILL occur. It simply must. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

Taking the reins of FULL RESPONSIBILITY gives you the power to MAKE CHANGE @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

Having to ‘play’ a social role that isn’t naturally you drains your ENERGY. That ‘front’ takes your attention away from the present moment. The only answer is AUTHENTICITY. Say what you TRULY BELIEVE. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

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It takes every player (emotion) on the team, whether they get minutes or not, to be aligned and driven towards the same vision IF THEY’RE GONNA WIN A CHAMPIONSHIP. Think of the lowest level emotion that you feel at times as the 12th man on the roster. He doesn’t play, but you need him to be acting in accordance to the whole team and its mission. That means you can’t neglect [said emotion]. Whether you feel it often, or barely ever, it is a part of every humans existence. If you don’t nurture and lead that 12th man to buy into the teams goals, he’s going to feel underplayed and will act out. Now he’s stolen the attention. Your lowest level emotion has stolen the attention. And the team morale collapses. SO first off, ensuring your low level emotions are the 10th 11th and 12th men on the team is key, you don’t want them playing much minutes, if any. Joy, courage, love, acceptance and reason should be the starting 5. Those are your guys that win games. You need to provide an environment for them to thrive. YOU are the coach. You LEAD all that players towards the goal. You make sure every player feels like they play a role, even if they don’t touch the ball. You create the game plan. You sure the team as a whole, EXECUTES THE VISION. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

KEY POINT Cheating happens way more often than you probably think. You may: — be reaching min financial/fitness requirements — have a grounded confidence about you — be consistently improving your unique abilities and still get cheated on. Accept this. It’s biological But understand, YOUR CHANCES ARE WAY LESS LIKELY. It’s the guy that thinks cheating barely happens who thinks he’s impervious gets complacent… and gets cheated on @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

KEY POINT: Cheating happens way more often than you probably think. You may: — be reaching min financial/fitness requirements — have a grounded energy/confidence about you — be consistently improving your unique abilities …and still get cheated on. Accept this. It’s biological But understand, YOUR CHANCES ARE WAY LESS LIKELY. It’s the guy that thinks cheating barely happens who thinks he’s impervious, gets complacent… and gets cheated on @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

If you wait for the stars to align they likely won’t. You have to INFLUENCE them. Create that open space of COMMUNICATION where you can just say what’s on your mind in a RECEPTIVE way so that she knows your preferences. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #awareness #confidence

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What would you rate your energy? @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating

Stop worrying about the SPECIFICS of what you should be saying. Get your ENERGY right and CONNECTING with others becomes EASY. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating

Find the state of gratitude through acceptance, meditation, slowing down, and you won’t have to fight your thoughts to think otherwise @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #spiritualgrowth #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating #emotionalintelligence

When it comes to the definition of words, we all have subtle variations. Notice the energy BEHIND the words themselves and understand what’s TRULY being conveyed. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #communication #socialskills #relationships #charisma #dating

Input Output @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #selfdevelopment #confidence #spiritualgrowth #socialskills #charisma

A willingness to TAKE YOUR SHOT (no matter the circumstance) is brought to life through your FAITH that things will work out for the best. Faith EVAPORATES your fear and one without fear is incapable of being stifled. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #selfdevelopment #confidence #spiritualgrowth #socialskills #charisma

Become AWARE of the TENSION in your body and watch your MIND follow suit. This can also be done as a DAILY MEDITATION that will show cumulative BENEFITS over time. @ethan.mckn for more 🤝 #levelup #spritualgrowth #confidence #awareness #meditation #mindset #composure #dating #relationships #socialskills #charisma