17/01/2024
Female Sexuality: Charles Awuzie studies tamed female sexuality as a driving force for future male emasculation in the WOKE Culture...
By now, you probably know that I am an addicted student of Life. I'm thrilled by humanity. I love to study our shared spirituality, sensuality, sociality and our scandalous sexuality.
Today, I'll shine the light on my research on the female gender, their sexuality and the cold war for sexual liberty.
First, I didn't grow up with any sister. And I wasn't exposed to females until I started boarding school in Science School.
My interest in understanding women started in Science School, Ihie.
I didn't understand why the female hostel was out of bound for boys.
In Science School, boys maintained very limited interaction with girls - except the "big boys" who dared the devils and kept girlfriends. Girls were carefully guarded in Science School.
So as long as I was concerned, based on my childhood experiences, females were 'mysterious' beings worthy of studying.
When I became an adult, I understood why female hostel in science school was more protected than boys' hostel. But as an adult, I had adult questions about the female gender...
My major confusion was - is the sexuality of an average woman similar to that of an average man? Do women have a wild sexuality like men? Do they even enjoy s£x?
In finding answers, I interacted with women from diverse backgrounds - religious, non religious, single, married, divorced, widowed, successful and less privileged.
From my findings - I now understand that Women are Exactly like men. The major difference between men and women are mostly anatomical, physiological and social expectations - not sexually.
Just as we have polygamous men, we also have polyamorous women.
There are women who are capable of loving more than 1 man at once and they can do so without loving any of the men less.
Just as we have men who have crazy sexual Energies, there are women who have extremely high libido. And this is normal.
Just as most men have wild sexual fantasies, most women have unspoken sexual fantasies.
These varies from woman to woman, just as it varies from man to man.
When I discovered that there's actually no much difference between both genders, I lowered my expectations of any female in my life. I realised that our patriarchal ancient societies intentionally tamed the sexuality of women through Culture, religion and traditions - majorly for the peace of mind of men. Honestly, without the taming of female sexuality, we won't be able to have and maintain families and family values.
So to build families, women sacrifice their sexuality and quest for sexual adventures. Men make the same sacrifice too but we all can agree that society can forgive a married man who pursues his polygamous fantasies but will never tolerate a married woman vocalising her desire for polyamory.
To be honest, I beg feminists to leave this thing like this. Na beg we dey deg. I know we have been selfish as men, lol , but I have thought deeply about a time when anyone can do whatever they like and honestly, I don't think that's going to be a responsible generation.
With the force and speed extreme feminist movements are gaining grounds, I predict that in another 50 years, polyamory will become more popular than polygamy. In fact, men in the West and Southern Africa, will be fully emasculated.
Let's talk about emasculation of men... It should scare you. A world without defined gender identity and roles will be everything but not responsible. Women need Men to be Men. You don't want a world where your man is less than a man. Whenever that day comes, when men will be forced to dilute their identity to accomodate the explosion of feminine sexuality, may our children resist the temptation of a gender war.
Remember, these are studies based on mere observations and questioning.
Let me know your views on this.
