The Messy Mind.

15/02/2023

Did I?

Still wondering though. 🤔

13/11/2022

Sa nag iisa kong reactor, stay ka lang malapit na pasko mag mimilktea tayo.

05/11/2022

Rumors can make you dislike innocent people. Don’t judge people from what others are saying about them. Be wise, get to know them for yourself, then form your own opinion. The one talking to you may be the one you need to stay away from.

05/11/2022

Focus on improving yourself,
not proving yourself. 💛

03/11/2022

Maxene Magalona, who recently announced her separation from her husband, shared the most important lesson she learned from her marriage.

“Give yourself to God before you give yourself away.

“I believe one of the reasons why most relationships don’t work is because people come into them with unresolved trauma & unprocessed pain from childhood. When two wounded souls come together, no matter how great things are at the beginning, they will end up unconsciously projecting their traumas and pain onto each other if neither of them do the inner work to heal.

“This is where conscious coupling comes in. Instead of just dating & courting each other at the beginning of a relationship, I highly recommend having a very honest conversation about your intentions as to why you want to have a relationship in the first place. Get real and vulnerable by discussing things like your past traumas, mistakes and heartaches. Things that trigger you. Your fears and uncertainties. It’s nice to have fun & lighthearted conversations especially at the start of a relationship but I believe what will truly make it last is when we can just be completely honest with each other and have deep and meaningful conversations—especially the uncomfortable ones. This will help you determine whether or not you want to continue with the relationship and if you think it will work. This will save you time and unnecessary pain.

“If you are currently in a happy & stable relationship, I encourage you to constantly ask each other how you feel and hold space for each other with no judgment. Spend quality time and be present. Cry about your worries & fears and then laugh about them together, too.

“If you are in an unhappy relationship, it’s best to have an honest, heart-to-heart conversation and ask yourselves if it is worth holding on to something that isn’t making your soul smile anymore or if it’s better to just gracefully & lovingly let go so that both of you can move on to the things that are truly meant for you.

“If you are single, focus on working on yourself and embody the traits that you want in a partner. Heal so that you can be a better human. Offer your healing to God and He will bring you in alignment with your soulmate.

“Never chase. Attract. 🌻” she shared on Instagram.

Photo: Maxene Magalona (Instagram) via kami.ph

02/11/2022

𝗧𝗢 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗜𝗦 𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪𝗟𝗬 𝗙𝗔𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔𝗪𝗔𝗬

To the woman who has lost her spark, to the woman whose get up and go, has well and truly gone.
This is for you.
This is to remind you, that you don’t have to be everything to everyone, every day. You didn’t sign up for that.
Remember when you used to laugh? Sing? Throw caution to the wind?
Remember when you used to forgive yourself more quickly for not always being perfect.
You can get that back again.
You really can.

And that doesn’t have to mean letting people down or walking away.
It just means being kinder to you, feeling brave enough to say no sometimes.
Being brave enough to stop sometimes.
And rest.
It starts the moment you realise that you’re not quite who you used to be.
Some of that is good, some of that is not. There are parts of you that need to be brought back.

And if anyone in your life is not okay with that… they are not your people.
Your people will be glad to see that spark starting to light up again.
So, if you have been slowly fading away my friend, this is the time to start saying yes to things that bring you joy and no to things that don’t. It’s really pretty simple.

Donna Ashworth To The Women: Words to Live By
Art: Noa Sian

02/11/2022

Sa dami mong ginawang tama. Pustahan, yung nag-iisang mali mo yung titignan.

24/10/2022

GOLDEN RULE ‼️‼️

KUNG MAY SIKRETO KANG ALAM TUNGKOL SA ISANG TAO NA ALAM MONG IKAKASIRA NIYA.. BETTER KEEP IT THAN BROADCAST IT.. NEVER MONG IKAUUNLAD ANG PAGKAKALAT NG PAGKAKAMALI NILANG NAGAWA…

THEIR MISTAKES WILL NEVER BE YOUR SUCCESS

PEACE YOU ALL..

Lesson Learned:

SANA KUNG MAG-AWAY KAYO NG KAIBIGAN NIYO AWAY LANG WAG NA WAG NIYO ILALABAS ANG SIKRETO NG BAWAT ISA.. KASI HINDI LANG KAYO ANG MASISIRA MARAMING TAO ANG MADADAMAY..

When you are no longer friends with someone, respect the secrets they shared with you.

It's called INTEGRITY.

Ctto

01/07/2022

The Greatest prison people live in, is the fear of what other people think.

17/06/2022

Ang sarap pala sa feeling mag set ng boundary noh. Sa una ang hirap, feeling mo ang sama mong tao, ma gi-GUILTY ka, pero at the end of the day, tandaan mo na yan ang magse-SAVE sayo. ❤

08/10/2021

07/10/2021

𝙎𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙯𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚.

Na ang laki pala talaga ng impact ng childhood traumas sa mindset natin hanggang paglaki.

Na yung mga negatives thoughts natin nabubuo sya dahil sa mga bagay na lagi nating naririnig simula bata pa tayo. Na maliit na bagay lang para sa iba pero hindi nila alam yung scar na iniwan nito sa puso at utak natin na hanggang ngayon dala2x pa din natin.

Pero life must go on, at least alam mo na ang gagawin mo as an adult sa mga younger generations ngayon. Sana lahat tayo na merong past traumas ay makalaya na. Kasi deserve nating lahat maging masaya.

𝗜𝗸𝗮𝘄, 𝗮𝗻𝗼 𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗺𝗼?
Share your thoughts below!