The Outing

20/07/2024

I've been seeing these "I'll still be your friend if you vote for a fascist n**i" and i want to be perfectly clear:
f**k no.

12/07/2024

men (and everyone else because duh) would you pick the girl or the tree?
wrong answers only

also stop calling women/ladies "girls" - in most contexts it's really gross

16/06/2024

happy pride today to all the qu**rs who don't get to talk to their dad - dead or alive.

07/06/2024

happy pride to all the people making their pickles touch
also don't buy chikkkfila
if you insist, send me 20$ while you're at it.

04/06/2024

it's on prime.
i don't love that it's not a trans woman playing the trans woman but it's still fantastic.
happy pride betches.
(and yes I'm still accepting tips for my services thankyew)

1h 59m | R

24/05/2024

them: you're safe with us trans me: with what protections?
them: ...
me: 👀
them: ... um.. ..huh?

21/05/2024

watch 3 Generations
🖤 - your favorite nonbinary transgender person

19/05/2024

hanging nuts off your truck makes it trans.
happy lord's day.
💁🏽🏳️‍⚧️✨️🥜🙏🏼

16/05/2024

hi. sorry i don't update or write or anything really anymore - i work too much.
I'll be moving very very soon. if anyone has any rentals in Reno hit me up (3+ bedroom), otherwise we're getting an apartment hopefully in the next 10 days. I'll also need lots of mattresses but i think that's about it so far.
10 days and my life starts over again.
miss you Denver. miss you Michelle.
what a strange place this is.

03/05/2024

hi :)
I'll post birthday wins later but this morning - i wanted to remind everyone: using "small pe**ee size" to label anything in a condescending manner is body shaming. you don't have any idea who you're actually talking about and i promise that has nothing foundational to do with whatever you're making fun of. thank yew and change your language like a grown up.
love, any of your small deck having friends
( 🙄 i can't believe we're having to go over this still)

24/04/2024

the 7 year old came home from a party and is now asking:

do christians hate trans people?

hope this clears things up on why it's your problem and not ours.

don't worry though - we get to clean up the mess anyway.
you're welcome.

22/04/2024

i want to make something perfectly clear:
when you're talking about "a man pretending to be a woman" to harm women (generally), you're talking about a CRIMINAL.
NOT A TRANSGENDER PERSON.
THAT PERSON LYING IS A CRIMINAL.
SOMEONE LYING ABOUT THEIR GENDER TO GAIN ACCESS TO PARTICULAR SPACES DOESN'T MAKE THEM TRANSGENDER - THAT'S A CRIMINAL.

IT'S ALSO NOT TRANSGENDER PEOPLE'S PROBLEM TO FIX.
( ..and isn't that what you love cops so much for anyway? fixing our problems of "bad people"?)

I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS TO ANYONE.
TRANSGENDER PEOPLE SHOULDN'T BE FIXING THE PROBLEMS WE DIDN'T CREATE ABOUT US.
(and the cops you love put us in the wrong jail cells for defending ourselves so that's helpful right? but it's still transgender people who should fix it and stay in line? did i get that right?)

I'm a transgender person.

not a f**king criminal for wanting to use the bathroom safely.

not a criminal for wanting to be put in a safe* jail cell if that were to ever happen (you know because we can get arrested for using a public restroom - not for r*ping anyone in said bathroom but for being the victim in that bathroom. if you think I'm lying just go f**king choke on some articles about transgender population abuse.)

not a criminal for wanting me or my other q***r people to be safe from abusive people.

you should feel criminal for playing "devils advocate" when really you're just saying what you think about people like me.
i don't put you in danger.
but you sure throw me right at it and say you love me.

01/03/2024

hope this clears things up a little.
I'd just like to use A restroom
for any gender type at this point
as long as it has a toilet
and no merderrers

14/01/2023

14/01/2023

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Official Post from The Outing

09/01/2023

2 weeks ago I had to spend 400$ to fix my power steering. that meant I missed 5 days of work.

yesterday I was told I needed to get my transmission fixed. so I dropped it off and my housemate drove 2.5 hours to come get me to take me back home.

I'm almost out of green. (I'm autistic so yes, i NEED it - not that i have to give you a reason but i just want to make perfectly clear that it's pot friendly in these parts. period.)
I can't give the housemate gas money (and she's absolutely one of my biggest supporters of The Outing).
and idk when I get my car back. 🤷🏽

my concert gig OBVIOUSLY discriminates against me (yes f**k rhino, in case you needed clarification) and I seemingly can't do anything about it alone. and ffs to motivate people to care about other people might as well be a lost cause in that business I feel like most of the time.
my "well paying job" structure stresses me out so f**king much (as much as I love what I do and would love to add more) and is 2 hours away, so I can't pick up extra without a damn car.

so.
today. i'll set up the blog and if I can get something written as well as the site running, I'll release that asap.

if you feel like literally supporting me, I thank you more than i can currently express and the links are in my bio.
thank you for everyone who has already donated. I don't care if it's 1$, it helps and I'll do everything I can to make this happen for yall.

love ya Dirties
Frankie 💋🌹

Francis Paris Rose

08/07/2021

text "sign psloae" to 50409 and reply "yes" to help reform disability benefit rules like not being able to get married without losing said benefits. share this. comment done. something. ty.

05/04/2021

When someone tells you they're uncomfortable/unhappy with something, STOP INVALIDATING them with "be happy they have/are 'xyz'".
STOP IT.
IT'S ONLY TOXIC INVALIDATION.