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Our Mission is to Impact and Improve 10 million Relationships around the world in this decade.
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We are doing this by publishing books in the Relationship Paradigm series, writing articles and providing programmes and resources on our website.

07/11/2024

Yesterday I cried more than I have ever cried before. About two hours in floods of tears.
I had the privilege of visiting with my wife, Gwen Stirling Wilkie, the British Normandy Memorial.
There, early on a misty morning, we were the only visitors to an incredibly beautiful and respectful monument to the 1475 giants who were killed on 6 June, D Day and the thousands who were killed in the following weeks.
It was an incredible testament to the bravery of all those who participated as well as those who managed the logistics of getting hundreds and thousands into occupied territory.
It also showed nations fighting with nations to a greater purpose.
They did this so that Europe might be free of oppression.
The words of King George are particularly poignant “This time the challenge is not to fight to survive but to win the final victory for the good of all and for a world in which goodness and honour may be the foundations of life for men in every land”

14/09/2021

How well do you and your partner argue?
Arguments can make or destroy relationships.
This is an article that I wrote for The Metro on the 10 main mistakes couples make

https://metro.co.uk/2021/08/13/10-mistakes-youre-making-when-arguing-with-a-partner-in-a-relationship-15085523/

Here's how to have better arguments in a relationship.

13/09/2021

Fancy a th*****me?
I wrote an article for The Daily Mail on the fascinating topic of menage au trois!
Here is a link https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9890717/Why-theres-post-pandemic-spike-th*****mes.html

Dating app Feeld, which is designed for 'open-minded' people, has reported a significant rise in the number of British users seeking th*****mes since January 2020.

12/09/2021

How to find a new partner?
Here are my thoughts on how to get the best from Dating Apps, in an article taht I wrote for The Metro.

https://metro.co.uk/2021/09/07/10-mistakes-youre-probably-making-on-dating-apps-and-what-to-do-instead-15218462/

Are you falling into these common unhealthy patterns?

11/09/2021

10 mistakes you are probably making on a first date?
These can be funny, embarrassing or life limiting!

Here is a link to an article that I wrote for The Metro
https://metro.co.uk/2021/09/04/10-mistakes-youre-probably-making-on-a-first-date-15205418/

Relax and enjoy it.

10/09/2021

Thinking of going away for the first time with your new love?
Here is a link to an article that I wrote for The Mirror

https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article24856237.ece/ALTERNATES/s1200d/0_bedbreakfast.jpg

09/09/2021

William and Harry are playing out their differences in the full glare of the world media. I seem to have become to Royal Relationship Expert for the Daily Express!
Here is a link to one of the many articles that I have written for them.
https://www.express.co.uk/news/royal/1480970/prince-william-prince-harry-argument-royal-family-spt

PRINCE WILLIAM and Prince Harry are unlikely to rekindle their relationship as their ‘positions are hardening', a relationship expert told Express.co.uk.

08/09/2021

How to handle Fear of the Office.
Many people will be heading back to the office after months of furlough. How will it feel after so long away?
Here is a link to an article that I wrote for Happiful magazine
https://happiful.com/how-to-handle-foto-fear-of-tthe-office/

05/07/2021

Delighted that I am now advising The Royal Family on their relationship problems!
Here is a link to an article in the Daily Express.
https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/1457939/prince-harry-meghan-markle-oprah-interview-relationship-expert

PRINCE HARRY and Meghan Markle have seen many headlines over the past year, many of which focused on the bombshell interview the couple took part in with TV host Oprah Winfrey.

14/06/2021

What does it mean to be a man in 2021?
I wrote an article recently for the Daily Telegraph on this subject.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/armani-code/what-it-means-to-be-a-man-in-2021/

Why showing your softer side is a good thing

12/06/2021

Getting back with your ex?

Here are some important questions to ask if you are thinking about getting back with your ex.

These were featured in The Metro.
https://metro.co.uk/2021/06/09/13-questions-you-need-to-ask-before-you-get-back-together-with-an-ex-14740400/

Don't dive back in too quickly...

10/06/2021

Or***ms!!!
Here is a link to an article that I recently wrote for Glamour magazine on the important and fascinating topic of or***ms.

https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/orgasm-types

Don't say we don't treat you.

20/04/2021

Neil is now called 'The Relationship Guru' by The Sun. 30 million readers must be right!
Here is a link to his latest article for them, on how to improve your Libido post Lockdown.
Happy reading and whatever joy follows........
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/14617577/lost-libido-lockdown-back-mood-sex-ditching-phones-candles/

12/03/2021

Day 3; our third announcement of the work we have been doing behind the scenes at The Relationship Paradigm.
To help thise who are in Crisis in their relationship we have a new, urgent and intensive programme. The Relationship Paradigm Crisis programme.
Find out more here: https://www.relationshipparadigm.com/home-Crisis%3F
Our new book, Recover, deals with rebuilding trust after the shock of a betrayal and is now available on Amazon at https://amzn.to/3l4TEP5

11/03/2021

At the Relationship Paradigm we are delighted to announce our Spotlight on Communication.
This is an easy way of you and your partner taking a small step to improve your communication.
Check this out at https://www.relationshipparadigm.com/w-spotlight-on-communication

10/03/2021

At the Relationship Paradigm we have been working hard behind the scenes to create ways for you to improve your Relationship.
Every day for the next three days we will unveil what we have been up to.
Today we are excited to announce the second book in The Relationship Partadigm series. Recover deals with how a couple rebuild trust after the shock of a betrayal.
Now available in Paperback and Kindle from guess who!
http://amzn.to/3l4TEP5

11/02/2021

We are featured in the Sun talking about Rubbish and Good presents for Valentines Day.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/14008750/valentines-day-rubbish-presents-break-up/

VALENTINE’S Day is a time of huge pressure for couples. It is an artificially constructed day designed to boost the sales of red roses, cards, champagne, romantic dinners and tat. …

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At the Relationship Paradigm we have been working hard behind the scenes to create ways for you to improve your Relationship. Every day for the next three days we will unveil what we have been up to. Today we are excited to announce the second book in The Relationship Partadigm series. Recover deals with how a couple rebuild trust after the shock of a betrayal. Now available in Paperback and Kindle from guess who! http://amzn.to/3l4TEP5

Sign up starts tomorrow for our innovative Relationship Paradigm Programme. We want to help you have a better relationship. We only run this programme four times a year; find out more at: https://www.relationshipparadigm.com/trp-program

How committed are you and your partner to your relationship? Join us for our Masterclass on Friday 22 January at 20.00 where we will explain the importance of this and how to improve your relationship. Join us on Zoom on Friday 22 Jan at 20.00 https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89287363146?pwd=SEJ3V09YVWdOWE5aUmd1eGQwUURaQT09

Explore your relationship on our Facebook Live. Join us on Sunday 17th at 19.00 @therelationshipparadigm

Would you like to have a better relationship in 2021? Neil introduces the Relationship Paradigm Programme.

The little things can make a huge difference in a relationship. Neil explores how a tiny change can disrupt the whole system and have a catastrophic impact on the relationship.

So often couples find it hard to talk about the important things in their relationship. These can then build up to become the elephant in the room. Neil talks about creating a safe space for those important conversations.

Are you feeling overwhelmed? With so much going on and Christmas appearing, this is a very understandable feeling. Neil talks through how to deal with this and improve your relationship too.