14/03/2023
A Few months ago, I met a very lovely woman and I then decided to shoot my shot, she gave me her phone number and we immediately started chatting.. after a few weeks, we started dating and I got to know her a little better. I got to learn how hard working, responsible and caring she was. I knew that.. that was the type of woman I wanted to marry so I started courting her. We started talking about marriage and the future, we started making plans. After three months, she started pressuring me to go meet her family and start the Lobola negotiations, at the time, I didn’t see anything wrong, I honestly didn’t think she was pressuring me. Anyway I proposed and we set up a date to go meet her people.
One day, I invited her to come over and when we were sleeping, she suddenly woke up screaming and complaining of stomach pains, I asked if it was normal, she said it wasn’t so I took her to the hospital. When we got there, they took her the theater and asked me to wait. after some hours, the doctor came and told me that she was okay but unfortunately had lost the baby. I was stunned. Me and my supposedly soon to be wife had NEVER been intimate so I wondered how the pregnancy issue came about.
Morning came and I decided to call my mom, she came to the hospital and after some hours they discovered the woman I was supposed to marry. I took her to her family’s house then went home with mom. I then explained everything to her. She was extremely disappointed. We arranged for a meeting with her people and they were shocked to hear that we didn’t know about the pregnancy. We called off the engagement and I didn’t even want to hear her explanation. I thank God for bringing the truth to light.
Men please be careful, you might be thinking the child is yours kanshi it’s not.
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