01/07/2021
My dear young people,
Kung hindi talaga kayo mapipigilan na makipagrelasyon, find at least a partner that would encourage you to grow. Don't be blinded by pick-up lines na sinabihan ka lang ng "Kumain ka na? Kainin kita!" o kaya "Buhatin kita sa ML", eh na-fall ka na. Tapos kapag itinapon ka, magra rant ka sa Twitter or Facebook na nobody sees your worth. Sakalin kaya kita
Find someone who can teach you many things, hindi yung puro harot at lande lang ang alam. Be in love with someone who has knowledge, yung kaya kang turuan sa math problems mo, yung kaya kang ipag-edit ng video para sa project mo, or someone who can engage you to an intellectual argument, at hindi yung inaway ka na agad kasi hindi ka nakapag good morning thru text. How pathetic!
Be with a partner who is respectful and who does not try to control you physically, sexually, and emotionally, yung hindi ka pipilitin sa mga bagay na labag sa kalooban mo. Hindi ka nga mapilit ng nanay mo na maghugas ng plato, tapos jowa lang pala ang aalipin sa'yo. Isa pang sapak for you
Look for someone who has a good heart, yung walang ibang hangad kundi mapabuti ka. Choose a partner na may ambisyon sa buhay at ang nasa isip ay maging matagumpay kayo pareho, makatapos kayo ng pag aaral at makatulong sa magulang. At higit sa lahat, kuha ka ng jowa na sigurado sa'yo at nakikita yung future niya with you.
You are still young, expand your horizon, don't be in a hurry, and explore every good opportunity that will come along your way.
I'll leave it here. Yung iba diyan, huwag masyadong OA na para bang mamamatay kapag walang jowa. Labyu all
