Mophin Massey

09/09/2022

18/08/2022

The importance of a mere pinch of salt, greatly surges at the dinning table when it's missing from a dish!

The dish, however, may look mouth watering. It may have been presented well too. But it looses all its charm on you if it is without salt.

Just like that when we miss out on our communication, no matter how good we are prepared, what will pinch us the most, is inability to communicate effectively.

Good Communication Skills are not just important for your growth but also to understand others! A lot can be sorted, addressed, rectified or even created when an idea is clearly communicated to the team.

Here are few steps that you can follow to have Effective Communication Skills:

Keep It Short and Simple
Although this sounds too simple but it ain’t simple at all. To quote from a famous Bollywood movie Bawarchi - It is so simple to be difficult but so difficult to be simple! Keep your communication simple by using simple words for understanding. No one likes a Shakespeare in the room. To be or not to be…

Body Language
The most easiest way to communicate effectively is though the right Body Language. Ensure that you do not cross your hands or have a negative tone or words while communicating. Instead, use an open palm gestures should you need to point during a conversation. What you must understand is, people may not remember what you said, but they will always remember how you said it.

Assumption is Deadly
Sometimes we assume that we already know it or we have a preconceived notion about what is being discussed. End result, we stop listening. Assumption has ended great relationships and partnerships. So Stop Assuming and Start Listening!
In the words of Dalai Lama - "When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.”

Find Out The Barriers
Even with the latest technology we may still face some technical difficulties while communicating. So check the connections and if possible re-dial or re-connect the Zoom session! Other issues could also rise up like - biases, stereotyping people basis colour, cast, creed etc.
We live a diversified world now, so cultural difference can become a barrier too in the offices. A session on - ‘Sensitivity Towards Other Cultures’ can really help.

Happy Learning
Moff

31/07/2022

Sometimes in life, we need to take two steps back to get ready for that BIG Jump!

Don't give up! Press on! Your time is here 👊🏻

06/07/2022

Word of the day...

24/06/2022

Your interview skills will either make you STAND OUT of the crowd or will make you simply fall in.

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22/06/2022

Many times, we struggle to get that promotion which is due for a long time. Most of the time office politics, situations, circumstances etc. gets blamed.

Well the quickest way to get that long due promotion lies with in you.

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07/05/2022

Over the past few years, communication has become a key factor in building fruitful relationships. Ignorance is no longer a bliss and we need to be accountable for our actions.

As you may have heard, our communication skills can change our destiny. Experts agree that if we learn to communicate with people and speak their language fluently, then there are great chances that not only will you find success but also build stronger relationships.

You don't have to take my word for it though, there are numerous articles on internet about how skilled people can change the lives

I have exciting news for you. You get to start your journey for FREE, without any commitment or payment details required. You can sign up now and start learning today. If you’re ready to learn with us, please click on the link below:
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26/04/2022

3 Tips to Cracking the interview - What do Employers' want?

19/04/2022

It's not what you do, that makes a difference.

It's what you do CONSISTENTLY, that makes a difference.

Let this SINK IN!

06/03/2022

LOOK UP!

Most of the times, when life gets you down and you begin to look down upon yourself or upon your circumstances, situation, what you have and what you don’t…

LOOK UP! That’s where your help comes from!

This is a NEW DAY, NEW BEGINNING, NEW OPPORTUNITIES…as long as you have breath in you - LOOK UP!

24/02/2022

Stop watching the time! Instead do what the time does - KEEP ON MOVING!

When you are hurt - Keep on moving!
When you tired - Keep on moving!
When you want to give up - Keep on moving!
When you don’t feel like it - Keep on moving!
When it gets difficult - Keep on moving!

Quitters do not achieve their goals. But people who Keep on Moving will!

Remember…
Progress is not measures in percentages - be it 10% or 90%. Progress is PROGRESS!

So KEEP ON MOVING!

Have a blessed day everyone! 🙂

14/02/2022

I recently watched the movie 83. What a glorious win our Country had in the Cricket World Cup in 1983. The team started with a dismal performance getting beaten by a minor county to beat the reigning world champions West Indies and proudly lift the World Cup and bring it home.

As I watched the movie, there were such amazing lessons that stood out to me. And I am excited to share them with you.

**FOCUS** ..on the outcome. Kapil Dev wanted to win the World Cup. So he PLAYED like he will WIN the World Cup. Not just two matches, but the WORLD CUP. And he persistently focused on it regardless of whatever people said. It does not matter what the people around you say, what matters is WHAT you BELIEVE in. FOCUS ON THE OUTCOME. And pursue it relentlessly.

**DO MORE**
The team had batsmen who could bowl and bowlers who could bat. The need of the hour is not to have just one skill, but to extensively have multiple skills. Do More, LEARN more, be proactive, be FLEXIBLE.

**SHARPEN THE SAW**
Strategize keeping in mind the competition. If you follow the same steps for every challenge that you face, you may taste success in some but not in all. Keep sharpening the saw. Reinvent, strategize and play again. Learn from the misses so that you keep getting HITS over and over and over again.

**FIGHT** ..the good fight. The score in the final match was low. The opposition was tough. But the captain told his team, we will fight for EVERY RUN. That’s how it should be. Resilient and Tough. Push for every thing that you care for and fight hard to keep it. And FIGHT till the end. Sometimes, it really is a “DIE OR DIE” situation.

**REST**
The best of us also need rest. Superheroes look good in movies. But even the best players got hurt and needed time to recover. So REST and RECOVER and then get back in the game. And FIGHT back.

Do respond and tell me your thoughts.😁

09/02/2022

Are you a MUGGLE or a WIZARD?

Magic wands, flying broomsticks, moving staircases, enchanted castle... We all must have seen the movies and some of us may have read the books.
Harry Potter has become such an integral part of the lives of many children and adults.
The entire credit of bringing the character to life goes to Joanne Rowling or J.K Rowling. She has already won multiple awards and has sold more than 500 million copies of the book.
Despite her roaring success, J.K. Rowling was once so poor that she had to depend on welfare. She was divorced, depressed and taking care of her child. When she took the first manuscript of 'Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone', it was rejected a total of 12 times by Bloomsbury London publishers. Eventually, the book was published and it opened the gates of fortune for the author.

Why am I talking about her?
The one thing that stands out is the fact that SHE NEVER GAVE UP. If she would have given up, we would have never known HARRY POTTER.

That's the kind of GRIT we need. RESILIENT, DETERMINED and outright CRAZY. Things that just don't make sense.
NEVER GIVE UP!!! YOUR Future Depends on it!!

31/01/2022

Good is the Enemy of GREAT!

Our journey begins from being an average speaker to being good and finally being a Great Communicator. However most of us tire out by the time we reach being good and stop pushing to be great. The PUSH to reach GREAT becomes cumbersome as for some being good is enough. Well that's NOT GOOD ENOUGH!
With over 125 million people speaking in English in our country, being good is considered as just being average. Hence Average Salary, Average Promotions, Average LIFE.
Let's not settle for anything less than GREAT. Take the following steps and KEEP MOVING FORWARD...
- Build a better foundation:
Look at any tall rise building around you. Do you know what holds it all together? You guessed it, well laid foundation. Just like that, Grammar is the foundation upon which the English Language stands. We need to learn Grammar, but NOT in a way it was taught in school. That clearly did not work.
- Better Vocabulary:
Weak vocabulary also impacts one's speaking ability. We need to understand this, it's through our word bank we speak. The more words you know the better your speaking ability will be.
- Clear Pronunciation:
Fear of speaking wrong or mispronouncing words also hinders people not to speak. It impacts the meaning of what is being said and what is being understood.

29/01/2022

HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE YOUR SPEAKING ABILITY:

There are many steps one can take. Let me show you how...

- Build a better foundation:
Look at any tall rise building around you. Do you know what holds it all together? You guessed it, well laid foundation. Just like that building, our grammar knowledge is what our English Language stands on. We need to learn Grammar, but NOT in a way it was taught in school. That clearly did not work.

- Better Vocabulary:
Weak vocabulary also impacts one's speaking ability. We need to understand this, it's through our word bank we speak. The more words you know the better your speaking ability will be.

- Clear Pronunciation:
Fear of speaking wrong or mispronouncing words also causes people not to speak. It also impacts the meaning of what is being said and what is being understood.

- Coaching:
This is the one of the biggest reasons why people are hesitant to speak. One needs coaching and help to understand Grammar, how to build and improve vocabulary and how to pronounce words correctly. Only then can FLUENCY in ENGLISH can be achieved.

I am conducting a FREE workshop to tell you more on this.

Register now!! It’s FREE!

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Remember, LEADERS are LEARNERS

Cheers
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19/01/2022

You invest where you have an interest and your interest is often where you invest. Successful people invest in themselves. Get in the habit of investing in yourself. Get Interested, Get Invested!