04/09/2023
Venita narrating to Kim and Alex what happened between herself and Adekunle, other issues as she feels like she is alone and can't even trust her friends.
Adekunle is aware of her fear of rejection and abandonment yet he parked his stuff and returned his bracelet.
Venita - its really not fair, he could've took 5 minutes or something, i came out and he has packed everything out of everywhere. I've already told him i have major abandonment and rejection issues. If there's an issue between us no matter what, don't do things like that.
Venita - this is like the 3rd time, i think his way of dealing with conflict is detachment thing and thats like extreme PTSD for me. I already said it once or twice that the next time he does it, I'm not gonna say anything.
I think maybe you wanna have your own space and I'm going to let you have it.
Venita - I'm like what happened to the people i came in here with, what happened to my people, they lied to my face and this has happened to me before.
Venita - Seyi has been talking s**t about me to adekunle.
Kimoprah - about what???
Venita - just weird stuff, like i think I'm his wife and I'm doing too much, like he's my person and I know what he's bone of contention is with the last time we came here, I'm doing everything to protect you in my way and stop some kinda things for you.... why would you think I'm trying to control you?