Confessions of a Christian Single Woman

20/12/2023

But I Obeyed God!

When I first started my podcast I didn't think I really had anything to say or that people would actually listen to it...3 years later here I am by the grace of God.

Looking at these stats remind me that even though I didn't understand why He had me start this, I obeyed Him anyway and I give Him all the glory!

06/12/2023

Yesterday was Talk Relationships Tuesday where we hear what God has to say about dating and relationships. We are continuing our discussion on Walking Red Flags. In this lesson, I talked about what "Lovers of Themselves" mean from 2 Timothy 3:1-2 and gave 5 characteristics of someone who operates from this spirit:

1. Deceitfulness of Heart
2. Self-Exhaltation
3. Puffed Up
4. Self-centeredness

In this clip, you hear point one. To hear the rest of this lesson join Confessions of a Christian Single Woman Community today!

01/12/2023

Oftentimes as women we feel unsettled in our spirit and don't know how to get unstuck. Last night I released a word to the Confessions of a Christian Single Woman Community called Peace In Spirit. In this exhortation the Lord reveals three ways in which we can experience the amazing peace of God in this season. Join the community today to hear the rest of the message.

You can also listen to the Confessions of a Christian Single Woman Podcast on all streaming platforms.

23/11/2023

21/11/2023

In a world that often measures worth by relationship status, I'm here to remind you: Your value is inherent and limitless, independent of societal expectations. Join a Christian community, where we embrace the truth that you are more than a label. 💖✨

Your single season doesn't define you—it's a unique chapter in the incredible story of your life. In this space, we celebrate the beauty of individual journeys, nurturing self-discovery, empowerment, and unshakable confidence.

Let's redefine worth, one empowering conversation at a time. You are cherished, valued, and worthy just as you are. 💕🌸

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20/11/2023

Talk Relationships Tuesday is back!!!

🚩 Brace yourselves! We've all heard someone say, "He's a walking red flag!" But have you ever wondered what that truly means? Join me for an eye-opening journey in our new series entitled "Walking Red Flags: Biblical Warning Signs when Dating."

🚨 In this series, we'll unravel the mystery behind the infamous "walking red flag" phrase. What are the warning signs the Bible highlights for single women in the world of dating?

💬 Ever found yourself questioning if you're missing crucial signs in your dating life? Or wondering after the relationship was over, how you missed every flag presented to you? We're going to explore topics such as mismatched values, unhealthy communication, secretive behavior, respect, and much more!

🔍 Don't miss out on this enlightening journey! Tag a friend who needs a fresh perspective on dating, and let's build a community of women committed to making wise and faith-centered choices in their relationships.

📆 Mark your calendars and get ready for insightful discussions, biblical wisdom, and empowering conversations that will equip you for the dating adventure ahead. The series starts on November 28th in the private community here: Confessions of a Christian Single Woman Community

15/11/2023

During my quiet times of reflection, I find myself in awe of the journey I've been on. Every move I've made, every curve I've encountered, has taught me something important and shaped who I am now. Thinking back on this journey makes me feel appreciative and in awe.

I saw every obstacle as a chance to develop, and every failure as a chance to get back up and try again. The low points were times of deep learning, and the high points were times of celebration. Every interaction, every relationship, every tear shed all woven together to form a complex tapestry of my life.

I acknowledge in this reflection the resilience that resulted from hardships, the strength that saw me through, and the knowledge I acquired from mistakes. It's a testament as much as a voyage of survival.

I invite you to take a moment today to reflect on your own journey. Celebrate your victories, no matter how small, and honor the challenges that made you stronger. Embrace the person you've become and acknowledge the limitless potential within you.

Our journeys are unique, but the emotions we experience, the lessons we learn, and the growth we undergo are universal. May our reflections be filled with gratitude, compassion for ourselves, and a deep understanding of our incredible resilience.

Here's to embracing every step, every stumble, and every triumph. They have all led us to this moment, making us beautifully, authentically us.

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14/11/2023

Sisters,

I'm excited to present a sentimental blog article that touches on the core of our journey together—finding meaning and passion in being single. 🌸✨

This post serves as a gentle reminder in a society that values friendship a lot that our single season is not a waiting room but rather a colorful canvas on which we can paint our dreams, find our interests, and live fearlessly in pursuit of our goals.

You'll be motivated to embrace your individual journey, develop your skills, and pursue your passions with unflinching commitment by these inspiring remarks. Being single turns into a moment of self-discovery, during which we learn to dance to the beat of our own hearts and discover delight in each stride.

🔗 https://www.reviveourhearts.com/blog/singleness-own-it/

I hope these words strike a chord with you, reminding you that life is a grand tale, and every chapter—this one included—has great significance and worth. As we set out on this empowering journey together, let's embrace the beauty of being single.

After reading, please feel free to share your ideas, dreams, and experiences. Let's have a lively discussion about discovering passion, purpose, and unwavering happiness in every stage of life.

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God’s promise for an abundant life is not attached to our marital status.

14/11/2023

There is a deep truth that lies in the quiet corners of our hearts, where loneliness and uncertainty lurk: God's love is sufficient to fill every hole in us. His love knows no bounds; it is an unending source of consolation and an everlasting reminder of how much we are loved.

No pain is too great or emptiness too great for His love to heal. It's an unbounded love that reaches into the core of our being, mends broken hearts, and comforts weary hearts. His affection is our constant companion in happy times and sad times, as well as in times of solitude.

No pain is too great or emptiness too great for His love to heal. It's an unbounded love that reaches into the core of our being, mends broken hearts, and comforts weary hearts. His affection is our constant companion in happy times and sad times, as well as in times of solitude.

Today, let's bask in the warmth of His love. Let it fill every void, heal every hurt, and ignite a radiant light within us. For in God's love, we find completeness, purpose, and an unshakeable peace that surpasses all understanding.

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13/11/2023

Hey sisters! I'm curious to know about the incredible ways you face life's challenges. Each of us has a unique approach, and your wisdom might just inspire someone else. So, let's dive in! How do you deal with challenges? 🌱💪

Feel free to comment below with your chosen letter, or share your unique approach! Let's learn from each other and inspire the world with our collective resilience. Together, we're unstoppable! 💪✨

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13/11/2023

🌟 Join the Journey: Embracing Singleness, Building Confidence, Following God's Path 🌟

Wonderful news! 🎉 I cordially welcome you to participate in a live session with me where we will go deeply into the life-changing process of embracing singledom, developing unwavering confidence, and walking the heavenly path that the Lord has designed.

We'll dispel falsehoods and embrace the amazing opportunity presented by this one-night event as we examine its beauty. We'll have a sincere discussion on developing confidence from the inside out and realizing that our value is inherent and unaffected by the opinions of others.

Above all, we'll discuss how to trust God completely and follow His plan. It's about walking boldly in His mission and accepting the special design He put inside each of us.

📅 Date: 11/13/2023
🕒 Time: 8:00pm
📍 Where: Confessions of a Christian Single Woman Public FB page

So mark your calendars, invite your friends, and let’s come together. I can’t wait to share this transformative moment with you all!

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12/11/2023

Ladies, it's important to keep in mind this important reality: your value is inherent, not conditional, in a world where relationship status can occasionally be used to determine one's worth. Your value is unquantifiable and constant, regardless of whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between.

Your character is defined by your generosity, love, and inner strength, not by the condition of your relationships. Your value is in the bravery and grace with which you greet each day, not in the arms of another person. All by yourself, you are a gorgeous, multifaceted, whole woman.

Being single means living life to the fullest, welcoming experiences, pursuing passions, and developing into the greatest version of oneself—it does not imply waiting. Your dreams, ambitions, and achievements are valid and significant, independent of your relationship status. Your worth is a radiant light within you, illuminating the lives of others and leaving a mark on the world that is uniquely yours.

So, stand tall, sisters! Embrace your independence, celebrate yourself, and cherish the beautiful person you've become. Your worth is not tied to anyone else's perception but rooted in the love and respect you hold for yourself.

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11/11/2023

Sisters,

You a work of art, meticulously crafted by God. You are not a collection of characteristics that just happen to fit together; rather, you are a divinely crafted individual with specific qualities.

God purposefully shaped you, given you talents, interests, and a mission that only you can achieve. Your dreams, your abilities, your eccentricities—all of them are a part of the amazing plan He has for you. You are evidence of His ingenuity and unending love.

Accept the fact that you are not an error. God chose to create you on purpose; it is not a coincidence that you exist. You are called to something greater than yourself, so be great!

Let's walk this path together, encouraging and uplifting one another as we fulfill the purpose for which we were uniquely created. You are loved, cherished, and destined for extraordinary things.

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10/11/2023

🌟 A Beautiful Love Story Rooted in Faith: Celebrating a Match Made in Heaven 🌟

Sisters, today, I'd like to share a heartwarming success story that resonates deeply with the power of faith-based connections. The author meets her husband on a popular online platform and their love story blossomed in the gardens of faith-based dating. Their journey is a testament to God's divine timing and the miracles that unfold when hearts align with His purpose.

They are a radiant testament to the blessings of faith-based connections. Through their journey, they remind us that God is the best matchmaker, weaving love stories with threads of faith, respect, and unconditional love.

Read and be inspired to explore different options to finding love 🌹💑✨

https://www.gracefulabandon.com/honest-christian-review-eharmony/

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Read the true story of how this pastor's wife met her godly husband on eHarmony.

10/11/2023

🌟 Celebrating Purposeful Living: A Journey of Joy and Fulfillment 🌟
Purposeful living stands as the vibrant thread that adds depth, color, and meaning to our days. Today, let's celebrate the art of living with intention, where every moment becomes a canvas, and every action is a stroke of purpose.

Purposeful living is not just a philosophy; it's a daily practice of aligning our actions with our deepest passions and beliefs. It’s the art of nurturing our unique gifts, uplifting others, and leaving a positive footprint on the world.

Let's nurture this essence within us and within each other. Celebrate the dreams blooming within your heart and the aspirations guiding your steps. Embrace the passions that ignite your soul, and partner with God as He provides the compass pointing you toward your divine purpose.

Together, let's foster a culture of encouragement and support, where every endeavor, no matter how big or small, is celebrated. Each step taken toward personal growth, each act of kindness, and every instance of resilience deserves recognition and applause. Let’s be each other’s cheerleaders, rejoicing in the victories, and offering solace in the challenges.

Purposeful living allows our lives to intertwine, creating a mosaic of inspiration, love, and endless possibilities. Let's continue this journey, hand in hand, nurturing the purpose within us and celebrating the purpose within others.

Here’s to purposeful living, a celebration of the extraordinary within the ordinary! Do not allow others to dim your light. Shine brightly, sisters. Your purpose is a gift to the world!
With love and boundless encouragement, 🌷✨

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09/11/2023

🌟 You Are Not Alone on Your Journey: Embracing Community and Faith 🌟

In this life, it's easy to feel like a solitary traveler on our individual paths. But here’s a beautiful truth that transcends the depths of our hearts: you are never alone. In the embrace of community and faith, we find companionship that illuminates even the darkest of paths.

Whether you're navigating the joys of triumph or weathering the storms of challenges, remember that there are hands ready to hold yours, hearts eager to understand, and prayers being whispered just for you. The beauty of community lies in its ability to transform our solitary journeys into shared adventures, where burdens are lighter, joys are amplified, and sorrows are softened.

In our faith, we find a constant companion in our holy God. God walks with us, guiding our steps and showering us with boundless love. His presence is the steady light that pierces the darkness, reminding us that we are cherished, valued, and irrevocably connected to something greater than ourselves.

So, sisters, reach out. Share your stories, lend a listening ear, and offer your prayers. In our shared faith, we find strength in vulnerability, courage in community, and endless hope in our shared journey toward grace and love.

Embrace the hands reaching out to you, for they are your companions on this magnificent voyage called life. You are not alone. Together, we walk in the light of faith, illuminating the world with our shared presence. Join us in the private community today.

With love and boundless blessings, 🌼✨

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08/11/2023

In this enriching read, discover the wisdom of intentional relationships, guided by faith and grounded in God’s love. Learn how to navigate the world of dating with grace, honoring your worth and seeking a love that aligns with your spiritual journey.

🔗 https://www.singlematters.com/dating-with-purpose/

May this article inspire you, empower you, and fill your heart with hope. Share your thoughts, reflections, and experiences after reading – let’s create a vibrant community of faith, love, and purpose.
Blessings of purposeful love and God-centered connections to you all! 🌷💑

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Hangouts, get togethers & meet up's are common ways to date without being intentional. What ever happened to dating with purpose?

08/11/2023

🌸 Embracing Spiritual Growth🌸

Our spiritual growth is the radiant thread that weaves us closer to God's divine purpose. As Christian single women, our journey of faith isn't just a chapter; it's the very essence of our existence. Here’s why nurturing our spiritual growth matters profoundly:

🌼 Finding Purpose: Through spiritual growth, we uncover the unique purpose God has woven into the fabric of our souls. It’s in this journey that we discover our calling, our passions, and the incredible ways God intends us to make a difference in the world.

🌸 Inner Strength: In moments of solitude and prayer, we find inner strength that surpasses any worldly power. This spiritual fortitude becomes our anchor, helping us navigate the storms of life with grace, resilience, and unwavering faith.

🌼 Radiating Love: As we grow spiritually, the love of Christ transforms us from within. This love becomes a beacon, illuminating our interactions with kindness, empathy, and compassion. It’s through our actions that we reflect God’s love to the world.

🌸 Embracing Contentment: Spiritual growth teaches us the art of contentment. We learn to find peace in God’s plan, trusting His timing and knowing that every season of singleness is a gift, rich with opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

Sisters, in every prayer whispered, every Scripture embraced, and every moment of stillness, we are sculpting a masterpiece under the loving hands of our Creator. Our spiritual growth isn’t just a personal endeavor; it’s a testament to the boundless grace of God, shaping us into vessels of His love.

Let’s continue this journey with open hearts and minds, ready to receive the lessons God has prepared for us. May our spiritual growth be a beacon of hope, inspiring others to embrace the transformative power of faith.

With love and blessings, 🌷🌟

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07/11/2023

🌟 Building a Strong Foundation for a Christ-Centered Relationship: Cultivate Spiritual Intimacy 🌟

Sisters, one of the most profound ways to fortify a Christ-centered relationship is by cultivating spiritual intimacy. Allow your connection with God to be the cornerstone upon which your love is built. Here's a tip to help you nurture this spiritual bond:

Tip: Prioritize Shared Spiritual Practices

Make shared spiritual practices a vital part of your relationship. Pray together, read the Scriptures as a couple, attend church services, and engage in discussions about your faith journeys. Sharing these sacred moments not only deepens your understanding of each other's beliefs but also strengthens your relationship with God.

When God is at the center of your relationship, His love and wisdom guide your actions, decisions, and interactions. As you both grow spiritually, you'll find a profound unity that anchors your love during both calm and stormy days. A couple that prays together hopefully stays together, rooted in the love and the grace of our Heavenly Father.

Blessings on your journey toward a love that mirrors the Lord that Christ gives us. 🙏💑

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07/11/2023

🌟 Embracing the Journey: Putting Waiting on a Husband in the Back Seat 🌟

Sisters, there's a beautiful truth that deserves our attention: our worth is not defined by our relationship status. Today, let’s collectively decide to put the notion of waiting on a husband in the back seat, and instead, focus on the extraordinary journey of self-discovery and purpose.

Sisters, your value isn’t determined by your marital status. Your dreams, aspirations, and the incredible person you are matter far beyond the presence of a significant other. Life’s adventures are vast and inviting, regardless of whether you walk them alone or hand-in-hand with someone special.

Let’s turn our focus inward, nurturing the incredible beings God created us to be. Let’s embrace our passions, chase our dreams, and deepen our relationship with our Creator. The world is brimming with opportunities to serve, learn, and grow. As we embark on this journey, let’s do so with our heads held high and our hearts open wide. There will be times where we talk about dating and relationships; however, that will not be our sole focus.

Remember, your story is being written with every step you take. It's a story of strength, resilience, and unyielding faith. Let’s celebrate each other’s achievements, support one another’s dreams, and revel in the joy of this moment. Life is a beautiful gift, and every day is a chance to write a new chapter filled with purpose, love, and endless possibilities.

So, dear sisters, let’s embark on this journey with excitement, embracing the unknown with faith, and allowing God’s plan to unfold before us. Together, let’s live our lives to the fullest, knowing that our completeness is found in Him.

With love and endless blessings, 🌼💖

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06/11/2023

🌟 Navigating Healthy Communication in Relationships 🌟

Communication forms the threads that bind hearts and souls. As followers of Christ, our words and deeds hold immense power. Let’s embrace the art of healthy communication, guided by love, respect, and understanding.

🔹 Speak with Grace: Let your words be wrapped in grace, seasoned with kindness. Speak truth but do so in love (Ephesians 4:15). By fostering an atmosphere of gentleness, you create a safe space for open dialogue.

🔹 Active Listening: True communication involves active listening. Take the time to understand, not just respond. Listening earnestly reflects the love and respect Christ showed, making your relationships more profound and meaningful.

🔹 Seek Understanding: Before reacting, seek understanding. Dive into the depths of each other’s thoughts and feelings. Proverbs 18:13 reminds us that listening before answering is both wise and honorable.

🔹 Patience and Empathy: Exercise patience and empathy, virtues that mirror Christ’s love. Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry (James 1:19). Empathize with the emotions of your partner, fostering a deeper connection.

🔹 Resolve Conflict Biblically: Disagreements are inevitable, but how we handle them defines our relationships. Matthew 18:15 encourages addressing issues privately and lovingly. Seek resolution, not to prove a point, but to understand and reconcile.

🔹 Pray Together: Invite God into your conversations. Praying together strengthens the spiritual bond between partners and friends, offering divine wisdom and guidance in moments of communication challenges.

🔹 Set Boundaries: Healthy communication respects boundaries. Be mindful of each other’s limits and preferences. By valuing these boundaries, you demonstrate love and honor for one another.

Remember, in every word spoken and every silence shared, let the love of Christ shine through. As Christian singles, our relationships are a testament to God’s love. Let’s communicate in ways that honor Him, uplift one another, and create foundations built on faith, love, and understanding.

Blessings of grace-filled communication to you all! 🌼✨

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06/11/2023

In the gentle embrace of a supportive sisterhood, loneliness fades like morning mist in the warmth of the sun. 💕 Together, we are more than a community; we are a family bonded by faith, love, and shared dreams. Here, in this space, we find solace and strength.

In the laughter that echoes through our conversations and the understanding that flows like a river, we discover that we are never truly alone. Each word of encouragement from the Lord, every shared experience, and the depth of our prayers weave a tapestry of belonging that wraps around us, dispelling the shadows of loneliness.

Remember, ladies, you are cherished here. Your joys are celebrated, your tears are embraced, and your dreams are supported. Together, we stand resilient, reminding each other of our worth and purpose. In this sisterhood, loneliness dissipates, leaving behind a profound sense of belonging and love. 💖

Let’s continue to uplift one another, for in our togetherness, we find the courage to face any challenge and the joy to celebrate every victory. Together, we are a beacon of light, illuminating the path for others to find the same comforting sisterhood we have found in Christ. 🌟✨

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05/11/2023

🙏 A Prayer for Strength and Guidance in Relationships 🙏

Heavenly Father,

Today, we come before you with humble hearts, seeking your strength and guidance in our relationships. We acknowledge that every bond we form is an opportunity for growth, love, and connection.

Lord, grant us the strength to nurture the relationships that matter most, and let us not fall prey to relationships that are not a part of your plan for our lives. Help us to be patient, understanding, and forgiving, for we know that no relationship is without its challenges. With Your grace, we can weather any storm and emerge stronger on the other side.

We pray for Your guidance, in the name of Jesus. In the midst of joy and in moments of uncertainty, lead us in the path of love, respect, and compassion. May our relationships be a reflection of your unwavering love for us.

Help us to be good listeners, offering our presence, support, and kindness to those we hold close to our hearts. May we always seek to understand before seeking to be understood.

We entrust our relationships to your care, God, knowing that your divine wisdom far surpasses our own. We pray for your blessing on every connection we hold in our hearts, whether they be friendships, family bonds, or romantic love.

As we journey through life, we ask that our relationships be a source of strength, joy, and growth. May they bring us closer to You, the source of all love.

In Your holy and matchless name, we pray. In Jesus' Name, Amen. 🌟🙏

05/11/2023

🌟 Empowered by Self-Confidence, Self-Belief, and Faith in God! 🌟

Hello, incredible women of God! Today, let's bask in the radiant glow of self-confidence, self-belief, and unwavering faith in God. These pillars, when embraced, transform us into unstoppable forces, capable of achieving the extraordinary. 💖✨

🌺 Self-Confidence: Confidence is not about perfection; it's about embracing your flaws, owning your strengths, and stepping into the world with courage. Believe in your abilities, for you are capable of achieving remarkable feats. Your uniqueness is your superpower! Don't downplay it. 💪

🌸 Self-Belief: The most beautiful journey begins with believing in yourself. Believe in your dreams, your talents, and the potential within you. When you have faith in your abilities, you can move mountains and turn dreams into reality. 🚀

🙏 Faith in God: Our faith in God is the anchor that grounds us, the light that guides us, and the strength that empowers us. With God by our side, there is no challenge too daunting, no dream too big, and no hurdle too high. His love and grace make all things possible. 🌈

Embrace these qualities with open arms, sisters! When self-confidence meets self-belief and intertwines with faith in God, miracles happen. You become a masterpiece in motion, capable of achieving greatness and inspiring others to do the same. 💫

So, straighten your crown and walk with your head held high, believing in your worth, your dreams, and the unyielding love of our Creator. You are enough, you are capable, and you are deeply cherished. Let's journey forward with confidence, belief, and faith, for the world awaits the brilliance only you can bring! 🌟✨

04/11/2023

🌟 The Beauty of Patience: Receiving God's Glorious Promises! 🌟

Hello, wonderful sisters! Today, let's celebrate the profound virtue of patience, for in its embrace, we unlock the door to God's abundant promises. 💖✨

🕰️ Embracing Divine Timing: Patience isn't merely the ability to wait; it's the art of trusting God's impeccable timing. In the gentle rhythm of waiting, miracles unfold, dreams materialize, and promises come to fruition. 🌈

🌱 Rooted in Faith: Patience is the evidence of our unwavering faith. It's a testament to our trust in God's plan, even when the path seems long and winding. Every moment of patience is a seed planted, destined to blossom into a magnificent garden of blessings. God has not forgotten you! 🌸

🌺 The Sweetness of Fulfillment: When we patiently endure, God rewards us with blessings beyond our imagination. His promises, like blooming flowers, adorn our lives, filling our hearts with joy, gratitude, and a deep sense of fulfillment. 🌷

Sisters, your patience is not in vain. It's a testament to your strength, your faith, and your unyielding hope in God's love. The promises He has spoken over your life are like seeds planted in the soil of your patience, ready to bloom into a breathtaking garden of blessings. 💫

So, keep your faith unwavering, your hope steadfast, and your patience enduring. Your moment of fulfillment is near, and when it arrives, it will be more glorious than you ever dared to dream. 🌟✨