06/12/2021
We spend a lot of time in front of the mirror just to make sure we appear good. That is something I understand. We want to make an impression. We want to be proud of ourselves and to be admired by others. We believe that dressing s*xily will help us stand out. Our desire for attention is satiated when we stand out in a crowd. We are praised for our efforts. We think of s*x as a quick way to feel important, yet true mattering is much more than sensual encounters. Being valued for virtuous, compassionate, and ethical behavior, as well as being loved by your partner despite a scarcely visible gluteus maximus, is part of what it means to matter.
My goal here is to cultivate a broader range of attractive qualities that go beyond physical attractiveness.
So, ladies (and gentlemen) pay attention:
💃🧠 Intelligence
- While a woman does not have to be a genius to attract a man, she should be intelligent enough to be attractive. Men are typically more interested in a woman with whom they can engage in intense and interesting conversations. The man is more attracted to the woman if the conversation is interesting and intellectually stimulating.
💃😆 A Sense of Humor
- Most men will agree that a woman's sense of humor is essential for her to be attractive. Humor and intelligence, according to the University of Kansas, are inextricably linked. As a result, we tend to seek out people who are amusing and witty as potential mates. Furthermore, they write that being able to laugh with your partner is very attractive because it indicates that your relationship will be fun and exciting.
💃👩 A Mature Appearance
- According to a 2015 study, men become more attracted to women who have a more mature appearance as they age. Men and women's hormones change as they age, and their secondary s*x characteristics become less prominent. Because reproduction becomes less evolutionary important with age, these secondary s*x characteristics conveying a younger appearance are less desirable. As a result, as men get older, they prefer women who appear more mature.
💃🤸♀️ Adventurous
- According to studies, attractiveness is frequently associated with being adventurous, among other characteristics. This demonstrates that men are often attracted to adventurous women who are willing to take some minor risks. A woman who is willing to try new things and take some reasonable risks may appear more adventurous and exciting to men who seek this trait in their partners.
💃👼 Friendliness and Kindness
- Personality traits such as kindness and friendliness, according to the same study, are frequently associated with physical attractiveness. This study also mentions that these "personality traits" clusters could represent a "halo effect," which is a hypothesis that states that the presence of pleasant personality traits often makes someone appear more attractive. As a result, men who seek to date friendly, trustworthy, and kind women will find these women more physically attractive.
💃🙋♀️ Being at Ease with Expressing Yourself
- If you lack self-confidence, this does not automatically make you unattractive. Being comfortable expressing your needs and desires in a relationship, on the other hand, will show your partner how attractive you are for being you, whether mundane or more imaginative; working on sharing your desires can show your partner how exciting you are and draw them closer to you.
💃🎎 Emotional Accountability
- Women who accept responsibility for their own emotions and reactions to those emotions exhibit an emotional maturity that is often very appealing. Emotional responsibility and maturity are essential characteristics in any relationship. It demonstrates that you are willing to put in the effort to have difficult conversations, make compromises, and take the time to explain and understand your partner's emotions.
💃👸 Decisiveness
- People are generally drawn to these types of people because they are enjoyable to be around and boost energy levels. Decisiveness is a desirable trait that can turn a person into a magnet for others. Being decisive indicates that you have specific goals and objectives. Decisiveness is an aspect of developing trust because it demonstrates that you know how to express what you want and need.
💃💄 Confidence
- Confidence emits an enticing atmosphere that attracts others. Because they are secure in themselves and are not easily knocked off track, confident people tend to think positively. They respond appropriately to everything life throws at them.
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