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21/03/2021

Poverty has made many Women believe that if a Man Doesn't give them Money, then he doesn't love Them.

04/02/2021

'Wife buy land,husband build the house. Now dey don divorce ..
Who owns the house..
The Husband or The wife??"

03/02/2021

A Guy who has no job got married to a banker, despite his fears and several advices that it's not good to marry without a job. Every month the girl would give the guy her full salary of #80,000 after removing her tithe. The Guy would give the wife #20.000 for personal upkeep and the guy determined what happened to the remaining money. This happened for three good years. There was happiness in the family and the wife never refused to do her primary home duties for that three years, despite wrong advice from friends that "you can't be paying the bills and still be doing the house chores'". There was a particular month the guy used about #50.000 to travel from region to region for different interviews. He finally got a job with a good firm. His salary was #380,000 monthly for a start. He bought his first car for 2.2million naira he gave his wife the car key, and continued to take public transport to work for about three years. Then he bought the 2nd car for 4 million took the keys of the first car and gave his wife the keys of the second new car. They eventually moved into their own house after few years. One day, the wife was looking for some documents. She stumbled on a file neatly hidden, when she opened it, she saw her wedding picture when she was very slim in the first page of the file. She then saw that the document the purchase of the land and every other thing in the house were all written in her name! At the last page was the husband's wedding picture and a note written by him: *''MY WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT. NOT EVEN THIS HOUSE WORTH 100 million AS AT THE TIME IT WAS BUILT IS MINE’’.* Tears started to roll down her eyes.... Yesterday was their wedding anniversary, blessed with three kids. Two boys and a girl. *Now, to YOU reading this:* *No matter what happens in your Marriage remember you chose each other. It doesn't matter who puts food on the table or who pays the bills. God can use any of you as channel of blessing for your home. Always know, that NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT. God will surely Embarrass you with FIRST CLASS blessings this 2021, and you will never regret your marriage.* And for the singles u will never make wrong choice in choosing or accepting ur life partner.

03/02/2021

A woman who accepts you with your empty pocket,deserves the best when your pocket is filled,ladies am i right?

02/02/2021

Protect your husband the way you do for your son.Love him as much as you love yourself. Respect him as much as you respect your father. Husband's deserve something much better. They deserve happiness...... God bless all beloved husbands.

02/02/2021

TO ALL MEN, PLEASE READ

Dear Men, We don't realize how blessed we are to have a woman in our lives. A friend just lost his wife today, she died while giving birth to their first child so I decided to pay this tribute to every woman
Dear wife,
Thank you for being a blessing to me
Women go through a lot just to build a place called home and sometimes we take it for granted without knowing it.
They sacrifice their comfort for 9 months to give us children. They sacrifice their beauty, shape, health to raise a family and sometimes they pay the ultimate price with their lives.
But how can I raise our child alone when I was not there when you were pregnant
I was not there when you needed to cuddled at night as your stomach gets bigger
I was not there to assure you that you will be forever be the most beautiful Queen ever as you stood in front of the mirror, looking at the stretch marks on your belly
I should have helped you shaved
I should have helped you put your slippers on when your stomach got to big
You stopped eating very well but still prepared my meal, I should have been the one to cook.
I watched your belly grow bigger every month until it was time
You did the best you could and when you saw it wasn't enough, you laid down your life.
Who is going to take care of our son?
With tears in my eyes I say I LOVE YOU.
I pray for all pregnant women reading this, you will not labour in vain. May you deliver your children like the women of Hebrew. Please type amen share this everywhere
I pray for all women trying to conceive, May God bless your womb with healthy children.
To all men out there, this Is a wake up call, we need to treat our women like Queens because they are QUEENS. We need to be there for them. If only you can feel the pains of carrying another life inside you for 9 months. They sacrificed their lives to bring forth another life, please be grateful.
To all women that lost their lives in the delivery room, may your soul rest in peace. We love you.

02/02/2021

Husbands;
Keep dating your wife.Keep courting her.keep pursuing her as you did before.keep making her feel treasured and special.keep choosing her above friends and family.keep cherishing her, respecting her above others.keep admiring her and keep telling her "you are altogether beautiful".Tell her, my darling there is no flaw in you. Always remember, you chose her out of all the billions of women in the world.focusing on her as you did before you married her .keep forsaking all others and keep reserving yourself only for her.when you adhers by the above-mentioned, you will have a peaceful, joyous, blessed and a happy home.

02/02/2021

When you really like someone, you obviously want them to be a part of your future. In fact, it doesn’t really make sense to date someone if you don’t care about having them around for a while.
However, new relationships are all You shouldn’t go out with her girlfriends.about figuring out how you and your lover work together, and whether you could actually see each other far into the future.
As much as you might like your lover don’t immediately start planning an entire future together. Not only will it get in the way of experiencing your relationship in the present, it can also put a ton of pressure on your lover which can easily freak them out. Give yourself time to grow as a couple and figure things out together rather than immediately plotting out the course of your entire lives. you can work through them together instead of forcing your lover to conform to a whole lifetime of plans you’ve made on your own.

02/02/2021

I have realized many relationships collapsed because of unnecessary selfishness and lack of understanding, when come to relationship one has understand their partner love language if they want relationship to work.

Understand his love language. You can’t go on being disappointed with your man just because you don’t understand his love language.

The way you express your love might not be the same as his.
For example ☑️ He might show his love by calling you every time he’s free while you prefer chatting.
He might consider spending time with you at home, watching a movie, while you prefer the great outdoors.
This difference might make you feel disappointed in him, and he might feel that you are unappreciative.

To avoid being in conflict with him, understand his love language. Bro Understand her love language. Understanding one's love language will make relationship work if you can cope with their ways of loving.

Make an effort to understand what he or she likes. Find out what he or she likes and spend time with him or her once in a while doing that thing. Creating memories and special moments together is super important. Sharing new experiences means the world.
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02/02/2021

INGRATITUDE
One day, a very wealthy man was walking on the road. Along the way, he saw a beggar on the sidewalk. The rich man looks kindly on the beggar & asked, “How did you become a beggar?”

The beggar said, “Sir, I’ve been applying for a job for a year now but haven’t found any. You look like a rich man. Sir, if you’ll give me a job, I’ll stop begging

The rich man smiled & said, “I want to help you. But I won’t give you a job. I’ll do something better. I want you to be my business partner. Let’s start a business together.”

The beggar blinked hard. He didn’t understand what the older man was saying. “What do you mean, Sir?” “I own a rice plantation. You could sell my rice in the market. I’ll provide you the sacks of rice. I’ll pay the rent for the market stall. I’ll even give you food allowance everyday for the next 30 days. All you have to do is sell my rice. And at the end of the month, as Business Partners, we’ll share in the profits.”

Tears of joy rolled down his cheeks. “Oh Sir,” he said, “you’re a gift from Heaven. You’re the answer to my prayers. Thank you , thank you , thank you !” He then paused & said, “Sir, how will we divide the profits? Do I keep 10% & you get the 90%? Do I keep 5% & you get the 95%? I’ll be happy with any arrangement.”

The rich man shook his head & chuckled. “No, I want you to give me the 10% & you keep the 90%.”. For a moment, the beggar couldn’t speak. When he tried to speak, it was gibberish. “Uh, gee, uh, wow, I mean, huh?” He couldn’t believe his ears. The deal was too preposterous.

The rich man laughed more loudly. He explained, “I don’t need the money, my friend. I’m already wealthy beyond what you can ever imagine. I want you to give me 10% of your profits so you grow in faithfulness & gratitude.”. The beggar knelt down before his benefactor & said, “Yes Sir, I will do as you say. Even now, I’m so grateful for what you’ve done for me!”
Each day, the beggar,now dressed a little bit better, operated a store selling rice in the market. He worked very hard. He woke up early in the morning & slept late at night. And sales were brisk, also because the rice was of good quality & after 30 days, the profits were astounding.

At the end of the month, as the ex-beggar was counting the money, & liking very much the feeling of money in his hands, an idea grew in his mind. He told himself, “Gee, why should I give 10% to my Business Partner? I didn't see him the whole month! I was the one who was working day & night for this business. I did all this work! I deserve the 100% profits!”

A few minutes later, the rich man was knocking on the door to collect his 10% of the profits. The ex-beggar opened the door & said, “ you don’t deserve the 10%. I worked hard for this. I deserve all of it!” And he slammed the door.

If you were his Business Partner, how would you feel???

But this is exactly what happens to us. God gave us everything. He gave us life, every single moment, every single breath, every single second. God gave us talents, our ability to talk, to create, to earn money. God gave us our body, our eyes, our ears, our mouth, our hands, our feet, our heart , HE gave us our mind, our imagination, our emotions, our reasoning, our language. God gave us opportunities, some taken some lost. God put us in positions, he gave us all we have to make the wealth. YET we take all of it for granted walking on the earth with pride as if we are self made ? We forget His immeasurable bounties & become ungrateful using the very same blessings He gave us to sin & throw back at Him.

The big question is, which of the favours of our Lord would we deny? When will we turn back to Him with gratitude & obedience? God has granted us all the opportunities to always remember Him and pay our tithes, offering, alms and first fruit. Sow a little kindness today. By sharing this message

02/02/2021

Someone comes into your life, they be so nice to you, they make you catch up feelings for them, they assure you that they’re different from all the ones you've ever had, you end up believing and giving them your heart.

You then start caring about them, loving them whole-heartedly, respecting them and trusting them, you keep the communication alive, you adjust in many things, you quit some habits and some people because of them, you plan your future with them, you do whatever it takes to make them happy and feel loved but still they don’t get contented.

They start accusing you falsely, they stop caring & even reduce on the love they had for you because of your small flaws, they send you mixed signals and eventually they end it with you & they leave you heartbroken. Then you wonder if they really meant it when they said that they loved you!

I think some people don’t know what they want, they don’t value what they have & they don’t mean what they say.

Not everyone wants a serious relationship leading to marriage. Some people just want to know what you are covering under those clothes of yours, they just want to use you for their own benefit, have fun with you, pass time, gain experience on you and to revenge on you. So be careful with the person you’re relating with.