06/28/2025
Father's Day...
Okunrin rere l'awa;
Okunrin rere l'awa;
Awa ntoju aya wa;
Awa ntoju omo wa;
Okunrin rere l'awa!
We are good men;
We are good men;
We're taking care of our wives;
We're taking care of children;
We're good men!
Really?
It can't be argued that most societies are patriarchal. And it's reflected in the social, political, economic and cultural structures where men are relatively in control.
Men have even gone a step further by creating the manosphere, which is a collection of websites, blogs, and online forums promoting masculinity, misogyny, and opposition to feminism.
While it's generally acceptable for men to sow their wild oats, the term is not gender-specific. So, if boys become men, how are fathers bringing up the boys who'll eventually become the men and fathers of tomorrow?
Historically, there have been more male leaders than female. And how are they faring? The answer is not in some textbook; it is obvious.
Looking at the state of our world today: it is largely the result of men's endeavours or misdemeanours that have led us to where we are.
Since men are already like stockfish, which can not be broken, it's high time we started concentrating on training the boys who will be men tomorrow.