This is what support in labour should look like.
Raw, real birth. I was transitioning here (hence the tears) and didn’t realise. I needed my partner more than ever.
His loving energy, gentle hands, supportive words meant EVERYTHING in this moment. I felt so much love here.
My partner gave me his full support for an unassisted pregnancy and freebirth. This was a man who was scared of even midwife attended homebirth 2 years ago.
After 2 weeks of stop/start contractions, and a final 22 hour long labour, he caught my daughter who was born wrapped in her cord, took over 30 seconds to breath, and had some meconium. She also was mucusy which I resolved through sucking of her nostrils and some position changes to help her clear it herself.
My partner said afterwards that at no point was he scared or worried. We both knew that everything was a variation of normal and not an immediate reason for concern.
Choose your birth partners carefully. Will they bring unnecessary fear to the birth? What energy will they provide to your birth space? Will they trust and listen to you? Are they putting in the effort to learn / unlearn about birth?
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