Fatal Dates

10/07/2023

"We used to worry that our lovers were being unfaithful. Now we worry if they—and we—can feel love at all…"

The show is on pause for now: busy writing FATAL DATING TIPS: A Practical Guide To Finding Real S*x & Love In An Unreal World, forthcoming from Sublation Press in early 2024. Read the introduction here:

These tips are fatal because they were picked up, in part, from French thinker Jean Baudrillard’s book FATAL STRATEGIES. Fatal strategies are what you use when normal strategies no longer work. It may feel a bit flip and dodgy to combine ‘fatal’ with ‘dating’. To be clear: nothing here is ...

13/04/2023

Just recorded a great with record store owner Tony Randon. Coming soon...

12/04/2023

Watch the unedited uncut with Boris Groys here:

Here is the entirety of the Fatal Dates interview with Boris Groys.

12/04/2023

It was beautiful to talk to Boris Groys:

Boris Efimovich Groys is an art critic, media theorist, and philosopher.A global distinguished professor of Russian and Slavic studies at New York University...

31/03/2023

"Almost everything said about marriage is actually a fiction. What is really important is that you meet & cultivate people with the same taste in art, & similar experience & interests. If you do that, you survive."

Dating tips from the amazing Boris Groys.

Coming soon to Sublation Media

29/03/2023

Reflecting with Lotte Latham after watching our very spilt & generous date how heternormative is. "To me: perversion & s*x work are two different things, which cross in a Venn diagram," Lotte says, in a frank, challenging, messy lo-res outing.

Lotte Latham's recent memoir "Dear Mr. Andrews" is "a millennial’s journey through the precarious landscape of sugar dating in the 21st century. Latham embod...

16/03/2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNmxi_o88ds&t=452s&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

Ashley Frawley and Susanna Kleeman go on a Fatal Date. They discuss consumerism, childhood traumas, Marxism, Baudrillard, and how it might be that, though th...

16/03/2023

"I was going to be somebody & I was gonna get the F out of where I was… I wanted the freedom and the security that the rich just enjoy…"

Thank you Ashley Frawley for a great, wise, raw & passionate date. Watch in full here: https://youtube.com/watch?v=cNmxi_o88ds&t=447s&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

14/03/2023

A fun Doug Lain montage from an upcoming date with Ashley Frawley, the Monroe of Sublation Media.

11/03/2023

Fascinating to discuss being a degraded capitalistic object in a degraded capitalistic world (via a degraded, unstable internet connection) with author & s*x worker Lotte Latham (her memoir, Dear Mr Andrews, is out now & is great).

Coming Soon!

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03/03/2023

Just had a great date with Ashley Frawley!

Privation • Wanting Everything • Freedom • Success • Masks • The Power Of Not Caring About Men • Real Love • Male Theorists • Or***ms Are Capitalistic • Choice Is Vulgar

Coming Soon!

28/02/2023

Getting ready for another ...

14/02/2023

"He tossed & turned on his bed, caught in the throes of existential anxiety, of fear & trembling. God had commanded him to do something unthinkable…"

You OK hun?

A Douglas Lain montage clip for his own appearance on . Out later today…

08/02/2023

Just wrapped a great with theory student and independent s*x worker Bella Donatelli, my first female guest. Thank you so much Bella! So much was dished: Objects & Subjects • What Men Want • The Empowerment Of Transactional Relationships • Advice To Younger Women • All P**n Is Revenge P**n • Self-Commodification Under Capitalism + much more. Coming soon...

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31/01/2023

A with p**n advocate Jerry Barnett is now live:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypxelscfbzg&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

P**n & the male psyche • Do men like s*x more than women? • Differences arising from evolutionary pressure • Obscenity • Monkey prostitution • Choosing p**n over s*x • Is p**n liberating? • For whom?
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Susanna Kleeman goes on a fatal date with Jerry Barnett, author of P**n Panic, to discuss his advocacy for p**n and the male psyche. Do men like s*x more tha...

31/01/2023

A fascinating with Jerry Barnett, author of **nPanic is about to go live on Sublation Media's YouTube channel! P**n, the history of p**n, female advantage, spider prostitution, much more...

Watch it now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypxelscfbzg&t=2s&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

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20/01/2023

Coming soon...

A date with the boss.

17/01/2023

New with artist Mason Storm is live. Digital virtual tech has prettified the entire world & turned us all into preening, self-created, perfectible works of art. What does that mean for actual art & actual attraction?

Susanna Kleeman goes on a date with the British artist Mason Storm. Storm is known for provocative works that poke fun at the hypocrisies within modern socie...

13/01/2023

Wasn’t sure which look to go for for my date with Jerry Barnett, author of P**n Panic. S*xy Andrea Dworkin? Pia Zadora? Stern Technocrat?
Coming soon…
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03/01/2023

Is s*x amoral? Are women attracted to the 'Dark Triad'? Discover all in the latest with pickup artist Eric Disco. Watch the full date here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2M_8_IF8wgs&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

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03/01/2023

Getting ready for a with NYC pick-up artist & dating coach Eric Disco...

Jean Baudrillard's FATAL STRATEGIES vs. Neil Strauss's THE GAME from 5pm GMT tonight on Sublation Media!

16/12/2022

A still from an upcoming with New York pick up artist and dating coach Eric Disco. This was an absolutely fascinating chat. Coming soon...

14/12/2022

New episode is live! Apps and superficial virtual connection get a bad rap, but real raw head-over-heels connection can mess you up for life. Thank you so much to guest Jason Myles for a deep and revelatory chat:

Jason Myles from This is Revolution seems to be truly enamored with Susanna Kleeman as they discuss dating apps, serial monogamy, and Jason's history with lo...

08/12/2022

New we**am.

29/11/2022

Fatal Dates #3: Susanna's date is Draxtor, creative force in the online world Second Life & expert on fakeness, false selves, avatars, digital identities and pixel-based love:

15/11/2022

Fatal Dates #2 is out now! Author and academic Laurent de Sutter chats fatal strategies & the erotic dimension of thought.

Susanna's date is Laurent de Sutter, the author of more than twenty award-winning books translated into a dozen languages, among which, recently, "After Law"...

01/11/2022

First Fatal Date is up! Thanks so much to my guest, 'John From Twitter', for being so honest.

Susanna Kleeman, the author of the novel TWICE, is starting a new podcast and video series called Fatal Dates. It's a show about real connections in an unrea...

01/11/2022

Fatal Dates launches today! Here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WrmkLC6CsQ&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain.

Thank you Sublation Media, Douglas Lain and my guests, especially ‘John From Twitter’, my first date. Hope we are fatal enough for you…