11/09/2025
What does it mean to be a woman in pain? To be dying and still be judged for your choices?
This personal essay is about survival, stigma, and the cruel absurdities of how women’s bodies are seen and treated.
But it is also about the quiet strength of friends who carry you through tough times, and the violence of a system that cares more about your marital status than saving your life...
'I Was Dying & They Asked If I Was Married' is not an easy read, but it’s an unforgettable one.
Read it, sit with it, share it, because stories like this must be heard.
Check out the full essay on The Blahcksheep website (🔗 in bio).