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Mister Thoughts This is where I share my thoughts about fatherhood, marriage, parenting and life.

13/02/2024
30/11/2023

Antipolo SPED Super Reader 👌🏻 Good Job, AUsome Jamir 👏🏻

“Be kind. Have compassion. Hindi madali ang pinagdadaanan namin. Maaaring hindi halata pero araw-araw ay sinusubok kami ...
19/10/2023

“Be kind. Have compassion. Hindi madali ang pinagdadaanan namin. Maaaring hindi halata pero araw-araw ay sinusubok kami ng mga pagkakataon.

Pakiusap lang.”

13/10/2023
“Sa ngayon, kami na muna ito. Kami na muna ang kanyang tunay na kaibigan. Kami na muna ang uunawa. Kami na muna ang iint...
14/06/2023

“Sa ngayon, kami na muna ito. Kami na muna ang kanyang tunay na kaibigan. Kami na muna ang uunawa. Kami na muna ang iintindi. Kami na muna ang hindi siya iiwan.” 🥹🥹🥹

"Hindi naman natin masisisi ang ibang bata. But this breaks my heart as a father."

22/04/2022

APPRECIATE THE PERSON BESIDE YOU❤️

Yesterday, my wife had this overnight thingy in Tagaytay.

So I slept alone last night.😔

Every day, I usually wake up at 5:30am.
But this morning, my eyes opened wide at 4:20am.
And no matter how I tried going back to sleep, I couldn’t.
All I did was toss and turn in bed.
I also found myself reaching for the usual space where my wife slept...
Only to feel its emptiness.

That’s when it hit me:
I miss my wife.

I realized that her presence calms me.
Marowe is my anchor.
She steadies me.
She provides the stability that I desperately need, even if I didn’t know how much I needed it.
She is my home where I can rest and get restored for another day.

A little background:
Like many people, my wife battles the demons of low self-worth.
On many occasions, she pops the question, “Bo, do you have regrets for choosing me? Why did you pick me to be your wife anyway?”
She feels there’s nothing special about her.
She looks at her failures and looks down at herself.
She forgets that when she is away, the house is empty... and my heart is empty.
And her husband is like a ship adrift on the dark sea without his anchor.

My Reflection:

Appreciate your partner.

Celebrate the gift that beautiful person is to you.

Every single day.❤️

11/02/2022

Kanina during my message para sa mga Grade 12 students for their work immersion seminar. I asked them to write their Bakit list questions. It can be anything under the sun and i asked them to be honest about their feelings and isa to sa mga tanong na nakapag parealize sakin na swerte pa din ako for having a complete family.

Kaya most of the time yung mga estudyante ko ayoko silang pagalitan kasi nga alam ko na hindi lahat tayo may masayang pamilyang mauuwian 😭😭😭

Ctto: Erick Nicolas Lagarde

Every child is special 💯
30/11/2021

Every child is special 💯

While we are growing up, they are growing older 😢
21/11/2021

While we are growing up, they are growing older 😢

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE 💯Secret 1Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus o...
10/10/2021

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE 💯

Secret 1
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10
Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

⚠️ In marriage we are daily called to be a living sacrifice.


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11/08/2021
07/08/2021

"Get comfortable in the uncomfortable."

I love this picture. Two totally calm men waiting for the tantrum of the little girl to pass. The two men are the father and grandfather of the two-year-old girl, who lay on the floor and started to tantrum in the middle of the mall.

Neither of the men loses patience, pi**es off, or yells at her. They just wait quietly. You are not simply giving her what she wants, and you are letting her express her emotions, in this case her anger at not getting what she wants..

Nobody feels embarrassed about the show the little girl is putting on.
The father's own words when posting this photo explain everything:

′′This post is about one thing and one thing only. Get comfortable in the uncomfortable.
There are no perfect parents, but one thing mine taught me was not being a parent depending on what others think. My dad always let me feel what I needed to feel, even if it was in public and embarrassing. I don't remember him telling me: 'You're embarrassing me! 'o' Don't cry! '. It wasn't until recently that I realized how important it was for my own emotional development. Our kids are learning and processing so much information and they don't know what to do with all these new feelings that come up."

Let us learn to be comfortable in the uncomfortable. Let us learn to deal with our children's tantrums, with patience and tranquility. Children are children once in a lifetime. 💗💕

Photo: Justin Baldon's Facebook

13/06/2021
Saluto to all breastfeeding mothers. 💯
09/06/2021

Saluto to all breastfeeding mothers. 💯

WHO: “Women should be able to share a room with their from birth, breastfeed and hold their babies skin-to-skin – even w...
07/06/2021

WHO: “Women should be able to share a room with their from birth, breastfeed and hold their babies skin-to-skin – even when COVID-19 is suspected or confirmed.

They should be supported to practice appropriate infection prevention and control to reduce risks.”


Paalala para sa mga nababahala at nag-aagam agam na mga nanay at pamilya. Go, breastfeed! 💯

Alam ninyo kung ano ang tawag dito? This is happiness. Ito ay isang laruang robot gawa ni Jamir mula sa mga ipit. Ang si...
07/06/2021

Alam ninyo kung ano ang tawag dito? This is happiness.

Ito ay isang laruang robot gawa ni Jamir mula sa mga ipit. Ang simple lang diba? Pero hindi matatawaran ang sayang hatid nito sa anak ko.

Sa totoo lang, hindi naman kailangan ng bata ang mamamahaling laruan. Totoo yun na kahit mga recycled box o mga pinaggamitang karton ng Koko Crunch me masaya na nila. Hindi presyo o ganda ng laruan ang tunay na nagpapasaya sa kanila. Kundi yung presenya ng kalaro. Yung oras na mailalaan mo para sa kanila.

Kayo, anong paboritong laruan ng anak ninyo?

Brilliant. 💯
03/06/2021

Brilliant. 💯

Padamihan tayo ng maalala sa mga palabas na ito. Tag mo na ang mga certified titas at titos ng makabagong panahon. ✌🏻
02/06/2021

Padamihan tayo ng maalala sa mga palabas na ito. Tag mo na ang mga certified titas at titos ng makabagong panahon. ✌🏻

30/04/2021

" TAYO LANG ANG MAG-KAKAMPI "

Bukod sa I LOVE YOU ang sarap din pakinggan yung salitang "Tayo lang ang mag-kakampi".

Nung marinig ko to kay Blessed Dad. Blessed Husband. Blessed Life nung isang araw di ko alam kung kikiligin ako o ma-iiyak.

Ang sarap lang sa feeling na ngayon meron na akong masasabihan ng lahat ng nasa isip ko.

Noon si Lord lang, ngayon, dalawa na silang kakampi ko.

Sa buhay mag-asawa mahalaga na malaman ng bawat isa na kayo lang MAGKAKAMPI hanggang sa huli.

Lalo na kung merong pinag dadaanan ang isa man sa inyo.

Ultrasound ng mga batang 90s. Ikaw, ilan ang anak mo batay sa ultrasound na ito? 😂
29/04/2021

Ultrasound ng mga batang 90s. Ikaw, ilan ang anak mo batay sa ultrasound na ito? 😂

29/04/2021

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