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Electra and Odipus Theory

Electra and Odipus Theory Oedipus Complex (for Boys) The idea is that, when boys are very young, they sometimes get super attached to their moms. In fact, they might feel a bit competitive with their dads for her attention. It’s like they’re figuring out how to be close to her and might even feel a bit jealous of dad. But as they grow, they realize it’s okay for dad and mom to be close, and they start identifying with dad more. This shift helps them learn about themselves and their relationships. Electra Complex (for Girls) For girls, it’s similar but focused on their dads. Little girls might feel like they want to be close to dad and get mom's attention too. They could feel a slight jealousy toward mom for a bit. But, as they grow up, they start to understand they don’t have to compete and naturally begin looking up to their mom more as a role model. Why Does This Happen? Psychologists like Freud think this is a stage in childhood where kids are figuring out how love, family dynamics, and identities work. It’s totally normal and, eventually, kids outgrow these feelings as they start developing a clearer sense of who they are. 🗣️ Let’s keep these conversations going. Boys and men deserve spaces where they’re heard, supported, and encouraged to grow. @convo.africa @convo.africa @convo.africa

Would you rather, a pet or human companionship?

Would you rather, a pet or human companionship?

Failing fathers were once boys Neglected by society

Failing fathers were once boys Neglected by society As we work toward equality, we must ensure that boys and men also receive the guidance and support they need to thrive. Here’s why paying attention to the well-being of the boy child is crucial for balanced growth in society: Emotional Expression Matters: Boys are often taught to “be tough” and “hold it in,” leading them to suppress emotions. Encouraging healthy expression from a young age can prevent struggles with mental health later in life. Let’s create spaces where they can be vulnerable without fear of judgment. Role Models and Mentorship: Boys benefit from positive role models who show them that strength includes empathy and kindness. Mentorship programs can help guide them through challenging times and model balanced, healthy masculinity. Mental Health Awareness: Men are often hesitant to seek help due to stigma, but early conversations about mental health can normalize it for boys. By educating them on emotional wellness, we empower them to prioritize their mental health as they grow. Supporting Self-Worth and Identity: Growing up with mixed messages about what it means to “be a man” can confuse boys and impact their self-worth. Let’s support boys in understanding their unique identities without societal pressure to fit a mold. Resilience through Community: By creating networks and support systems for boys and men, we build a sense of community and belonging. This support fosters resilience, helping them navigate life’s ups and downs with confidence. Empowering Boys for Balanced Society: When we invest in the holistic growth of boys, we contribute to a balanced, healthier society. It’s not just about helping them as individuals; it’s about fostering a positive environment for everyone. 🗣️ Let’s keep these conversations going. Boys and men deserve spaces where they’re heard, supported, and encouraged to grow. @convo.africa @convo.africa @convo.africa

Most young boys lack mentorship from their fathers.

The best way to find yourself, is to lose yourself in the service of others ~ Mahatma Gandhi

By dedicating ourselves to helping others, we gain a deeper understanding of who we truly are. Service brings clarity, purpose, and fulfillment, which helps shape our identity. - Mahatma Gandhi #convoafrica #conversationsthatmatter #heartbeatsandhorizons

Don't count the days, make the days count ~ Muhammad Ali

A great motivator! Let's focus on making the most of our time and taking meaningful actions rather than just waiting for things to happen. - Muhammad Ali #convoafrica #conversationsthatmatter #heartbeatsandhorizons

Life is 1% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it ~ Charles R. Swindoll

Our attitude and response to circumstances shape our experiences more than the events themselves. A powerful reminder that while we can't control everything, we have control over our reactions - Charles R. Swindoll #convoafrica #conversationsthatmatter #heartbeatsandhorizons

The only way to do great work is to love what you do ~ Steve Jobs

Passion is important in achieving excellence. When you genuinely love what you do, it becomes easier to put in the effort, overcome challenges, and push boundaries. - Steve Jobs #convoafrica #conversationsthatmatter #heartbeatsandhorizons

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot, but make it hot by striking ~ William Butler Yeats

It is important to take initiative and create opportunities rather than wait for the perfect moment. Action and persistence is encouraged and let us be reminded that we have the power to shape our success. ~ William Butler Yeats #convoafrica #heartbeatsandhorizons

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. ~ Wayne Gretzky

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. ~ Wayne Gretzky #heartbeatsandhorizons #convoafrica #conversationsthatmatter #mentalhealthawareness #futureleaders

We have indeed neglected the boy-child.

We have indeed neglected the boy-child. @francismuchiri