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I have been trying to make this year full of fun memories for Aza since she is old enough to do things with us now, and ...
16/12/2022

I have been trying to make this year full of fun memories for Aza since she is old enough to do things with us now, and finding fun, cute recipes has been so much fun. I LOVE mayo, and Hellmann’s was such a great addition to these delicious cold-cut sandwiches. It gives it extra flavor at an affordable price! ❤️
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The love we have received has been overwhelming 🤎 Thank you all so much for the gifts, the messages, DMs everything!! 🙏🏾...
19/10/2022

The love we have received has been overwhelming 🤎 Thank you all so much for the gifts, the messages, DMs everything!! 🙏🏾🙏🏻 We are trying to reach as many people as we can but know we appreciate it all.

Baby Cole is already loved. And we can already tell Aza is sooooo ready to be a big sister. Can y’all believe how much she has grown 🥹

We have so much to share and will be answering questions soon so stay tuned 🙏🏾

We can’t wait to share this journey with you all 🤎

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13/10/2022

Hi Everyone! Please please report if you see this page! IT is fake!

I always like to share some monthly quotes I saved so here’s a few ☺️One that stood out to me the most is “not hiding yo...
11/08/2022

I always like to share some monthly quotes I saved so here’s a few ☺️

One that stood out to me the most is “not hiding your pain”. You need friends outside of your spouse….You do. It’s healthy to talk, it’s healthy to share. You just need to share with the right people. Friends that will pray with you, not judge, be the support you need and can tell you the truth!

My husband, our friends, and our family have been a huge support for me and I’m just thankful

Update: We are going to be sharing some a of our journey and what’s been going on… stay tuned 🤎

What quote hit you the most?

Brian and I can’t remember the last time we went to an amusement park. We went to  just   and acted like complete kids!!...
06/07/2022

Brian and I can’t remember the last time we went to an amusement park. We went to just and acted like complete kids!! 

Brian was SUPER nervous about getting on the rollercoaster; PLEASE check out our stories, 😂😂 it was so funny, but he decided to finally let loose and do it, and he LOVED IT!

was not only an incredible place for Aza but Brian and I didn’t want to leave. Their water park and the rides seriously gave us a true break from life and are in the moment. 

I think we messed up having the Disney Wish be our first cruise 😳 I don’t know how the other cruise ships are but this o...
01/07/2022

I think we messed up having the Disney Wish be our first cruise 😳

I don’t know how the other cruise ships are but this one was magical 🪄We were treated like royalty … LITERALLY !

It’s like you’re in a Disney movie! We loved this so much. And Thank you all SOOO much for the advice - it really helped ❤️

Summer is here ☀️and I don’t know about y’all, but I don’t think it’s been this hot in a minute! Like right now, it’s 10...
21/06/2022

Summer is here ☀️and I don’t know about y’all, but I don’t think it’s been this hot in a minute! Like right now, it’s 100 DEGREES! 🥵🥵🥵

Brian and I always create a bucket list for the summer (some of it is just for us, and some for Aza) …. So I’m pretty excited about our list 😏

Do you have a summer bucket list? What’s on it because we need some new ideas! 🥰

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What can I even say about 7 years?! WOW! 👋🏻👋🏻Simply put…my life is better than I ever dreamed it would be because of you...
07/06/2022

What can I even say about 7 years?! WOW! 👋🏻👋🏻

Simply put…my life is better than I ever dreamed it would be because of you (and I had big dreams). You create a safe place for me to be 100% authentically and wholly Brian Cole - issues, shortcomings, flaws and all! It’s easy to be vulnerable with you - to let go of my ego and pride and fear. I have given my entire self to you and that feeling is indescribable. 

I don’t even understand how you can love me to the degree that you do and the way that you do it. I won’t say it’s not always easy but you do it so graciously …I love you.

Happy 7th Anniversary baby

90’s babies Going to a 90’s Party … How did we do? 😎😎 I (👋🏾) think I would have been Freddie Brooks from A Different Wor...
14/05/2022

90’s babies Going to a 90’s Party … How did we do? 😎😎

I (👋🏾) think I would have been Freddie Brooks from A Different World in the 90’s.

Now…Who’s your favorite character in that era?👀… GO!

17/02/2022

Can't wait to set up our registry with buybuy BABY ! Go set up yours today!

14/01/2022

To be completely fair …. We both act like babies when we don’t feel good . And I think because since we don’t get sick often, they can last a lot longer than needed.

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We did a lil somethin’ different this holiday season ! We figured we change it up a bit 2021 😏Take a look at our other h...
16/12/2021

We did a lil somethin’ different this holiday season !

We figured we change it up a bit 2021 😏

Take a look at our other holiday pics which one was your favorite? 👀

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This is a big moment for us… WE HIT 100K ON YOUTUBE last week ‼️ 🙌🏾🙌🏻 We have been very reflective and thankful all week...
15/11/2021

This is a big moment for us… WE HIT 100K ON YOUTUBE last week ‼️ 🙌🏾🙌🏻 We have been very reflective and thankful all week long. We really do not take this space lightly. We are just so blessed for all of the people that truly see us as good content.

You all have given us space to be real, honest, vulnerable and transparent. We never want to compromise on what we are about and who we are and we never felt pressure from you all to do so. We appreciate this more than you know.

This has been an almost 3 year journey for us and it has truly transformed our lives. You all have blessed us in ways we cannot describe and will never have enough time to explain.

Just know our family has forever been changed for the better. And you also have no idea how much it blesses us when you share your stories, experiences and testimonies. So keep sharing with us!!!

But honestly, this isn’t a story about just us. This is also a story about friendship. After many times I said I was ready to start a channel asked me what I was doing one day and I said ‘nothing’. THAT DAY, she brought her camera and lighting to our mom’s house and said “ok we’re here - Lets go!” Now I will tell you…She was the hardest teacher that day 🤕🥴 but she forced us to learn how to do stuff on our own and really held me accountable to what I said I wanted to do … and she still continues to do that to this day.

If I could give just two thoughts on this: 1️⃣- Surround yourself with people that are like-minded that are not just talking about what they are doing but ACTUALLY doing it 2️⃣- stay true to who you are 🤎

Please share in the comments what made you join our journey!

‼️BTW‼️We will be doing a giveaway on YT for those that have been with us since the beginning. We love you all 🤎

YALL I DID IT!! It was the FIRST time I traveled with Aza without Lexi 😳. ( I was ON MY OWN for a few days 😂😂) New Vlog ...
15/10/2021

YALL I DID IT!! It was the FIRST time I traveled with Aza without Lexi 😳. ( I was ON MY OWN for a few days 😂😂) 

New Vlog Is Up‼️

It felt so nostalgic and also an overwhelming feeling of gratitude to take Aza back to my childhood vacation spot. My family went to Mackinaw almost every year - it’s like I grew up there. I showed Aza all the best toy stores and she LOVED the beach!! 

When Lexi and I are taking care of Aza together, it’s amazing and fun and all that. BUT, oddly enough, I truly do enjoy the times when I am solely responsible for her and Lexi is not there. It almost seems like I am able to focus on her and dedicate my whole self to her more. 

I will say, though, watching her and especially traveling with her, by myself….has its challenges and plenty of twists and turns. Like trying to figure out how to carry a bunch of bags and her and go to the bathroom at the same time. 😳😬 The best advice I have gotten and what I am learning is…..”you just figure it out “ 🤷🏻‍♂️ And I did! 

Hope you enjoy watching our fun weekend trip to Mackinaw and my little daddy/daughter time! Link in bio ☝🏻☝🏻

Some of you may not know this but Brian for the past couple ofYear has struggled… and I mean STRUGGLED with dairy. He wa...
15/10/2021

Some of you may not know this but Brian for the past couple of
Year has struggled… and I mean STRUGGLED with dairy. He was in denial for a while (and still is a little 🥴) and I wanted to get some sort of testing to figure out if any of us have sensitivities to certain foods (and to prove he really does 😂)

We partnered with Everlywell]] to take at home food sensitivity test. Everlywell]] breaks down exactly what your test results mean and how they may affect your health, so it’s easy to understand. Plus they give tips on how to maintain or improve your levels. You can also download a report to share with your doctor and the results are sent directly and securely to your Everlywell account via your device.

So I’m sure if you are trying to start your health journey or simply your kids going back to school it would be nice to know if there are foods that are affecting your daily life. So check out our stories for more info about Everlywell]] and signing up today !

Transparent post ***LONG POST***…just stay with me here… 🙋🏻‍♂️Not my proudest husband moment but I want to be open about...
08/10/2021

Transparent post ***LONG POST***…just stay with me here… 🙋🏻‍♂️

Not my proudest husband moment but I want to be open about it because I think it’s worth having a conversation. 

A couple of weeks ago Lexi was having a really hard week. She came back from our trip with an incredible amount of work and found out some very very tragic and unfortunate news. She was able handle it like an unbelievable champion she is and I could not be more proud and amazed of her. But It took a big toll on her and she needed support, and at the time, I wasn’t being as sensitive to what she was experiencing and not as intentional with supporting her emotionally through it. I had other tasks/responsibilities on my mind and I was just caught up in my own little world with what I wanted to do. 

We ended up having a difficult conversation about what she needed from me (we’re pretty big on communicating how we feel…. Like really big 😅)

Honestly… I was defensive at first 🥴but, after a moment, I took my guard down and realized I was not taking care of her the way I should as a husband. 

Here’s the thing…. Typically, I am not like this but that should never be an excuse - especially when what she is experiencing was not surface level at all. As I reflected, I made it a point to focus on how I can serve her and sacrifice more. After that conversation, it helped for me to write it down and put it on my calendar as a constant reminder to better myself in that way. It was a small change but I see it every day now just to keep it in the forefront. 

I will never be someone who is willingly ignorant of themselves, who refuses to be introspective or who ignores the need for maturation and growth. It is our responsibility to consistently be better than the day before. If we are not moving forward, we are moving backward. We’re human, we’re not perfect and we will mess up. But don’t use imperfection as an excuse not to be better 🙏🏻

We always want to make sure we show what we are learning in this life and this was one of them…..

Let’s talk…What is a characteristic you need to develop and how do you develop them?

Our funniest diaper story (and those who have been with us since Aza was born will remember!) was when we took Aza on he...
07/10/2021

Our funniest diaper story (and those who have been with us since Aza was born will remember!) was when we took Aza on her first road trip and she started to eat solids. Let me just say….BRIAN WAS NOT READY FOR THAT P**P. I still watch those videos when I want a good laugh 😅😂😂

I knew Aza needed major protection. We are particular about the diapers she uses and I care SO MUCH about diapers preventing leaks.

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Our baby is a trooper 🤎 A lot of people asked us how was it was coming back to Aza after 12 days of travel. Did she noti...
28/09/2021

Our baby is a trooper 🤎

A lot of people asked us how was it was coming back to Aza after 12 days of travel. Did she notice you were gone? 😳

Honestly, I was concerned she wouldn’t miss us Or maybe she missed us too much 🥺

When we came back, she was sleep so we woke her up to give her hug and she was super excited to see us. Took her a while to hug us (I think she was processing) but she was running around laughing and screaming. 😂

To us we felt like she changed a lot but there was no love lost. She still saw us as her main support system, her parents 🤎

We may not go on a trip THAT LONG for a while without Aza but we do plan on going on trips without her at least once a year.

We know that everybody doesn’t have the support system to maybe go on any sort of trips (which we are praying you will soon 🙏🏾🙏🏾) but for those that do, I hope this gives you some encouragement that it’s worth it to take a trip… even if it’s a weekend. Getaway with your spouse, Go to a hotel down the street… DO SOMETHING , we think it’s so worth it , it’s healthy, and you may not realize it but it’s needed 🤎.

Do you feel guilty going away without your kids? What stops you from going ? LETS TALK 👏🏾👏🏾

Peace /pēs/ It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the mids...
21/09/2021

Peace /pēs/

It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

The goal was to bring everything we felt home with us. It’s not always easy but it’s worth fighting to keep it 🤎.

What are you doing to keep your peace?

How’s it Going vs How It Started 🤎 … because honestly we were too ashamed to post the last pic first 🥴😂   Lexi and Brian...
18/09/2021

How’s it Going vs How It Started 🤎 … because honestly we were too ashamed to post the last pic first 🥴😂

Lexi and Brian Circa 2011 just babies 😂

Crazy how at one point I was striving to get that old body back… SOOOO thankful for where I am now …. and how far we’ve come 🤎

Taking time out to love myself a little more with my favorite person ☀️This vacation has been more than what I could hav...
14/09/2021

Taking time out to love myself a little more with my favorite person ☀️

This vacation has been more than what I could have dreamed of. The conversation, the laughs, the intimacy, THE VIEWS is surreal…
We’ll talk about that more 🥰🥰… but y’all….
Put this on your bucket list … NOW it’s so worth it!!

Also, this swimsuit by has me feeling ALL TYPES OF WAYSSSS, it definitely was a hit here! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

WE OUT ✌🏾✌🏻This is us trying to be a mood a little bit of a   😅 I was slipping in my shoes either way.. 🥴🥴THE TIME IS HE...
10/09/2021

WE OUT ✌🏾✌🏻

This is us trying to be a mood a little bit of a 😅 I was slipping in my shoes either way.. 🥴🥴

THE TIME IS HERE!! I promise summer flew by and this trip still doesn’t feel real. I’m reflective, thankful, honored, and ready.

Anybody else out of town?!

03/09/2021

We had a few more days of summer left ☀️☀️

New Vlog Is Up ‼️

On the weekends we really try to make sure we do something fun together. So before we do all things fall (bc y’all know that’s our season 👀) we wanted to show a little bit of day to day 🤎 It’s not always easy finding things to do during this crazy time but hopefully this give you some ideas. Check it out Link in bio ☝🏾☝🏾

I can’t wait to get away with this woman RIGHT 👏🏻 HERE 👏🏻Those that have traveled internationally…. What are some key it...
02/09/2021

I can’t wait to get away with this woman RIGHT 👏🏻 HERE 👏🏻

Those that have traveled internationally…. What are some key items you bring with you on long flights?!

We have traveled internationally before but always here to learn new stuff so give us time tips 🤷🏻‍♂️

8 DAYS AWAY!!!! 😭😭😭 I CANT WAIT!!

We FINALLY posted our trip away RIGHT after our bday celebration and it was absolutely SOOOO beautiful 🤎Vlog is Up Now‼️...
27/08/2021

We FINALLY posted our trip away RIGHT after our bday celebration and it was absolutely SOOOO beautiful 🤎

Vlog is Up Now‼️

We are prepping for our big TRIP coming up and getting ready to be away from Aza for quite a bit of time. Let us know how we did 😩😩😭 Link in bio ☝🏻☝🏻

How do you connect with your spouse on vacation?

We have some new faces since we last did this so we thought to say HEY 👋🏾👋🏻 and welcome you all to our community. Thanks...
24/08/2021

We have some new faces since we last did this so we thought to say HEY 👋🏾👋🏻 and welcome you all to our community. Thanks for being apart…Here are a few things about us:

✨ We’re Brian and Alexis Cole
That little girl in the middle is Aza 👶🏽

✨ This is a joint account so you’ll see comments\post from me 👋🏾👋🏾 and B on here 👋🏻👋🏻

✨ First: We are very transparent about our life and journey and we encourage people along theirs

✨ We Like to have fun, travel and make some funny videos 😜

✨ We love to share our faith in God. We are not perfect but our hope is that sharing our walk will bless others in some way. 🙏🏾

✨ We like to bring up good topics about life, love, and relationship, parenting, race, etc … WE CAN GO DEEP YALL 👀

✨ Lastly, We went through IVF to have our baby and may be starting that process again in the Fall 😬 🙏🏾(not sure if our followers knew that one 😉)

Did we miss anything?! 😅 Tell us about where you are from and what made you follow us 🤎

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  You all may not know this but I GREW UP on Vaseline products. I have used them for years and still use their products ...
21/08/2021

You all may not know this but I GREW UP on Vaseline products. I have used them for years and still use their products to this day. My skin can get dry really fast, so I’ve been trying to get into the habit of tending to my body more with the Almond Smooth Body Lotion which is made with pure almond oil and vitamin E 🤎

I also use the Vaseline All Over Body Balm Jelly to help heal and nourish my dry skin while I'm on-the-go. If you are trying to get into tending to your skin more, check the link in bio to get your Vaseline products from today. 🤎

FINALLY PT 2 IS UP‼️We have never experience people doing so much for us outside of family for our birthdays 😭😭Our frien...
20/08/2021

FINALLY PT 2 IS UP‼️

We have never experience people doing so much for us outside of family for our birthdays 😭😭

Our friends really got us! We love you all so much and appreciate you! Thank you for ending the birthday bash with a MAJOR BANG! Link in bio 👆🏾👆🏻

Our fertility journey to have our baby was NOT a walk in the park but it was SOOOOO worth it  ✨✨ IVF is never an easy pr...
18/08/2021

Our fertility journey to have our baby was NOT a walk in the park but it was SOOOOO worth it ✨✨

IVF is never an easy process and the cost is not cheap, especially if you don’t have insurance. is a resource I wish I knew about before I went through IVF. It’s the only financing out there that’s specifically for people going through IVF and includes bill pay management and fertility coaching. Once you are appr funding directly to your clinic within 48-hours.

Future Family’s low-interest rates make IVF affordable. Personally, we had to pay out of pocket for our medication, and that alone is a high expense.
For those that are looking for a stress-free way to pay for IVF, please click the link in bio to learn more information about this amazing program. And please share because there is seriously never enough resources on this topic ❤️

Just came on here to say AZA’S PARENTS STILL GOT IT 👏🏾👏🏾😂😂I’m still in shock with everything that happened. I can’t wait...
13/08/2021

Just came on here to say AZA’S PARENTS STILL GOT IT 👏🏾👏🏾😂😂

I’m still in shock with everything that happened. I can’t wait to show Part 2 but it won’t be this week unfortunately 🤎

BUT it’s worth waiting for so stay tuned next week!

Did you watch part 1?! 👀

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