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As we approach the holidays, I always find it to be a good time to reflect on my spiritual journey. As some would say,...
11/04/2022

As we approach the holidays, I always find it to be a good time to reflect on my spiritual journey. As some would say, “we are spirits having a human experience”.
How often do you tend to your soul/spirit? Do you find value in your spiritual life? How does it shape your ?

It’s possible to condemn the action and still keep the person. I believe was wrong in his actions, yet most of us stil...
28/03/2022

It’s possible to condemn the action and still keep the person. I believe was wrong in his actions, yet most of us still believe in the good he is as a human.
Question is, how much stick does he deserve vs how much grace must he be given?

Indoda must…Heal: you cannot live your best life whilst defining yourself with your scars still bleeding. Might as well ...
10/03/2022

Indoda must…
Heal: you cannot live your best life whilst defining yourself with your scars still bleeding. Might as well heal by any means!

Self-determine: you have to make the time to define what it means to be a good man & how you can be that, we not taking any toxic definitions imposed on us!

24/02/2022

Do men really have no one to talk to?
If so, how about we be part of our solution?
You keen for the challenge & what’s your solution?

14/02/2022

Self love for ama gents- give yourself the chance to be the best version of yourself. Others around you will be grateful and so will you! Love yourself better in order to lover others better…


Working on a few episodes that will be posted in the next coming days and weeks. Now that we’ve started, we cannot quit,...
07/02/2022

Working on a few episodes that will be posted in the next coming days and weeks. Now that we’ve started, we cannot quit, we sure shall rest, even when unplanned, but the mission still continues.
First episode is ironically about patience.

Trust it has been a great for you and yours.Love
31/12/2021

Trust it has been a great for you and yours.

Love

In cultivating good relationships across the sexes, it's important to celebrate each others victories! Big ups to the F...
19/11/2021

In cultivating good relationships across the sexes, it's important to celebrate each others victories! Big ups to the
For being history makers! Winners of the inaugural

01/11/2021

Short clip on because it is local where we cannot afford to be the victims and onlookers of our fate.
Go vote it is

Last year we had an actual and what was amazing about it was the openess and sincerity of engagement about issues faci...
18/10/2021

Last year we had an actual and what was amazing about it was the openess and sincerity of engagement about issues facing men. People of different views, people willing to disagree but still talk their truth.
It's happening again this year! If you're a dude who is concerned about and society, make a plan to pull through! It's worth it!

12/02/2021

The arrival of Valentine’s Day makes me wonder how do we get around our self-value/worth and love; how do we build love in ourselves in order to give it and also receive it in a healthy way?

Hello! Me, I am back, just before kicks in & catches us gents off guard.Episode dropping on Friday 12 Feb.What is your...
11/02/2021

Hello! Me, I am back, just before kicks in & catches us gents off guard.
Episode dropping on Friday 12 Feb.
What is your expectation as a guy for valentine’s & what informs that expectation?

If 2020 is one for the books, what have you documented in your life story as a gent?The previous year felt like a great ...
04/01/2021

If 2020 is one for the books, what have you documented in your life story as a gent?
The previous year felt like a great purge of all things that kept us busy. We were stripped off the things & titles that blinded us from who we are & who we were becoming.
2020 will always be a great story to tell. What have you learnt about during our time of ?

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As we get into December & reflect on the year. Here's something I am taking with me: COVID has been a reset button, it s...
07/12/2020

As we get into December & reflect on the year. Here's something I am taking with me: COVID has been a reset button, it stripped away our distractions & reminded us what's important in our lives, which is good health & the good people around us.
Here's a culture worth continuing: finding any means to be there for our loved ones.
I love this picture. This is on steroids!

This past weekend I got to attend a which personally goes down as the biggest gathering of men and boys in such a sett...
19/10/2020

This past weekend I got to attend a which personally goes down as the biggest gathering of men and boys in such a setting I've ever attended. It was an exciting setting, which I will go down to in the next episode, which I want to preamble by saying, this is an exciting time to question and get guidance on a healthy view of what it means to be a man.

A great that is often overlooked is the role of fathers: men who play the father-figure role even when they are not ...
05/10/2020

A great that is often overlooked is the role of fathers: men who play the father-figure role even when they are not biological fathers where they play this role.
Do you recognize those people in your life & do you recognize yourself in this role?

The existence of school seems to indicate the idea that to become a man is an active process where you are TAUGHT to b...
21/09/2020

The existence of school seems to indicate the idea that to become a man is an active process where you are TAUGHT to be a man. If being a man is something that can/should be taught, can the abandoning of our or be used as a reference as to why men are finding it difficult to man up?

As celebrates , we don’t want to relegate our culture to one day attire parade & so this we ask:Which ethnic group ...
07/09/2020

As celebrates , we don’t want to relegate our culture to one day attire parade & so this we ask:
Which ethnic group do you belong to & how does that shape your idea of being a man? If you not culturally inclined, do you feel like you are missing out on something?

31/08/2020

Closing women’s month with a praise to women & the great path they’ve carved out for themselves.
Welcoming heritage month by asking how has heritage or culture shaped your ideas about masculinity, are you happy with those ideas & how do you adapt them to the man you want to be?

Ending off women’s month with an dropping later today on & welcoming by asking how has / shaped your ?
31/08/2020

Ending off women’s month with an dropping later today on & welcoming by asking how has / shaped your ?

If physical strength is all you are equipped with, how do you deal & defend your arguments? If you were raised with “fig...
24/08/2020

If physical strength is all you are equipped with, how do you deal & defend your arguments? If you were raised with “fight them to show you are not a coward”, how easy is it for you to walk away to show bravery?
Check out ep.2 on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jgpQZQ3cWSM

20/08/2020

ep.2 being honest but wrong & GBV. Do you recognize some of the things we were encouraged to do as gents to prove our manhood & how they lead to our ease of being violent?
Check out the reflections on defining & the first conversation on


Episode available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jgpQZQ3cWSM

The most honest conversations allow us to say something that we think & believe, even if it’s wrong or unpopular. Let’s ...
17/08/2020

The most honest conversations allow us to say something that we think & believe, even if it’s wrong or unpopular. Let’s start an honest conversation about &
ep.2 dropping this week

‪Recap of ep.1‬‪Before any titles, how do you see yourself as a man? How do you define & being a man? What do you do...
10/08/2020

‪Recap of ep.1‬
‪Before any titles, how do you see yourself as a man? How do you define & being a man? What do you do to ensure that you’re living up to the ideals of being ‘the man’?‬
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‪Link to ep. 1 :https://youtu.be/lNxyPi0IBEk ‬

9 August 1956, approximately 20 000 women marched to the union buildings against the “pass laws”. A monumental step in g...
09/08/2020

9 August 1956, approximately 20 000 women marched to the union buildings against the “pass laws”. A monumental step in giving us freedom of movement in our country. honors your bravery & hopes to use the freedom of movement to move the conversation of better men to a better place, because you surely deserve better!

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Do men really have no one to talk to? If so, how about we be part of our solution? You keen for the challenge & what’s your solution?

Self love for ama gents- give yourself the chance to be the best version of yourself. Others around you will be grateful and so will you! Love yourself better in order to lover others better… #Valentines #Masculinity #CyItMatter

Short clip on #VotingMatters because it is local #Elections where we cannot afford to be the victims and onlookers of our fate. Go vote it is #Elections2021 #GoVote

Self-value, love and valentine’s for gents
Self-value, love and valentine’s for gents

The arrival of Valentine’s Day makes me wonder how do we get around our self-value/worth and love; how do we build love in ourselves in order to give it and also receive it in a healthy way?

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