Three Little Lee

08/10/2025

I think it over did it 😂 I don’t know WHO told me that I needed to have three kids, and who said we needed to live in Florida, and who said to have a 10 year age gap…..but as soon as I find out who you are….TRUST you will be handled 😂😂😂

The majority of my day is spent picking up, dropping off, or somewhere in between.

🤪I have also come to the conclusion that summer and the school year are BOTH insane. It’s like they are both busy but in different ways.

🍂When school is in session, I feel like I am peddling a bike with every fear engaged. Each stride takes the engagement and coordination of every muscle but you can take fewer pedals to go pretty far.

☀️Summer feels like riding a bike with no gears. The pedals float but you have to move your legs much faster to get the same distance. The change of pace convinces you that summer feels easier, but the reality is it’s all the same.

You can either pedal fast and easy or slow against the resistance of the gears, but it’s all the same. 🤷🏾‍♀️ The reward comes to those who endure.

28/09/2025

Since Once upon a child tried to make a FOOL out of me I decided to post my kids shoes on Poshmark. Check it out!

Karla is using Poshmark to sell items from their closet. Poshmark is a fun and simple way to buy and sell fashion. Shop from millions of people—and start selling too!

23/09/2025

For the Black Girls who were never allowed to date

For all the Black Girls praised for keeping their head in the books

For the Black girls labeled as “fast” or told they were acting “too grown” because they were shamed into secrecy or taken advantage of.

For all the Black girls who were never asked to the dance

For all the Black girls growing up surrounded by anti blackness

For the Black girls that were overlooked by their peers

You deserve to have fun. You deserve to be nurtured. You deserve to feel seen.

I love this for my daughter, and I wish this for you. This is a childhood friend. A date to the dance. A friend for life.

It’s always something special about being able to give something to your child that you never received. Growing up I was NOT allowed to date. There wasn’t a formal age to date or discussion but I remember feeling scared to bring my first “boyfriend” to meet my parents that lasted until adulthood.

Dating is not normalized enough for Black girls. I never “learned” to date. I was told that boys were only interested in “one thing” and while there is some truth to that, there are some lessons that need to be introduced under the love and guidance of your parents.

I’m raising a generation of children raised with love and NOT just survival. My legacy is making sure they continue the cycle….Because some homecoming dates are PERFECT.

08/09/2025

I hate to admit that I am guilty of gaslighting myself. I chalk everything up to getting older and having too many kids. A few months ago I did what everybody should do at least once a year and had a physical and lab work done with my primary care physician. While it was a relief to know that nothing was alarmingly wrong, I just couldn’t understand why I wasn’t feeling my best. That all changed when I started seeing .health. Talking to a board certified physician that is also experienced in functional medicine was a game changer. She was literally able to complete my sentences and put words to all of the little things that I had noticed. My hair and skin was changing. I was working out the same or harder and STILL not maintaining my weight. And the worst symptom of all, I was TIRED. With Hone Health I am committed to feeling my best. For the first time, in a long time I have clear answers and a customized plan to get where I want to be. Join me, and let’s Hone our health TOGETHER!

03/09/2025

To be honest, I started “hating” school before my child did. This was only first grade and homework would take hours. It would take us all week to learn FIVE simple spelling words. We would review every morning, every time we were in the car. Every night at bedtime. It felt like all we did was practice spelling words. Even with all of that, we were still reviewing over and over again on Thursday night before the test. The most frustrating part of it all was that the results were inconsistent. Doing everything that we were doing wasn’t guaranteed to result in a good grade.

That was the beginning of our official journey. My child was oblivious and still expressed enthusiasm for school. They hadn’t yet reached the age where they could realize that their peers weren’t working so hard. They probably thought that everyone had to review spelling words a million times 😩

I was preparing for my upcoming 504 meeting and I found the results of the very first evaluation in 2016. My child was observed for a 20 minute period of classroom instruction and an observational comparison was made between my child and a peer of the same age and gender. This evaluation was done a few times unannounced. The teacher didn’t know who was being evaluated.

The results were pretty jaw dropping. Upon observation, my child was pleasantly inattentive during the majority of instruction. They pointed out that they were able to answer some questions appropriately despite not appearing attentive. The teacher engaged my child several times and offered redirection but the time spent doing relevant “on task” behaviors was significantly less than the child being compared. The results were replicated several times before the results were presented.

So now that we know there is a problem, we set out to find the solution. School should not be a struggle for you or your child. If it is…it’s time to start asking questions. Thank you for sharing your struggle. It was very brave.

11/08/2025

Patrick Kyson Lee

The middle child. King of chaos. Still my sweet 7th grader 🥰

He didn’t humor me with a full phot shoot 😤 but I did manage to get these 😎

24/07/2024

Delta Air Lines should be ASHAMED of themselves. After leaving my mom without a return flight from Orlando on Friday due to the technical difficulties, they REFUSED to book her on another airline because "flights were available" on Delta for her take. She ran out of medication on SATURDAY and after reaching out to her doctors and trying to coordinate with local pharmacies we decided that her best option would be to return home. After HOURS on hold and in a qua, I spoke via chat with a supervisor and explained the situation in detail and after several flights that she was supposed to be rebooked on ended up being cancelled I pressed for them to book her on another airline so that she could go direct to Birmingham or Nashville and I could have someone pick her up. I did NOT want her to connect in Atlanta because I knew that it was not safe. The risk of her being stuck was one that I was desperately trying to avoid. The supervisor INSISTED that she had booked her on a flight and had her confirmed on back up flights with plenty of time to account for delays and cancellations. The flight out of orlando went off without a hitch. The problem was the CHAOS in Atlanta. The flight was cancelled at the last minute. After claiming to care about people's health and safety, Delta Air Lines left my elderly mother ALONE in an airport without her medications. She was not given access to her luggage and texted a meal and hotel voucher for a Hyatt hotel. She took a shuttle to the Hyatt and when she arrived there was NO ELECTRICITY AND NO AIR CONDITIONING. SHE AND OTHER PASSENGERS HAD TO SIT IN THE LOBBY UNABLE TO CHECK IN TO THE HOTEL. AROUND 4 AM THIS MORNING she returned to the airport so that she could at least access the sky lounge and charge her phone. I received word a few minutes ago that she was on board her flight from Atlanta. I will never look at Delta Air Lines the same. They need to STOP transporting travelers and get the people they have in transit HOME. Put them on other airlines. GET THEM HOME! IF you can not get on a direct flight I strongly suggest finding another route of transportation. If something happens to my mother is at the hands of the negligence and incompetence of Delta Airlines. In exchange for all of this, all my mom was offered was 20,000 sky miles. Roughly $200.

04/03/2024

26/12/2023

Scenes from Christmas on Christmas Eve! This year we hosted our main meal on Christmas Eve with my mom, uncle, and first cousins. We traditionally gather on Christmas Day, but I really enjoyed doing it on Christmas Eve. This kids got to open gifts from the family that was present and they really got to enjoy the moment without all of the Christmas Morning and Santa excitement.

After the celebration we attended a candlelight Christmas Eve service and settled in to get ready for a visit from St. Nick.

I loved hosting Christmas Eve. This may be a new tradition for the Lee house.

Team Santa Shirts:

25/12/2023

Scenes from Christmas on Christmas Eve at the Lee House🥰

May all of your holidays be merry and bright! The birth of Jesus was celebrated with gratitude, food, peace, presence🙏🏽.

I have so much Christmas content that I’m sitting on 😩 I can’t decide if I should share it or just cherish it for myself. I’ve always created content for me. I don’t mind sharing it, but I create because I am embracing my creativity and I enjoy it. With 2024 just around the corner I am committing to start where I am, work with what I have, and do what I can.

Merry Christmas from my family to yours!