Modern Woman Guide (2025)

04/01/2024

❌ Feminine energy is NOT chaser energy.

Women are not supposed to be the chasers in relationships and please do not trust anyone who tells you otherwise!

If he likes you, he will call you.

If he likes you, he will court you.

It’s that simple.

And if he doesn’t, it’s time to move on. Because every second you waste making excuses for him is a second you could have spent attracting the One.

This is also why I tell my clients to be always talking to at least 3-5 men. It prevents them from getting into the desperate, chaser vibration that is the biggest repellent of confident men (losers actually enjoy it but my ladies are not about losers 🙅🏼‍♀️).

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28/12/2023

If you’re feeling stuck in any area in life, you are probably living in your masculine energy!

❌ While being in your masculine can sometimes be helpful in certain limited situations, it is not in alignment with us women, and it blocks our intuition and manifestations.

💡I learned the power of feminine energy a few years ago and I now have the life I dreamed about as a little girl.

In theory, it is very simple - live in your feminine energy, live a soft life.

In practice, it is very difficult - it requires complete de-conditioning and re-conditioning, learning many new techniques, tools and habits, upgrading your mindset, worldview, physical appearance, style, attitude, character, personality, communication style, etc.

I went from living in my head, being so in my masculine while pursuing a legal career, and self-sabotaging all my relationships (including breaking up with my now husband on our third date) to now being 27 years old, married with 2 beautiful children, and having abundance in business and life.

❤️‍🔥 THIS is the power of feminine energy. And that softness is your biggest strength. Embrace it.

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21/12/2023

According to Population Reference Bureau, progress in women’s health is backsliding, with millennial and Gen Z women facing heightened risks.

“Young women today are obtaining college degrees and entering the workforce in record numbers to achieve their generation’s version of the American Dream. But structural barriers to health and safety are preventing many of them from reaching their full potential,” said Diana Elliott, vice president for U.S. programs at the Population Reference Bureau.

Among women ages 25 to 34, suicide rates have climbed from 4.4 deaths per 100,000 for Generation X to 7 deaths per 100,000 for Millennial women.

And this is only getting worse.

So it begs the questions:

* Are women really becoming more “successful”?

* Are women progressing?

* Is the pursuit of breaking the glass ceiling worth it?

🤔 Or is this all a big scam….

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13/12/2023

A sad story we’ve seen too many times…

And I’m sure you all know someone who’s been through this cycle, or maybe that person is you.

I was actually prompted to share this after watching a new Christmas movie on Netflix called “Family Switch” where Jennifer Garner plays an over-worked and over-stressed wife and mom on partner track married to a passive high-school band teacher.

I also saw that my 2 year-old children’s book features a family where the father is wearing an apron and making cookies while the mother is working in the office.

As another example, Kim K was recently named GQ’s Man of the Year.

I mean, the conditioning is EVERYWHERE and it is being planted even earlier and earlier in the fickle minds of young children.

Very sad indeed…

09/12/2023

🌟 December testimonials.

For those of you who don’t know me, my style is blunt and to the point.

I am not your typical California fake smile coach.

I call a spade a spade and I don’t sugarcoat things or baby my clients.

❌ My goal is not to appease you so you can keep paying my fee.

✅ My goal is to transform you.

🙅🏼‍♀️ And I don’t create damsels in distress.

🫦 I create femme fatales.

To the more sensitive women, it can sometimes be hard to take, but I promise you, there are big rewards at the end.

For 1-on-1 coaching inquiries for 2024, DM me or email [email protected] Limited spots available.

05/12/2023

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01/12/2023

It’s December 1, which means you have exactly one month left of this year!

Instead of doing what most people do, which is eat too much and drink too much, use this month as a head start to launch the new and improved you in 2024.

Don’t wait for the New Year!

‼️ 𝐈𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐭, 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐘𝐞𝐚𝐫’𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤. 𝐁𝐲 𝐅𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲, 𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐚𝐬 𝟖𝟎% 𝐨𝐟 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐘𝐞𝐚𝐫’𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐝.

For example, people who want to lose weight get excited and buy gym memberships in January, then by the following month they get busy, going to the gym becomes an inconvenience, they lose all motivation, and just stop going.

So how do you stick with a goal you have?

YOU START WHEN IT IS LEAST CONVENIENT.

Because if you can focus and take actions on a goal where the outside circumstances are less than optimal, no matter what life brings you in the future, you will stay on track.

Otherwise, the second things get hard, busy, or you start losing motivation, you’ll quit.

🌟 So don’t wait until January 1st to work on the new and improved you. Whether it’s losing weight, improving your mindset, changing your habits, working on your anxiety, becoming more feminine, etc. START NOW.

You will thank yourself later.

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28/11/2023

So many people tell me how lucky I am to have the life that I do.

But this isn’t luck. I simply learned at a young age what to focus on in life.

Too many people focus on the wrong things like gossip, celebrities, negativity, lack, other people, etc. None of that will bring you closer to your goals.

What matters are 3 things: health, love, and happiness.

🥗 I focus on taking care of myself and my body, so I am healthy and thriving.

👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻 I focus on my relationships and romantic life, so I have a beautiful family to love.

📕 I focused on self-care and growth, so I feel happy and fulfilled on the inside.

It’s simple in theory, more difficult in practice.

But not impossible.

And if I can do it, you can too.

🌟 You can absolutely find the man of your dreams and build the life of your dreams. It is all in your hands. It just takes focus, effort and consistency.

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26/11/2023

‼️ If he is making you question how invested he is in you - he is not the one!

You deserve a man who is 100% sure about you, a man who chooses you and only you, and who will never make you jealous of other women, or make you feel unsure of yourself.

🏆 A real quality man will make other women jealous of you, of how deeply he loves you, of how much he cares about you, of how much he does for you.

❌ He will not love bomb you one day and go quiet the next, or make snarky remarks about your appearance, or appear uninterested when you’re telling a story, or prioritize his friends and work over you, or be iffy with his communication and time, or make you want to go through his phone.

So, if you are in a “situationship” or a relationship but you are unsure about a man’s level of commitment and care for you, know that you deserve better.

And when he is 100% sure about you, you will be 100% sure about him too. There won’t be any questions in your mind.

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24/11/2023

Happy Thanksgiving! 🍁

Thankful for health and family 🙏

These are the blessings 🌟

(PS: this was last year’s Christmas photoshoot and I was pregnant here with our boy)

24/11/2023

Ladies, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: there is noone busier than an uninterested man.

If he doesn’t make time for you, or is somehow only available late at night, he does not like you. It really is that simple.

If a man is interested, he will pursue you through the end of the world and he will move mountains just to spend time with you and to court you.

❌ So never make excuses for a man who’s “too busy” to see you. He’s not. He’s just not interested.

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22/11/2023

Going on a first date the RIGHT vs. the WRONG way.
 ❌ If you ever find yourself taking the lead when it comes to planning, preparing, talking, paying, and initiating intimacy, you’re doing it wrong. That’s his job.

✅ Instead, focus on being a follower. Let him ask you out, let him plan, let him talk, let him pay, let him drive you home, let him call you the next day.

(And remember, always wait at least 2 months and at least 8 dates to be intimate with a man 😉)

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