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21/02/2023

Them's the rules 🤷‍♀️ Things will bleed over from one area of your life to another whether you consciously see it or not 💗

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19/02/2023

I can help myself reframe and not leave my happiness in somebody else's hands.

Yes! This was specifically talking about days like Valentine's Day or other days you expect that others are supposed to do things to make you happy. Take that power back into your own hands and celebrate yourself 🤗

I wasted too much time in my life being upset when someone didn't do what I expected of them (in gift giving and beyond) and had to remember that I can only control my own actions and reactions and reflect on the rest.

Did I need to re-evaluate that relationship? Sometimes yes.

Did I communicate my needs to this person? Did they care about meeting those needs? Were they able to even do it?

BUT, while doing that, I wanted to make sure I didn't drop the ball on taking care of myself too.

If I expected a gift on Valentine's Day, I got myself one.

If I expected a trip or other celebratory thing for my birthday, I made it happen. And if someone wants to come in on those plans with you, great! But I'm not waiting for someone else and then being disappointed that nothing happened.

I don't want you to waste your life waiting for others to make you feel special. You ARE special and should treat YOURSELF with care, acknowledge the things/actions you need to feel loved on those special days, and then work toward providing those things for yourself.

This is not an "I don't need nobody" post. Let me be clear!

This is an "I will prioritize my happiness and not leave it someone else's hands, unless they have CONSISTENTLY shown me that they can take care of me as well as I take care of me".

This is also a great exercise for those who do not want to be so highly affected by the actions and inaction of others 💗

You deserve to be happy. By yourself or surrounded by others, you deserve it 🤗
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19/02/2023

Self love is hard, but self acceptance and doing something nice for yourself is a good place to start 🤗

Check out my podcast Hades Takes on Humanity, episode 20 anywhere you stream your podcasts 💗

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18/02/2023

I want to be good to me because I am gonna be the longest relationship I have in my life. I've GOTTA be good with me. - Hades Takes on Humanity podcast, Episode 20: Make Any Day Your Own

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03/02/2023

Facts are facts even if they're hard to accept 💗

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28/01/2023

I communicate in changed behavior, not guilt trips about my not accepting problematic behavior

I don't expect others to accept unhealthy behavior from me either. There's been times when people have had to take space or step back from me for their own well-being.

Do I like it? No, of course not.

But the things that led up to that decision on their part...that's where I had the choice to move differently and I didn't. Maybe I couldn't. Maybe I wasn't there yet in my growth journey and that's okay. However, no one is obligated to stay close to me if I affect them protecting their peace.

Once I see that they've taken space (because it's often not spoken outright), it's my work to feel those feelings and work through them. MY feelings about their decision is NOT their responsibility. My feelings are mine and their feelings are theirs.

Guilt tripping someone because they didn't make the decision I would have wanted them to make, is manipulation in hopes that they will change their mind in my favor. I don't want to have people in my life because I manipulated them to be here. I want people in my life who want to be here.

I am free to express myself and my feelings, but to intentionally try to cause someone else to feel bad for making the best decision for them? I'm past that. It was a milestone on my journey of self-love and healing and I wish the strength for you if you're trying to get to this milestone as well.

28/01/2023

It's been awhile 🤗

When I do my makeup:

- I feel creative
- I feel like I'm investing time and effort into myself
- I feel like I'm always learning better ways to do it
- I feel like it's okay to make mistakes
- I feel like it's okay if I have to start over
- I feel empowered to be me
- I feel like it's an act of self care
- I feel a different kind of confidence than usual
- I feel gorgeous 🥰

I have always considered makeup my armor. It's a comfort thing, just like wearing your lucky socks or wearing a shirt in your favorite color that adds a little pep in your step when you walk into a room. Not necessary, but it's just a little glimmer in your day 🤩

I am much more comfortable in my own skin when I don't wear it than I used to be. Now I mostly consider it just showing off a different part of myself.

There's nothing wrong with loving or at least accepting all the different versions of yourself, externally or internally 🤗 We can always improve, but that's not the point here.

Those different sides and layers of you make you who you are. Unique. Amazing. Enough. ❤️

14/01/2023

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14/01/2023

Know yourself better and you'll be able to give yourself a better life 💗

If you don't know what you need, like, and don't like, how can you properly "fill your cup" with things that will make you happy and leave out the things that won't?

One of my local besties posted this and I was just thinking about how much work we've done to get to the root of how we were CONTRIBUTING to our own UNhappiness.

It's SOOO much easier to blame another person for our unhappiness, especially a partner. And while they may very well have a part of it, accepting you can only change yourself is a huge first step to taking control of your life and how happy you are.

Once you improve yourself, you more naturally start making better choices in friendships and relationships 🤗 You start seeking out things and people that build you up and help you grow 💗

It's all connected and it's extremely difficult, if not impossible to be unhappy in one facet of your life and be completely content in another.

Make life easier for yourself. You only have the one ❤️

13/01/2023

Loyalty is earned and it is not unconditional. Your well-being and self-respect always come first, especially if someone is putting you in a position where they are asking you to be loyal to the point of self-destruction.

23/12/2022

You have YOU for the rest of your life. So often we worry about people who are in our lives for 2 minutes (sometimes literally) more than we care about how we feel about ourselves. That's just not a way to live 💗

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11/12/2022

Taking this moment to acknowledge how much has happened over the past couple of months. Many good things and some not-so-good things.

Just a reminder to take the time we need to process everything...good and bad, if and when we can 💗

Here's a selfie I snapped as a nice reminder of the nice time visiting the at on my last trip to Vegas with .13 🤗

18/11/2022

Change is inevitable. Make it spectacular, then find people who get you 🤗

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15/10/2022

Especially from the same people and situations 💗

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13/10/2022

The process 😖 The reframe 🙌 👏

Living a better life isn't about ignoring the bad feelings and thoughts, it's about acknowledging them and working through them then landing in a healthier space.

Feeling helpless in hard situations is so easy and don't get me wrong, there are many more things we do not have control over than things we do have control over, but finding those tiny pieces where you can change things, is everything.

"I hate that painting and it has so many negative memories attached to it"...

So why do you keep it?
Put it away.
Give it away.
Throw it away.
Then fill that space with something you love. Something that brings you joy to look at 💜

There are much harder situations behind why you hate that painting, I'm sure 💗💗💗 But start small by creating spaces where you feel safe from the barrage of bad things, then make that space bigger.

Your whole home.
Your social media feed.
Your job.
Your social circle.

Look at everything and ask yourself how it/they really make/s you feel, then do what is needed to create a happier life 🤗

You've got this! 💪

13/10/2022

Inspirational, but make it spooky 🧙🏼🪄🦇🦇🦇

08/10/2022

You have enough information to take at least tiny steps forward. Go now and pick up the rest as you go 🤗❤️

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08/10/2022

Glow baby, glow from your own light 🥰❤️

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08/10/2022

Exactly that 💜

06/09/2022

The right thing to do isn't always the easiest or most popular, but you're the one who has to live with your conscience for the rest of your life 💗

01/09/2022

You've made progress, even if you take a few steps back, don't let that stop you from stepping forward again 🤗💜

25/08/2022

Staying authentic is the most freeing experience 🤗

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