Good Thoughts PH

01/03/2024

I just saw this post in Tiktok, and this hit me hard. I know a lot of my friends or age group can relate.
So here's a DAILY DOSE OF REALITY.

Life is short.
Don't worry too much about the future.
Just live in the NOW.

You'll never know what will happen in the next few days but at least you've done everything to live life to the fullest.
Just choose to be kind always so you'll carry yourself with no extra baggage.
If you have the means to spend, reward yourself as much as you can; eat the food you want to eat, go to places you want to travel, buy the things you want to own, help those who need aid, and pray whenever you need to.

If you are still single at this age, REJOICE! You have the full liberty to love and take care of “YOU”. You are free from worldly responsibilities yet; you only have yourself and the people dear to you to take care of. In the blink of an eye, life may snap. When your fate turns 360, at least you’ve already reached cloud 9 before the eternal gates.
Stay healthy as much as you can.

People come and go so don't worry about those who left, and focus on those who stayed for these are the real people you only need in your life. Be with groups who can contribute to your growth, and build yourselves together. Value those who value you.
Love your parents and do whatever it is that can make them happy. Allow them to experience things they haven't done before when they were busy raising you. Be with your family more, be with those who have loved you first even more. Create good memories with these people, and hold on to it, today until eternity.

Death is inevitable. The question is how much have you lived life to say that you're ready to face it?
Quality of life is important.

09/11/2023

So ME 🤣

29/10/2023

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11/10/2023

"𝐈 𝐖𝐈𝐒𝐇 𝐌𝐘𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐋𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐀 𝐆𝐎𝐎𝐃 𝐌𝐀𝐍"

I wanna see myself someday committed to someone who has mature plans for the future with me. not just a fling, not just for fun but a serious one.
I don't wanna see myself wasting all over and over again those years of mine being with someone who was just good in the beginning.

11/10/2023

𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐂𝐇𝐎𝐈𝐂𝐄, 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐘𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐅𝐀𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐅𝐔𝐋 𝐈𝐒 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎 𝐀 𝐂𝐇𝐎𝐈𝐂𝐄 ❤️

You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet women who are more informed, and you will meet women who act as though they care more than your woman.

Also as a woman, you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive bodies than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talk better than your man;
I mean men who know how to say sweet words, and crack jokes. and more.

Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life.
And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they are. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside.
Learn to appreciate your partner
Love your partner without any reservations.
Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her.
Be satisfied, please.
It takes commitment, self-control, and discipline to stay faithful and believe me it is achievable.
Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage.

Stay Faithful.
One Woman Is Enough!
One Man Is Enough!

08/10/2023

"𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐍𝐄𝐑?

During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angrier subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a DECISION."

CTTO.

20/09/2023

Balang araw hindi na ganito.
Hindi na tayo survival mode.
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Balang araw hindi mo na kailangan makipagsiksikan at pumila ng mahaba sa mga sakayan
Dahil ikaw na magmamaneho ng saraili mong sasakyan.
Balang araw hindi mo na kailangan kabahan at matakot tuwing petsa de peligro
Dahil halos araw or linggo linggo ay may pumapasok na pera sa’yo.
Balang araw hindi mo na kailangang mag dalawang isip kung bibilhin mo ba
Dahil alam mong kayang kaya na at sobra sobra pa.
Balang araw hindi mo na kailangan ma-guilty pumunta sa mga magagandang tanawin ng ikaw lang mag isa habang iniisip kung kailan ko kaya madadala ang aking pamilya
Dahil kayang kaya mo na silang isama at lahat ay libre pa.
Balang araw hindi na tayo survival mode.
Yung tipong babagon at magtatrabaho lang ng dahil sa bayarin.
Balang araw hindi lang lilipas ang araw ng nagtitiis.
Sa pagod, sa hirap, at sa lahat ng kailangang isipin.
Dahil balang araw ay aangat rin.
Gagaan rin at giginhawa rin.
Sa ngayon, magtitiwala at magtitiis.
At maniniwala na balang araw
lahat ng Ito ay magbubunga rin.

19/09/2023

Life is not permanent, so always choose to be happy 🫶

06/09/2023

The power of adopting a different perspective 🌱
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27/08/2023

20 𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐓 𝐋𝚰𝐍𝐄𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐀𝐍 𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐓𝐇𝚰𝐍𝐊𝚰𝐍𝐆 𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐎𝐍.

1. Stop worrying about things you cannot change.
2. Being curious is fantastic, not being anxious.
3. People will always have opinions about you and that's okay.
4. Forgive others, it will bring you peace and happiness.
5. Don't allow your hurtful past to bring you down. Work on current problems that can prevent such situations in the future.
6. There is no perfect time to start. Start now with what you have.
NOW is the perfect time to start.
7. You are capable of making your own decisions. Go on and make that decision.
8. You are liable to make mistakes and that's okay. You are human after all.
9. Overlook minor issues from others sometimes. Not everything is worth your energy.
10. Sometimes your assumptions are wrong so don't stress yourself too much.
11. Let your brain rest, your health is your life.
12. To overthink is a disease.
13. Your focus determines your reality.” – Qui-Gon Jinn
14. Worrying is like paying a debt you don’t owe.” – Mark Twain
15. “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” – Albert Einstein
16. “The more you overthink the less you will understand.” – Habeeb Akande
17. “There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” – William Shakespeare
18. “The sharpest minds often ruin their lives by overthinking the next step, while the dull win the race with eyes closed.” – Bethany Brookbank
19. Overthinking makes you suffer twice.
20. “Stop worrying about what tomorrow may bring. Focus on what you can control. Stay positive. Enjoy today. Expect good things to come.”

14/05/2023

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02/05/2023

"FALL SEVEN TIMES, STAND UP EIGHT" 💪🫵 You Got this.

21/02/2023

🏋️

19/02/2023

14/01/2023

Always trust his plan.🥰

03/01/2023

Yes 👌🏼💯

31/12/2022

𝑯𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒚 𝑵𝒆𝒘 𝒀𝒆𝒂𝒓, 𝑬𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆! ♥️

28/12/2022

"I'm broke."

17/12/2022

𝓜𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓯𝓮𝓼𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓟𝓮𝓪𝓬𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓶𝓲𝓷𝓭.✨

15/12/2022

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐈 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝.💪

15/12/2022

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬😅

06/12/2022

Manifesting ✨🤞