Just Shupp

06/01/2024

Wife's nails today 💜💜🐦‍⬛

06/01/2024

Lets get it! Bear the storm AFC NORTH FOOTBALL! 😈🐦‍⬛💜

06/10/2023

Don't pray for an easy life,
Pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.
💯

26/08/2023

I'm not going to lie... I stress ALOT. I'm not perfect, I'm not living the "dream"... yet but I'm working on it. I get up everyday and battle those what ifs like a swarm of bees overtaking my mind. I feel defeated sometimes, I feel like I am not where I want to be, I worry about my children and their future and what they think of me as a father. I wonder if I am doing enough, I get lonely and discouraged, I want more time with my family and less time at work. I struggle with depression and anxiety but I do it very well as not to impose my own self struggles on others.

It's a battle I fight within my head everyday and it might seem like it's a living hell but it's not...

Perspective is what it is. These are questions that every good man has flying through their minds. These thoughts are what makes the difference. These thoughts are primarily centered around being better than I am or was and my impression on others. These are thoughts someone has who wants to be better and who wants to leave an impact. These are thoughts of a good person... one who cares more for others than they do themselves.

It can get exhausting but... without these thoughts where does progress come from?.

This is me venting as a middle class middle aged (35) cancer dad whose affected by the "way the world is" and more importantly letting others know that life isn't easy it's trying and debilitating at times. Sometimes you want to quit... but the key is that you don't. You still get up everyday and take that breath as a blessing... you still remember that their are people in your life who love you with every inch in their soul... you still remember your mother and father before you and how they poured into you... you still remember cancer trying to defeat your family but never quitting... you still remember that everyone is living through life differently than you are and that Empathy is a great tool to humble yourself.

I am ok, I am alive, I am blessed, I am grateful and I am worthy...

Don't ever let life dim your light. I didn't write this as a cry for help or a way to evoke pity...
I wrote this for those dealing with life and for them to know that it's not always fields of love and gumdrops. It's Hard...

Really hard...
I'm writing this for those who feel they are alone in their battles and they are not. There are alot of people battling demons that don't even put a dent in your situation.

I wish people were more willing to listen to others and reach out, I wish people were more in tune with Empathy and able to put yourself in their situation...
I wish more people understood that we need each other more than people imagine we do.

I wish people understood that if we cared to sit down and talk...
I bet we have ALOT more in common than you might think.

20/01/2023

No you cant.
"With God at my right hand I shall NOT be shaken."

19/01/2023

18/01/2023

IM NOT GONNA SAY LIFES BEEN EASY THE PAST FEW YEARS...Times have been rough, times have been absolutely disorienting and extremely stressful...

Those times are past and I dont live there.

I know life is what you make it but life also throws you under water and pins you there for awhile. Do I quit? No, can I? Sure, but thats not what a MAN who loves others does. I provide, sacrifice and push until I've exhausted all options. THATS HOW I LOVE.

You see... its not the money, the notoriety or any sort of fame at all that I want. Its the feeling I get knowing that I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON MY FAMILY AND "THEY" KNOW THEY CAN DEPENDON ME.

THATS IT! Never will my kids question where my loyalty lies or whats important to me. Its right there in my heart, its what I live for....THEM. I just want to leave a mark on their life. My kids wont see me quit, they wont see me fold because thats not how you GET S**T DONE.

I know its been a massive journey we've been on but I'm not going to let that be my legacy... ITS WHAT I DO AFTER IT THAT MATTERS and I am coming back with a freshly forged sword to let this world and my children know I WONT BE DEFEATED.

"With God at my right hand, I shall NOT be shaken."

18/01/2023

What the hell is even that?!

18/01/2023

The Last of Us on HBO is a masterpiece!
Finally a game brought to screen done right.
So excited for this series

16/01/2023

I mean... If its good for the goose... Last guy got raided... Just sayin. *sips tea*

EQUALITY AND FAIRNESS!

16/01/2023

Damn didnt the FBI raid the last dudes house that had classified info at their house?
Chirp* Chirp*

16/01/2023

2.50 a pack gettem while their hot!

13/01/2023

Some kids have never dipped their chicken nuggies in honey...
And that makes me sad.

12/01/2023

Facts...

24/12/2022

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10/12/2022

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09/12/2022

THIS! ALL OF THIS 🙌🏼

06/12/2022

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05/12/2022

THE COMMENTS THOUGH 🤣🤣🤣💀

22/11/2022

Sheesh... Goodmorning 😁 🌅

17/11/2022

WE ARE ALL STILL SLAVES...

04/09/2022

Idk what looks worse,
*preteen/toddler kids bathrooms
Or
*Frathouse bathrooms

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03/09/2022

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20/05/2022

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with Finally a dance I can do!

09/05/2022

NO FREAKING WAY!

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07/05/2022

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27/04/2022

For nearly the past three years I have been working night shift along with battling leukemia with my youngest daughter and also losing my second parent all before the age of 35. I havent slept next to my wife for more than 2 days or so in that time, I havent been home to kiss my kids goodnight...Some people ask me how I stay motivated and postive... my answer? I give my uncontrollable scenarios to God and just keep faith that it will all work out. To say its been easy doing that is an understatement. On the outside it might look as though life is going pretty well... Nice house, decent vehicles, beautiful wife and gorgeous little girls. What you dont see is the stress, the hurt of missing my family, knowing I am leaving much more responsibility on my wife than she should have to burden, wanting to desperately be with my children more, worrying about how they will be influenced and also how me not being there as much as I could be is affecting them. The burdens of a father are much greater than many see at face value. The ability to have faith and give those worrys to God to work out has been my savings grace... quite literally. As I write this I think back on my years, working my hands to the bone, chasing the dollar etc.... and it hits me once again that God has been molding me to be a much more loving, compassionate, caring and invested father. The time apart has made me realize where my wealth is truly placed... at home, in my children's arms and lives. I can make money whenever I want... but time... how can you make more of that? When its gone its gone...

I am so thankful for the lessons God has taught me recently. The lord Giveth and the Lord taketh away. What I am here to say is dont quit when things get hard because your blessing is coming. Mine is right around the corner. I have accepted a position that will get me back on days and much more intimate time with my family that I so desperately desire. Not only that but without going into too much detail a recent blessing removed that monsterous burden of lingering financial debt beared down on us from the treatments my daughter has had to endure.

Listen GOD IS SO GOOD. When your FAITH is tested its for a reason, you are being forged from iron to steel, sharpened, becoming a weapon to face adversity and laugh in the face of defeat... serve God and he will serve you in his time... when you most desperately need it and you feel all hope is gone.... BOOM! There he is, right on time, everytime... I am, no, WE are so incredibly blessed. Make sure to appreciate those blessings we take for granted. There is much more value in your home than any dollar can ever amount to.

Change is coming and I thank God for breaking me down to build a stronger more resilient and intelligent me. Sometimes when you give what you give... you get what you get.

19/04/2022

Wealth will always=my wife, children and the time we have together. One thing that is priceless is time.
If you consider money wealth you are investing in the wrong things.

19/04/2022

Thinking out loud:
Not everyone you lose is a loss, not all those who have crossed your path were there to have your back. Sometimes we meet people who push us to think in different ways, learn to trust less frequently and be more cautious in how we go about daily lives. Sometimes we were meant to take a lesson of what not to do from it. Always know that we are constantly learning and perceiving in different ways every day but if your not observant you become the victim. Learn to understand that not every smile is genuine, not every handshake true. Always understand that taking the high road is what's best and doing what's right and honest is always the best policy. The hardest decisions one can make in life are those that effect our very wellbeing. Question is if your even debating on a decision as such as that, isn't there a problem? Do what's best and always be loyal to those who were loyal to you. Know what your doing is the right thing and that being able to recognize fault in your actions and fix it is a truly rare artform.

Stay blessed.

17/04/2022

Everything you practice you'll get good at...
Including Bulls #!t. 🤷🏼‍♂️💯